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Byron_tha_gr8I mean its realizing you have a reason to be confident. And yeah just being able to talk to girls as people so much easier about anything makes everything easier. Idk how i would have learned that otherwise.
Sno.yes. you can be friends with her.
my now husband and I dated several times off-and-on when we were super young. we remained best friends throughout our adult lives and now we're married. why cut her friendship out of your life if you have love for her? keep those worth keeping close--regardless of their "status" in your life.
parkplaygroundInsanely similar position OP. Had the best possible breakup I have heard. Best relationship I'd ever heard of too. I went to college and she didnt wanna do long distance. I hooked up with some girls and felt empty and guilty and I learned Im kinda crazy since I couldn't handle my emotions and we had to mutually block eachother on everything and still have the same feelings now (7 months later) that I did the day I left for school. Been trying to find someone else but damn everyone's just dick hungry man.
In my situation, a good breakup made it harder. I dont have a single negative to say about my ex and it makes it harder to forget and move on since its hard to believe theres anything better than what I had.
I tried to be friends with her but I accepted that I could never be just friends. Dont lie to yourself if you are the same way because it just made things complicated and difficult.
Just know that if you end up moving on faster than I am you are making progress even if it doesnt feel like it.
.lenconWhat if you love her and want to put in effort, but she's not putting a lot of effort back?
Byron_tha_gr8I have this ex that will relentlessly try to get in touch with me, visit me or have me visit her, and talk about how she misses our sexy times. Then once I start responding she gets bored and starts talking about other guys she's seeing and asking for relationship advice.
Basically try's to treat me like a close friend, which we haven't been at all. Eventually I just stopped responding to her but she still hits me up. And always in a kind, friendly, non-sexual way, asking how i'm doing and that we should ski together.
Idk how to deal. She knows she can get me hookup with her if she persists long enough. She has literally showed up at my door at 2am wearing nothing. So many mixed messages I really don't care about figuring out, but they're constantly shoved in my face.
FKS_HEEL_PIECEhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qlu4KrK3Pqc
tomatonaterQuestion. I gotta girl that loves me and I feel the same way, but her parents are strict AS FUCK. What can I do to get her folks to accept me?
Byron_tha_gr8under 18? hang out at school, accept you aren't going to get any easy sex and whatever you do will come with the slight risk of her parents finding out. Over 18? Princess is gonna be doing plenty of hooking up regardless of parents, make sure youre high on the list.
No matter how strict parents are, kids will do what they want, especially when it comes to relationships and sex.
tomatonaterQuestion. I gotta girl that loves me and I feel the same way, but her parents are strict AS FUCK. What can I do to get her folks to accept me?
SammyDubzFuck her in front of her parents to establish dominance
SammyDubzFuck her in front of her parents to establish dominance
doublecupdont u think that a parent has a responsibility from preventing or at least advising a child that they should have teenage sex?
Byron_tha_gr8yes... Her dad should be like "aight she's gonna be banging dudes. But she's into this one dude, he's pretty chill, and if they stay together she'll only be banging ONE dude." So yeah, parents should encourage healthy sexual relationships.
doublecupwell what if the parents don't want their kids fucking in the house
shouldn't a parent be able to tell their child that they don't want them having sex in their house, I mean it is their house, so their house their rules
i'm pretty sure a dad doesn't want to walk into his child's bedroom to find a guy balls deep in his daughters pussy
Byron_tha_gr8And he probably wants to hear less that she has HIV and is preggo with a stranger's kid. Encourage fucking, or watch her get fucked.
doublecupAll I am saying is that if I was a parent I would not want my kid fucking in the house.
Byron_tha_gr8and im saying as a parent i'd rather have my kid fucking in the house than fucking unsafely.