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I think i have hit rock bottom.

My mother died yesterday from breast cancer after 7 years. the funeral is tomorrow.

Looking for something to bring me up out of this .
12 years ago
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Damn dude, sorry to hear about your loss. Cancer is a nasty son of a bitch that rarely shows remorse, your mom must have been a trooper to have made it 7 years. +++Vibes
12 years ago
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Phil-X-
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Really sorry to hear that, but why the alias for this thread
12 years ago
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Horsefacekillah
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+++kk VIBES

12 years ago
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bfulmer
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ns is probably not the right place for this...

that said, vibes all around.
12 years ago
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Aidan-G
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NS has it's moments.

Dude that sucks. I don't have any advice except for you just have to keep moving. The pain won't leave but it'll subside and things will get better. Here's to better times. vibes
12 years ago
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Chubbs.
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Always look towards the future. She is in a better place with no suffering.
Vibes
12 years ago
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NoBigDeal
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stay strong. you will get through this rough time. things like this make us stronger and help us become better people
12 years ago
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KravtZ
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father passed 2 years ago...terrible but makes you a better person. Makes you appreciate the little things you will understand in time.
12 years ago
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theBearJew
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Sorry for your loss. Must have been a strong woman to battle cancer for 7 years.
12 years ago
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J-Wile
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I'm so sorry dude. My aunt died of breast cancer a few years ago too. I know it's hard, but it does get better. It may take a long time but I promise it will get better.
12 years ago
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El_Barto.
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Once the snow starts falling you can get on your skis. It will be soon.

Skiing is my thing. The thing I do when I need to escape from reality, the thing I do when I need to smile. Im sure most of NS is the same way. Get on them skis my friend
12 years ago
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pmw
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Stay strong
12 years ago
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bighooch
Posts: 349 - Karma: 2,062
That's tough man, so sorry to hear about it. You'll get through this, thoughts and prayers out to you and your family. NS is here for you.
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Benson.
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Solid advice right here. Stay strong man, I lost my grandmother to cancer. Obviously not the same as losing your mother, but it still hurt. You will get past this and will be a better person because of it. Try to stay positive with the knowledge that she is in a better place and is no longer suffering. You'll get through this, vibes. :)
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Mr.Huck
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My heart goes out to you. Hope you have some friends and family to hang out with for awhile. Nothing wrong with leaning on people at a time like this.
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Mr.Sloth
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OP, a good friend of mine lost his mother to breast cancer a few years ago. He became one of the most driven and focused individuals I know. Push through this, you'll come out a stronger man.
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Bart.Man
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It's shitty, and people telling you otherwise doesn't help, I know. I lost my dad to pancreatic cancer five months ago yesterday. Looking back on it I never thought I'd make it this far, and I still have so much farther to go. I know generic terms of endearment mean next to nothing, but know from someone who's experienced it recently, it's shitty, but it continues to get slightly less shitty every day after a certain point. Hold strong, and if you feel like venting, cussing at, or just talking to a complete stranger that might me able to help,drop me a message any time.
12 years ago
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Ribss.
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OP, I feel you pain. My Mom is still with me today but she has Lymphoma. Cancer is a long scary road and times like these really make you realize what's important in your life. Try and remember that time heals most wounds and I know your mother would not want you moping around. She would want you to heal and grow from the whole process.
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daannnnieel
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Keep your head up, and don't ever question the fact that she's in a better place now. It's shitty now, and that's normal. Just keep your eyes on the future and believe me, things will get better with time.

Keep your head up man, and move on.
12 years ago
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DENIM_CHICKEN
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Keep your head up dude. One of my neighbors moms died of brain cancer last year too. It was one of the saddest things I have ever witnessed and cancers a bitch. Vibes


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AT-AT
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Sorry for your loss man. I know this wont change the fact, but this video always picks me up.
12 years ago
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edai
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shit im sorry man, keep your head up
12 years ago
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yuck
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7 years is a hell of a fight man, im sorry for your loss. cant imagine what it must be like to lose a parent

+ big time vibes
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walterson
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i lost my grandmother to breast cancer last january. op, your mother will live on through the memories that you have of her. keep grinding just like she did.

vibes homie, stay up
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