How to deal with asshole kid?

grenHaha just might do.

"Oops you crashed trying to land a 60 fter and broke your arm?... that sucks"

BradFiAusNzCoCaThis made lol

Also, OP, yeah I think it’s because of the weed thing. You played it safe telling your parents and that’s not wrong. Sometimes that’s just how it goes. I wish I had some better advice but just try to keep an upbeat attitude. Ski park and try to vibe on your own. Stay friendly with everyone. Act like you’re above that shit because you are. Unfortunately, it’s the age. Everyone will get over it soon enough.

itzPebbsGrow some balls. If you feel the need to write a paper on NS because kids are being mean to you, maybe you need the bullying to help you grow some thicker skin.

grenSpecifically made this account just to address this issue at my home hill.

Recently their has been a certain kid ive known for a while within a large group of friends that i ski with. The kid has been a straight douche bag too me. Acts like he is the top ship and his shit smells like roses. This is a problem that has been really hard to deal with because I cannot really talk to my friends about it because they are also friends with him. Keep in mind this kid is also a really good skier at my hill. (top 3). Everyone wants to be friends with this kid cuz hes "popular" "cool". Ever since last year when some drama happened. He would always say shit in front of the group ab me to get everyone to basically make a massive circus out of me. I tried speaking to friends about it , but they say hes only joking. I know for a fact he is not joking and hes using "joking" as a cover to not look like a douche bag bully. Ive avoided going to the hill solely cuz of this kid. My skill has decreased while others progress with out me. another problem with it is ill try talking to my friends about it but then they go and blab their mouth at the hill in front of everyone. The rest of the group im super chill with and well know. Whenever the kid is not their ill send and do whatever and talk loud n shit and have fun. Soon as the kid shows up I usually try and dip away to another part of the hill away from the park with a small group of friends. Usually using excuses like lets go hit woods runs n stuff. The reason this kid is mad at me and says shit ab me is because around this time last year our friend group was preparing for a trip to Colorado for 6 days. This kid and his friend are straight stoners also, his other friend did hard drugs such as LSD and shit like that. They decided to say they were going to sneak weed in my parents car when they ride with us to Colorado. They kept relentlessly saying they will. Me being the smart individual not wanting my parent to have charges on his record and possibly end up in prison I manned up and told them about it. My dad thought nothing of it and said he would make sure they wouldn't bring any. My mom on the other hand decided to call the church group we were associated with going to Colorado with. Tell them the whole story and how they were going to bring drugs. THIS completely fucked me in the ass. Although she never admitted it. The church group then had some big meeting saying no drugs n they will check bags n stuff. From then on the kid has been a total asshole and none else says anything about it. Even though multiple people contact me about it and say yo i heard "so and so" seemed pissed at you or something. Keep in mind this is THE most passive aggressive douche bag personality kid you could meet in your life. Always whispering behind your back, convincing your current friends to tell him shit to use against me etc. I'm lost and don't know what to do, I'm really on the verge of just wanting to not go anymore and quit skiing.

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Young_pattyWOW. Lots to unpack here:

1) OP you’re way to specific to be anonymous, anyone who knows you and hangs out here will know it’s you

2) you deadass snitched on a kid for bringing pot that would have been in HIS BAG. As in: not your or your parents problem.

3) you give off heavy Christian narc vibes, maybe just chill out a bit and kids at the ski hill will be nicer to you.

katrinaSo I just realized this... Why would you bring weed TO colorado lol... Its like, friggin everywhere here? Both legally and illegally lol.

GOODY3215Dude all you gotta do is call him on his bullshit in front of everyone. If he starts saying something and it hits you sideways stand up for yourself. “ If you have something to say about me say it to my face” no matter what he says you say “damn dude I would love to understand what’s trying to come out of your mouth but unfortunately I can’t fit my head that far up my ass“. Now understand these are fighting words, but if he really is just a dude on a social power trip he probably won’t do anything. Don’t take shit from anyone you don’t like dude. Can’t go through life letting ppl ruin your good day. Stand up for yourself and most likely you will find o it who your real friends are cause they will respect you for taking a stand.

grenSo bassically, should I just do the good old pop my skis off and say if you got something to say then say it. Man up and fight me rather than saying shit behind my back

katrinaYea but you gotta pop your shirt off first and say "come at me bro"

grenokay would a 5.56 Nato Assault Rifle work also?

katrinaYea but you gotta pop your shirt off first and say "come at me bro"

Young_pattyYeah kid? You gonna pop some dude cause he hurt your feelings after you ratted on him?


Like jeez no wonder they pick on you

grenSatire if you couldn't tell. Going along with the joke he started, Guess you lack the brains to understand that though. I also think you don't entirely understand the situation. It wasn't really about ratting out. It was about not listening to me multiple times and me confronting him about bringing hard drugs plus weed. I had no legal way to check his bags and make sure my family was safe from charges. I'm sure we would have been fine, but in the instance we did get pulled over and he had fuckin LSD or a shit ton of weed in a non legal state then we would have been totally fucked.

**This post was edited on Jan 11th 2021 at 2:31:49am

grenSatire if you couldn't tell. Going along with the joke he started, Guess you lack the brains to understand that though. I also think you don't entirely understand the situation. It wasn't really about ratting out. It was about not listening to me multiple times and me confronting him about bringing hard drugs plus weed. I had no legal way to check his bags and make sure my family was safe from charges. I'm sure we would have been fine, but in the instance we did get pulled over and he had fuckin LSD or a shit ton of weed in a non legal state then we would have been totally fucked.

**This post was edited on Jan 11th 2021 at 2:31:49am

Young_pattyYah maybe you were right about quitting skiing, idk if this sport is for you since you can’t seem to chill out or enjoy skiing on your own


Perhaps your church group has a youth club or something a little more your style

SavageBiffUmmm... fuck legal, legal is not always right, it’s up to rational men, women whether in authority or civilian to assess situations , he has
1-no right to possess drugs, that’s jail “period”except for weed in some states depending on how that cops “feels” that day
2-all YOU need is probable cause, and even without it, no cop, is gonna care about you when the kids got “hard” drugs in his bag, and you obviously had probable cause.
3-I’m all for weed, but it’s trouble especially crossing state lines, you did what was right
4-next time, pour gas on his bag and set it on fire, he gonna call the cops on you for burning his drugs? Either that or remove his bag skis etc from vehicle at rest stop once you cross state lines, either ditch his shit or call the cops on him, not my personal route, I would just have severely beaten the shit outta him already or left carved my edge into his mcl
5-finally, understand that’s your families vehicle, if your family says socks are forbidden , then fucking socks are forbidden! It’s your property!

6-I’m against ratting but in your situation you did right, imagine your dad got pulled over and jailed, think that kid would give a fuck.
7-could always plant fentanyl on him

larilinesignEwww.

No need to remind the group that you're incapable of having female friends, we already know this.

mnosbodHey Op, this comment is a perfect example of how the stereotypical "cool" kids think in that 15-21 range. You said he smokes weed and does drugs and skis well. Of course the kids you think are the older "cool" kids are gonna like him. Partying is cool when you're younger. Partying/Drugs when you're 15-16 can appear to make folks seem older or more mature. No one is dealing with addiction yet and to be fair, drugs can be alot of fun (obligatory wait til your 18/21). Dolan is a douche but his description was a honest representation of how those dudes think. Figure out if you want to be apart of that or not.

Young_pattyYeah kid? You gonna pop some dude cause he hurt your feelings after you ratted on him?


Like jeez no wonder they pick on you

SavageBiffI brought a bag on my last trip there, it’s a 28 hour friggin ride, but I checked with the driver of the vehicle (myself) and we are all in agreement, that it was ok and we toked the whole way there

grenSatire if you couldn't tell. Going along with the joke he started, Guess you lack the brains to understand that though. I also think you don't entirely understand the situation. It wasn't really about ratting out. It was about not listening to me multiple times and me confronting him about bringing hard drugs plus weed. I had no legal way to check his bags and make sure my family was safe from charges. I'm sure we would have been fine, but in the instance we did get pulled over and he had fuckin LSD or a shit ton of weed in a non legal state then we would have been totally fucked.

**This post was edited on Jan 11th 2021 at 2:31:49am

DolanReloadedYeah because youre so smart op, young patty isnt on your level of intelligence so he doesnt get your high iq joke.

if you are so smart op it surprises me that you would think you are entitled to be respected by people who you pointlessly ratted out.

way to keep your father safe op, you did the right thing lol

if cops found a fucking bag of grass in a kids bag your father would go to jail for the rest of his life haha.

you are a hero and you should receive the medal of honor!

go find a new group a friends with high intelligence like you op

this group of friends you are complaining about is obviously not smart enough or mature enough to realize that ratting out your friends is always the best thing to do, ESPECIALLY if you want them to show you respect!!!

By the way, check the batteries in your sarcasm meter, just in case your not as smart and clairvoyant as you expect everybody to think you are lol

grenIf you know by law. Many states leave the drivers responsible. I don't know if you have ever had a father figure in your life and/or if you even have loving family, but family is always first and safety of yourself before others. Considering your a very self reliable and stuck up person who is confident about their ability you can relate to putting yourself first before others.

I cant personally say whether or not your liked around here, but what I can see about your karma (no idea if it affects ur rep) that you're not very well liked around here. Not once did I say the people I ski with are stupid or low intelligence. I was specifically stating this guy couldn't take a joke much like you cant either.

Also all my other friends thought nothing of it and acted like friends. I don't know what kind of low life idiots you hang around but i can sure guarantee. You have been bullied before just by the way you act and are probably picking on kids on the internet to escape your abusive childhood or life. I don't know, at this point I do not understand fully why you are still commenting here. I can see satire in it and the sarcasm, but I see no actual point here. I made this thread for relatable problems or answers as to what I should do.

I again fully understand how smacking someone in the face with reality can benefit them and help them wake up from being the person they are, and being harsh and gruel about it. But I just see straight up Class A douche bag vibes from you.

I made sure my batteries are good. I have 3 Triple A batteries fresh from Walmart I replaced last night. Thanks for reminding me, but I'm not entirely sure you have checked your. Mainly from the fresh fact that you didn't understand my blatantly obvious joke . I bet your fun at parties. Now before you say the most predictable answer to what I just said. Let me stop you right there. One I "Ratted", "Snitched" solely on the fact that someone I cared about could have been in deep trouble. Now before you say why do you care if your dad got in deep shit about it. One reason as to why that is, is because he owns 7 Businesses and a hurt reputation with a drug crime and other shit could badly hurt families revenue and life. Family > Others.

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DolanReloadedYeah kid you are so much better than me. Look at dolans karma!....You are obviously so much cooler than me and more knowledgeable.



by the way, i had the same thing happen to me and my dad as a kid. My dad was driving me and my friends across state lines to a ski resort. My friend had put a bag of marawanas in a condom and shoved it up his ass to avoid detection.

my dad, being smart and not wanting to go to jail for the rest of his life, wasnt happy just doing a bag search of all the kids bags.

So he asked my friends go pull their pants down and he plunged his arm deep up my friends assholes, one by one, until he was sure they didnt have marawanas hidden up their asses.

the kids had to go to counseling after the trip, but thats just life. It would have been far worse for this friend of mine to get away with bringing marawanas to a ski resort. I mean, marawanas is dangerous illegal drugs. One of the kids might have taken the marawanas and died.

Or if my dad got pulled over by the cops, the cop might have asked my dad “sir did you reach deep inside the asses of each of these kids to make sure they didnt have drugs?”

if my dad said no then the cops would have searched the kids asses looking for drugs and found the marawanas. Then my dad wouldve gone to jail for life just because he was afraid to full nixon the asses of a few children.

We should be friends on facebook grendel. You sure are a winner i can tell you that much.

DolanReloadedYeah kid you are so much better than me. Look at dolans karma!....You are obviously so much cooler than me and more knowledgeable.



by the way, i had the same thing happen to me and my dad as a kid. My dad was driving me and my friends across state lines to a ski resort. My friend had put a bag of marawanas in a condom and shoved it up his ass to avoid detection.

my dad, being smart and not wanting to go to jail for the rest of his life, wasnt happy just doing a bag search of all the kids bags.

So he asked my friends go pull their pants down and he plunged his arm deep up my friends assholes, one by one, until he was sure they didnt have marawanas hidden up their asses.

the kids had to go to counseling after the trip, but thats just life. It would have been far worse for this friend of mine to get away with bringing marawanas to a ski resort. I mean, marawanas is dangerous illegal drugs. One of the kids might have taken the marawanas and died.

Or if my dad got pulled over by the cops, the cop might have asked my dad “sir did you reach deep inside the asses of each of these kids to make sure they didnt have drugs?”

if my dad said no then the cops would have searched the kids asses looking for drugs and found the marawanas. Then my dad wouldve gone to jail for life just because he was afraid to full nixon the asses of a few children.

We should be friends on facebook grendel. You sure are a winner i can tell you that much.

grenAMAZING story dude! Next time before you comment make sure to check your ego isnt bigger than your own dick you clown.
https://www.newschoolers.com/videos/watch

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grenSatire if you couldn't tell. Going along with the joke he started, Guess you lack the brains to understand that though. I also think you don't entirely understand the situation. It wasn't really about ratting out. It was about not listening to me multiple times and me confronting him about bringing hard drugs plus weed. I had no legal way to check his bags and make sure my family was safe from charges. I'm sure we would have been fine, but in the instance we did get pulled over and he had fuckin LSD or a shit ton of weed in a non legal state then we would have been totally fucked.

**This post was edited on Jan 11th 2021 at 2:31:49am

itzPebbsGrow some balls. If you feel the need to write a paper on NS because kids are being mean to you, maybe you need the bullying to help you grow some thicker skin.

KaneDogHere's an easy solution: Become the videographer of the group, go hard making the sickest insta clips of the kids you're cool with. It will make you more popular and you'll get closer with the people you like/continue skiing with people. When dbag asks you to make an edit for him (inevitably if you make some decent stuff) shut him down in front of everyone. How do you think eheath made it?