If you're going to drink a bunch and puke on each other and be unconscious in the lot at 3 in the after noon, that's massively gay.
I'm not a big fan of the music, but every member of that band is ridiculously talented. Carter Beauford is a really underated drummer. If you get down to dmb and go for the music, that's fucking awesome.
IF you don't even like music in general but go to hammered with a bunch of frat bros, drink too much, and puke on each other, probably piss you pants before show time, that's just fucking gay.