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ECboarder698
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my gf found out she has cancer. she tries to act like evrything is fine, but its not. i dont know what to do. i love her so much
Jan 21 2005 4:12PM
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Utahpowderskier
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what kind?
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Jan 21 2005 4:15PM
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ECboarder698
Posts: 192 - Karma: 10
breast
Jan 21 2005 4:17PM
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*ELLA*
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her acting like its fine is just her way of reassuring herself that shes goin gto be okay... she doesn't actually feel like everythings fine she just wants to say that to comfort herself... don't press the matter or anything, just be supportive... the only good thing i can tell you is that breast cancer is one of the more curable types of cancer... how old are you and your chick?
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Jan 21 2005 4:25PM
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ECboarder698
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to Spyderxtra789: ur absolutly disgusting, and im guessing u dont have a gf

and im 18, and she'll be 17 in a month i think
Jan 21 2005 4:31PM
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*ELLA*
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thats a young age to get cancer... also learn your girlfriends birthday
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Jan 21 2005 4:35PM
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ECboarder698
Posts: 192 - Karma: 10
she got it from her mom...genetic i guess
Jan 22 2005 8:35AM
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SnowKristaL
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:( my mom had breast cancer and my grandma on her side died of it...i am sorry for your girlfriend and you, the good news is now a days breast cancer is the #4 most curable cancer and everyday they are finding new things to help. i hope you guys are ok.




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Jan 22 2005 12:28PM
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ArmadaFreerider8
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sypderextra you are complete dumbass. I'm really sorry to hear but your g/f man. ^What is the #1 most curable cancer?
Jan 22 2005 12:31PM
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SnowKristaL
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I believe it's testicular and I know ovarian is up there too. Anything that can be removed are the easiest to cure (obviously)




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Jan 22 2005 12:33PM
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EastcoastAR5
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good luck man
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Jan 22 2005 12:40PM
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hucker22
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jerry: 'whats the deal with cancer?'
man in crowd: 'hey i have cancer!'
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Jan 22 2005 1:07PM
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Lateralis
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breast cancer?? how old is she??



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Jan 22 2005 5:58PM
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ECboarder698
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17...i think her mom got it when she was really young too. god im so scared, wtif it spreads to her lungs or something? the weird thing is she doesnt want ppl to know. im like one of the few outside her family.
Jan 22 2005 6:08PM
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Lateralis
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17 eh........dude if it is true and im not sayin that it isnt cuz you never know, strange things happen nowadays but 17 is young to get breast cancer but thats just going by statistics so dont get all bitchy with me. if i was in your position i dunno what i would do i mean ive been with my gf for 4 years so hearing that would be heartbreaking even though there always is a good percentage of survival depending on the kind and how much it has spread and etc... but since its breast cancer the worst thing that could happen is they'll amputate one of her breasts



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Jan 22 2005 6:14PM
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ECboarder698
Posts: 192 - Karma: 10
couldnt care less about that. i just want her to live. i dunnp what id do if she died
Jan 22 2005 6:22PM
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Lateralis
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hopefully she will live



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Jan 22 2005 6:25PM
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weazelzb
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thats rough man...



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Jan 22 2005 7:33PM
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SaraJ
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I'm sorry for you dude, I really hope she gets better!

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Jan 22 2005 7:39PM
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reeski
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she will be fine, that really sucks though, I feel for you man. Take care
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Jan 22 2005 7:43PM
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Planet_Captain
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What have the doctors said about it? If it's very early stages of it, which I would assume it is based on her age, then she will probably be fine. I'm sorry though, I hope it all works out.

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Jan 22 2005 7:45PM
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g-dawg
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yo yo yo, g, wutup. good news guy, the survival rate for breast cancer is like 96%
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Jan 22 2005 11:33PM
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mackinnon
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that sucks, just be as supportive as you can and do everything you can to make sure she's comfortable...and like, don't make a big deal out of it if she's trying to keep it on the DL or whatever i guess
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Jan 23 2005 3:01PM
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LittleDevil720
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that sucks man, u can always to recronstructive surgery..



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Jan 23 2005 3:46PM
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*BeckyK*
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that sucks... but be supportive, and don't freak out if she has to go through chemo or something because thast will make it even worse
Jan 23 2005 3:48PM
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B-Wald
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my parent's friend just went through breast cancer. she's doing just as well as ever now. your girlfriend'll live through it.
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Jan 23 2005 5:22PM
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ECboarder698
Posts: 192 - Karma: 10
i get the feeling that its worse than it is. she looks fine, acts perfectly normal, like nothings wrong. that just makes it harder for me. yea, it prob helps her, but theres no else, like othere ppl i know, who know. she has a frend in falmouth, where she lives who might know, but the kid doesnt believe it. ive talked to him too. i dont get it why she does this? is it worse than she telling me?
Jan 23 2005 5:30PM
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ECboarder698
Posts: 192 - Karma: 10
?????
Jan 24 2005 3:05PM
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Kevo
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Hey man I am really sorry to hear that. You should really sit down and talk with her and tell her how much you care about her and that you want to know exactly how bad it is. Oh, and I think it is good that she has a positive attitude. I just saw this news story that people with good attitudes are more likely to survive serious diseases. Just make sure that she isn't lying to herself.
Jan 24 2005 4:08PM
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ScratchCobra66
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Dude i promise you, she will be ok. Just think that way, and everything will be ok, i promise you man, she and everything will be ok. just smile and tell her that you will be with her through everything and offer her everything that you have. Im sure you have already done that though.


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Jan 24 2005 4:14PM
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nilzlet
Posts: 1892 - Karma: 16
my uncle has cancer, and hes gonna die within 3 years tops. Im not really close to him, but I can really fell for you.



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Jan 24 2005 6:24PM
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TheClap.
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my grandad, grandmother, uncle, Aunt died of cancer so hopefully they found it early and can send it into remission
Jan 24 2005 6:27PM
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SteezePatrol
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96% of breast cancer patients in the world survive...the world, that means even in the poverty countries the survival rate is high...so if you guys live in canada or the states or europe the survival rate is prolly more like +98%. and of the 2% of people that die from breast cancer, they are almost always old or suffering from other problems like malnutrition...so tell her and yourself not to worry. just chillax dude
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Jan 24 2005 6:33PM
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Freeskier22
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my grandmothers breatscancer just went intermission because of a new procedure. Breast cancer is very common, which is why they are focusing so much on curing it, nowadays there are so many medical wonders out there that could help her. I'll pray for her, best of luck.
Jan 24 2005 6:33PM
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Adamskinick
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good luck with everything dude.
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Jan 24 2005 6:33PM
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SteezePatrol
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oh and let her treat react in whatever way she wants to, if you like force her to takl about it or something like that you might get into some deep shit
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Jan 24 2005 6:36PM
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ECboarder698
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yea, i guess i shouldnt try to force her into telling me. thanks tho
Jan 25 2005 1:21PM
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SnowKristaL
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Girls like being talked to about serious stuff but you have to let her come to you. I hope she's doing better.

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Jan 25 2005 2:13PM
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