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Seeing a girl who lives far away

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ski_salmon69
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Long story short this girl who lives a few hours away from me admitted she has feelings for me. I really like her but I recognize this likely won’t turn into a relationship. Basically she wants me to come visit her for a few days at her apartment and see where things go.

The problem: my parents would fucking kill me. I really wanna pull this off but I gotta be careful. She’s like begging me to come though
Jun 15 2021 1:36AM
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Notaskibum
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Down bad if I've ever seen it

Go on a "camping trip" with your friends
Jun 15 2021 1:46AM
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ski_salmon69
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NotaskibumDown bad if I've ever seen it


dude i can’t even argue with you on that, i hate that i’ve let it come down to this
Jun 15 2021 1:50AM
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theabortionator
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Some stuff you tell your parents, some stuff you don't...
Jun 15 2021 3:31PM
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Idahoe
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go for it, tell your parents your going on a trip with some friends or something
Jun 15 2021 3:38PM
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ModMommy
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How far away is she?
Jun 15 2021 3:56PM
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ski_salmon69
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safarisamHow far away is she?


like 4 hours 😬
Jun 15 2021 3:58PM
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ModMommy
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ski_salmon69like 4 hours 😬


That's nothing, see if you can do like 2 days or so, say it's a camping trip. How old are you, is that what's making it hard?
Jun 15 2021 4:00PM
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ski_salmon69
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safarisamThat's nothing, see if you can do like 2 days or so, say it's a camping trip. How old are you, is that what's making it hard?


I’m 18, i still live with my parents so idk it’s just hard to pick up and leave. I’ve never done a trip that far away on my own so they’d probably be suspicious.

But ya we were going to try to do like a weekend. I might say I’m going to a bike park which is kinda close by, that might work.
Jun 15 2021 4:10PM
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ModMommy
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ski_salmon69I’m 18, i still live with my parents so idk it’s just hard to pick up and leave. I’ve never done a trip that far away on my own so they’d probably be suspicious.

But ya we were going to try to do like a weekend. I might say I’m going to a bike park which is kinda close by, that might work.


Now's the time to do it dude, you're 18. They might be suspicious but also you gotta do that stuff at some point.
Jun 15 2021 4:13PM
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ski_salmon69
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safarisamNow's the time to do it dude, you're 18. They might be suspicious but also you gotta do that stuff at some point.


Yeah honestly, i’ve been wanting to get out more anyways, I gotta stop worrying about the consequences. I’m looking forward to college since shit like this’ll be so much easier
Jun 15 2021 4:19PM
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MiIfHunter
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Depends, is she giving up her asshole to you?
Jun 15 2021 4:20PM
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switchlip2
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ski_salmon69I’m 18, i still live with my parents so idk it’s just hard to pick up and leave. I’ve never done a trip that far away on my own so they’d probably be suspicious.

But ya we were going to try to do like a weekend. I might say I’m going to a bike park which is kinda close by, that might work.


I was thought you were 15
Jun 15 2021 5:43PM
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ski_salmon69
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switchlip2I was thought you were 15


where tf did you get that from
Jun 15 2021 5:56PM
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Butterytips69
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ski_salmon69where tf did you get that from


You exist on newschoolers so chances of you being 15 are extremely high
Jun 15 2021 6:26PM
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BigPurpleSkiSuit
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If there was ever a, "babe, my parents aren't home" this is it. Just make sure you don't get your kidneys stolen.
Jun 15 2021 6:35PM
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theabortionator
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ski_salmon69Yeah honestly, i’ve been wanting to get out more anyways, I gotta stop worrying about the consequences. I’m looking forward to college since shit like this’ll be so much easier

You're 18, you're going to hang with a girl. You aren't breaking into cars or doing heroin. Sounds like a good opportunity both for the girl and also getting out more.


As far as people saying to tell the parents you're going camping, maybe do that but also get sone camping in this summer. Drive around, see cool places, do fun shit.

Don't stress too much, have some fun this summer.
Jun 15 2021 6:37PM
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TRVP_ANGEL
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Jun 16 2021 2:12AM
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Dan3L
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OP trust me it’s totally worth it because ur gonna get ur dick wet and then you can fantasize being with her after. It’ll pass the time until ski szn. Also why the fuck not that’s pimp as shit. Make sure to show her ZOOTSPACE tho and maybe slide her a CD copy, surefire way to lay pipe
Jun 16 2021 2:25AM
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WoFlowz
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Pee in her butt
Jun 16 2021 7:33AM
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ski_salmon69
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WoFlowzPee in her butt


finally someone said it
Jun 16 2021 8:34AM
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Granby_killdozer
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I dated someone who lives 2 time zones away last year. 4 hours aint shit. You're an adult so do what you want.
Jun 16 2021 11:50AM
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mountbroski
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just get her pregnant then choose how you want to proceed.
Jun 16 2021 11:58AM
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WoFlowz
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Craw_DaddyI dated someone who lives 2 time zones away last year. 4 hours aint shit. You're an adult so do what you want.


Bro how tf I’m scared to tell my parents I wanna see a girl who lives 2 towns away
Jun 16 2021 1:26PM
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ColoradoDogfart
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Man you’ve made like 5 threads about this woman
Jun 16 2021 2:41PM
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ski_salmon69
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ColoradoDogfartMan you’ve made like 5 threads about this woman


believe it or not all them have been about separate women. i probably mentioned this girl in some other thread though
Jun 16 2021 2:59PM
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profa_212
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Craw_DaddyI dated someone who lives 2 time zones away last year. 4 hours aint shit. You're an adult so do what you want.


Lol same here
Jun 16 2021 3:13PM
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Dan3L
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ski_salmon69believe it or not all them have been about separate women. i probably mentioned this girl in some other thread though


OP dawgs bitches confirmed
Jun 16 2021 3:14PM
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armchair_skier
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Used to be in a situation similar to this.

Was w a girl the summer between junior and senior year. I was 17, she was 18 and going to college about 5hrs away from me at the end of the summer. At the time I didn't have my own car and had to borrow one of my parent's. The night before she moved out I told her I would only be able to visit her monthly at best, and basically friend zoned her in the nicest way possible. We kept in touch for about 2 weeks after she left, then I realized I was the one starting all the conversations, and I stopped trying to contact her. I have not heard from her since and that's ok.

OP make up an excuse to leave house for a day or two.

Tell her how it is. If she tries to make you feel guilty about not visiting her enough; leave.

If you want to take this seriously you will have to tell your parents at some point.
Jun 17 2021 7:38PM
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iced
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WoFlowzPee in her butt


pee in an envelope and mail it to her butt
Jun 17 2021 10:02PM
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TheMoostafian
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Don't make me post the picture. You know who I'm talking about
Jun 17 2021 10:10PM
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ski_salmon69
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TheMoostafianDon't make me post the picture. You know who I'm talking about


dude wtf are you talking about
Jun 17 2021 10:10PM
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TheMoostafian
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Jun 17 2021 10:17PM
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dognuts
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**This post was edited on Jun 20th 2021 at 2:27:51pm
Jun 20 2021 2:26PM
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Stolpskott
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ski_salmon69I’m 18, i still live with my parents so idk it’s just hard to pick up and leave. I’ve never done a trip that far away on my own so they’d probably be suspicious.

But ya we were going to try to do like a weekend. I might say I’m going to a bike park which is kinda close by, that might work.

Bring her to the park with you, kill two birds with one stone
Jun 21 2021 6:32AM
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Celery
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Tell them bitch boy
WoFlowzBro how tf I’m scared to tell my parents I wanna see a girl who lives 2 towns away
Jun 21 2021 12:31PM
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ModMommy
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WoFlowzBro how tf I’m scared to tell my parents I wanna see a girl who lives 2 towns away


My dude lives 15 hours away until I can move there, isn’t the worst to make it work.
Jun 21 2021 12:35PM
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PsychicMigration
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But how attractive is she this seems like a drive if It's a beat situation.

**This post was edited on Jun 21st 2021 at 2:21:26pm
Jun 21 2021 2:21PM
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ski_salmon69
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DummyBearsBut how attractive is she this seems like a drive if It's a beat situation.

**This post was edited on Jun 21st 2021 at 2:21:26pm


idk she’s a solid 7
Jun 21 2021 2:28PM
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Celery
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The real question is wether or not you'll get to hold her hand, or if you're really lucky, hug her.
Jun 21 2021 6:59PM
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ski_salmon69
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CeleryThe real question is wether or not you'll get to hold her hand, or if you're really lucky, hug her.


ew premarital hand holding 🤮
Jun 21 2021 7:15PM
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daannnnieel
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so your parents would kill you for taking your own vehicle out of town for a couple days? Or is it their ride?

or are your parents super religious?

I honestly can't see why they would be upset. Sure, it might be weird to tell them that you're going to chill with a girl for a couple of days and all but if you're funding the trip yourself I can see 0 reason why anyone would get weird about this. My parents were always super down for me getting out of town for a few days when I was your age, regardless of the situation.
Jun 21 2021 9:00PM
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daannnnieel
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daannnnieelso your parents would kill you for taking your own vehicle out of town for a couple days? Or is it their ride?

or are your parents super religious?

I honestly can't see why they would be upset. Sure, it might be weird to tell them that you're going to chill with a girl for a couple of days and all but if you're funding the trip yourself I can see 0 reason why anyone would get weird about this. My parents were always super down for me getting out of town for a few days when I was your age, regardless of the situation.


Also, try not to lie to your rents. If you're going on a bike trip, go biking. If you're going to chill with a friend who happens to be a girl, go chill with that girl. Getting caught up in lies isn't cool.
Jun 21 2021 9:02PM
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BradFiAusNzCoCa
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Like this guy said. I did 10 time zones. 4 hours is nothing. You’ll never know if you don’t take that shot. You’ll see when you get older that this is so within reason that it’s silly to even worry about your parents in regards to this.
Craw_DaddyI dated someone who lives 2 time zones away last year. 4 hours aint shit. You're an adult so do what you want.
Jun 22 2021 4:30AM
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percs
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tell her if its real then she would come stay at a hotel in your city

**This post was edited on Jun 22nd 2021 at 5:50:45am
Jun 22 2021 5:50AM
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PsychicMigration
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ski_salmon69idk she’s a solid 7

See that's iffy i would say if her BMI is over 23 it's a no go
Jun 22 2021 1:42PM
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MiIfHunter
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DummyBearsSee that's iffy i would say if her BMI is over 23 it's a no go


Apparently she wears a thong and is “freaky” tho
Jun 22 2021 1:44PM
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PsychicMigration
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MiIfHunterApparently she wears a thong and is “freaky” tho

Skinny girls over thiccc girls every day tho even if they're freaky.
Jun 22 2021 1:45PM
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MiIfHunter
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DummyBearsSkinny girls over thiccc girls every day tho even if they're freaky.


You know it’s just one of those things you gotta ask yourself how badly do u want it. I mean if u wanted it bad enough, I think u would go after it and not make a thread about it
Jun 22 2021 1:52PM
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PsychicMigration
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MiIfHunterYou know it’s just one of those things you gotta ask yourself how badly do u want it. I mean if u wanted it bad enough, I think u would go after it and not make a thread about it

This is a very valid point
Jun 22 2021 1:56PM
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ski_salmon69
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MiIfHunterYou know it’s just one of those things you gotta ask yourself how badly do u want it. I mean if u wanted it bad enough, I think u would go after it and not make a thread about it


i make stupid threads at 2 in the morning, but i mean i got nothing better to do i'm gonna try at least and see how it goes
Jun 22 2021 4:33PM
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