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If you love skiing do not date a skier.

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Danny.Loughery
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I'm writing this to help people avoid what I am going through as well as hoping writing this down will help me feel better. I met a girl back in January and I thought that we hit it off pretty quickly. I learned that she was a skier with a lot of knowledge about the industry which instantly got my interest. Although we lived a good distance away from each other we would ski every weekend as well as travel around Colorado together. After about 6 months of being together I thought that everything was going good and I was really starting to get feelings for her. Then a couple weeks ago she took a trip west to mount hood with her girl friend. Talking to her on the phone almost every day I thought nothing of it when she told me about a dude she was skiing with that I had heard about before. After a week and a half out west she came back and I went to visit her excited to see a girl I started caring a lot about. Not too long into hanging out with her I saw him blowing up her phone and it later got revealed she hooked up with him and slept with him. Almost instantly I saw the interest she showed for me disappear. I have never been so devastated in my life. It would be one thing if it was just a normal girl but this cut me deep. She left my ass and as far as I know they are together now. Mount hood is one of my favorite places on earth and now every time I see a picture or video from there it makes me sick. It has ruined something that makes me happier than anything. So to all of you wishing for a skier girl friend, from my personal experience it is a bad idea. Keep skiing and your love life separated. Believe me it fucking sucks.

**This thread was edited on Jun 18th 2018 at 4:16:49pm
Jun 15 2018 4:12PM
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Danny.Loughery
Posts: 93 - Karma: 1,284
snowpocalypseCounter point
I was working in a shop 12 years ago when I met this not so chill chick. She was a rad skier and was the manager of the softgoods department. I was the new guy running the shop and hardgoods side of things so we had to work together most day. In the beginning, she was a hard ass chick. Didn't put up with shit. The shop crew road together most nights and partied after. Soon I was hoping for the slow ass 2 seat chair just to get some alone time together. Fast forward 12 years..... We are married, have a kid and still is one of my favorite riding buddies.

Sorry for your heartache.
You can teach someone how to ski
You can't teach someone how not to be a bitch.

Pick the right person and the rest will fall into place


Gives me hope man.
Jun 18 2018 4:19PM
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theabortionator
Posts: 51260 - Karma: 157,386
I feel like finding out to what extent you were "together" is very relevant. At least before everybody says fuck that girl or whatever.

Were you dating, were you fwb, did you hook up once, were you just friends?
Jun 18 2018 4:38PM
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Mingg
Posts: 13936 - Karma: 48,465
Dan.LocksThanks for the good vibes everyone it was nice to get everyone take on it. Even though it hurts I refuse to let a girl ruin skiing for me.


Amen brother
Jun 18 2018 5:36PM
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Denseclouds
Posts: 495 - Karma: 2,843
Nice to see the community come together to help a man who’s down. I was sleepin with a chick for like 3 months til one day she said was visiting a friend on the east coast, It was some other 30+yr old doctor, who she went to fuck. I’m a 24 year old ski bum. Bottom line is heartbreak hurts, and there will always be a conniving bitch out there who’s responsible, avoid this by focusing on yourself and never chasing a hoe! When the time is right, a respectful loving female will come along.
Jun 18 2018 5:48PM
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tsingtaofanatic
Posts: 3344 - Karma: 4,579
Dan.LocksI'm writing this to help people avoid what I am going through as well as hoping writing this down will help me feel better. I met a girl back in January and I thought that we hit it off pretty quickly. I learned that she was a skier with a lot of knowledge about the industry which instantly got my interest. Although we lived a good distance away from each other we would ski every weekend as well as travel around Colorado together. After about 6 months of being together I thought that everything was going good and I was really starting to get feelings for her. Then a couple weeks ago she took a trip west to mount hood with her girl friend. Talking to her on the phone almost every day I thought nothing of it when she told me about a dude she was skiing with that I had heard about before. After a week and a half out west she came back and I went to visit her excited to see a girl I started caring a lot about. Not too long into hanging out with her I saw him blowing up her phone and it later got revealed she hooked up with him and slept with him. Almost instantly I saw the interest she showed for me disappear. I have never been so devastated in my life. It would be one thing if it was just a normal girl but this cut me deep. She left my ass and as far as I know they are together now. Mount hood is one of my favorite places on earth and now every time I see a picture or video from there it makes me sick. It has ruined something that makes me happier than anything. So to all of you wishing for a skier girl friend, from my personal experience it is a bad idea. Keep skiing and your love life separated. Believe me it fucking sucks.

**This thread was edited on Jun 18th 2018 at 4:16:49pm


Sorry to hear that dude. Sending prayers to ya
Jun 18 2018 6:04PM
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