well to start im 19 y/o and come from a very strong annoyingly catholic family. my dad has basically had it planned out that since birth i will automatically be as strongly into the catholic lifestyle as he is and there will be no deviation from it. Me myself, now 19 do basically not give 2 shits about there ridiculously strong beliefs, but i do respect them and go to church with them when they ask (which is a whole other topic because i shouldn't be forced to do something religiously that i don't believe in) part of there beliefs as many of you know is they are very anti- sex which hasn't been much of a conflict for me and them until now. For the most part they haven't had any idea about my girlfriends and the people ive slept with.
so my parents are away for most of this week to go to a cabin they rented. i think cool one night ill have my fwb come spend the night. So as my parents were leaving yesterday i told my brother mike (he is 16 and the lamest kid ever. hes a huge pothead who sits home all day every day has no job, friends, future, ect) that i was having a girl over to hang for awhile and maybe spend the night and that she wont bother him and he will probably not even see her. he flips shit for some reason because he doesn't like it when i have people over and deffinitly doesn't want them to sleep over. I tell him this girl id going to come over for 5 mins then were going to go on a hike and then well come back to my room and sleep. like he will never even hardly see her so it doesn't affect him in any way. He continues to flip shit and tell my dad who is in a bad cocksuckin mood for some reason and calls me and tells me no girls better be in my room and that its against our faith and catholic bs excuses. I change my story to a few guys are coming over to hangout and have a fire to defuse his shit and he lets it go.
so as originally planned girl comes over we go on hike, we come back to my house hide outside from my brother around the fire have a few brews (he doesn't know about this) then we go inside slip into my room without bothering my brother and fuck for like an hour and then go to sleep. We didn't bother him all night. This morning the girl left early for work and then i go back to sleep. i wake up an hour ago to my brother telling me he called dad to tell him i had a girl over for the night and that dad said im in huge trouble. and hes going to try and take my car away and shit that will highly affect me like that.
As of now when they come home to bitch at me i plan on saying there was another guy with me and the girl and that we didn't have sex or anything and just went to sleep to try and diffuse this a little bit because they are so anti sex this should help. I was also thinking of just packing my bags and taking the my car that i pay insurance, gas, and payed for in whole so its 95% mine except when something breaks and it needs expensive repair and going away to a friends house or to a place to camp for the next few days to show im fucking serious about not dealing with them for something that shouldn't even be a big deal and that i shouldn't have even be ratted out for. I need my car to work and to go surfing and do the things i love and im not letting my first college summer get ruined over something that shouldn't even be a big deal.
What do you think i should do to fix or diffuse this? im so mad i cant even think right now and i need an idea fast.
Also idk what to do with my brother. he is a piece of shit snitch for no reason and i cant believe he would get me in this much trouble for something that's not even bad and doesn't affect him. im like in rage right now