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easy.steezy
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First off I'm 17 and a junior in high school, so I know that I have a lot of life left to live and a lot more chances with women.

 However, this is the shittiest I've possible ever felt, ever (besides family deaths).  My girlfriend of just over 4 months cheated on me.  She left her facebook up on my computer and I saw she was having a convo with her ex.....turns out they fuck all the time and shit like that.  Clicking on that convo was the turning point of the past half year of my life.  Everything went from being perfect to me feeling like I was gonna throw up.  She's been completely normal our entire relationship, and I never would've guessed that she'd do this.  I'm obviously gonna break up with her, and that's about the only resolve I can make as of now.

So my question to Newschoolers is this:  what single, precise moment in your life, whether it be big or small, changed everything?  Whether it be life-altering or just a shitty circumstance like mine.   
Mar 19 2012 11:25PM
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[evan]
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Yea I guess, yesterday was rough I apologize for that earlier post OP.

It's not something to discuss over the internet, especially NSG, I just havent told any friends and it feels good to talk to somebody other than family.
Mar 20 2012 5:32PM
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Tent
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Turning point of my life- when my house burnt down.
Mar 20 2012 5:32PM
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WillStart
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you forgiving her=her realizing she can probably get away with it again


once a cheater, always a cheater.
Mar 20 2012 5:43PM
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FBGM
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Oh man I cried so much haha. How long has it been?
Mar 20 2012 5:54PM
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easy.steezy
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Wow, I just typed up this thread last night in a pissed off frenzy and then went to bed.  I can definitely say that it's made me feel a lot better!  Thanks for the support guys, this is why I love newschoolers!

And I saw her after school today, and we kinda half broke up.. and I'm gonna talk to her ex soon and see if I can straighten shit out.  I just didn't have the balls to dump her, I care about her too much.  But she's lost all of my trust, so I doubt that I can stand this much longer.
Mar 20 2012 5:54PM
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tripnip
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you sir... are right... I'm going to Mexico all next week and hopefully I won't get back together with her.
Mar 20 2012 6:01PM
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Logey.
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I would lose all my shit and go on a murderous rampage if my girlfriend cheated on me. But she wont cause shes awesome. True story
Mar 20 2012 6:01PM
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Willgum
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I think you missed the goal of this thread. he's asking us about our low points in our lives, nott ways to get revenge
Mar 20 2012 6:02PM
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Deluge
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fuck yes.
Mar 20 2012 6:06PM
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JakeAssBeatClap
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Just break up with her, don't even take the time to talk to the ex. Unless you are so fired up you wanna kick his ass. But thats not very smart.

SO just end shit with your cheating skeez of a "half broken up" girlfriend, get drunk with your buddies, and go get some strange this weekend.
Mar 20 2012 6:07PM
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tripnip
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my issue is I forgave her. then like today I keep finding it more and more details about it. I still like her a ton and she has been so nice to me. one older side to getting back is you get a get out of jail free card.
Mar 20 2012 6:12PM
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easy.steezy
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My exact thoughts about my girlfriend.  She's just so different from every other girl that I've dated.  She's so personable and everyone loves her. 

Of course every girl is different, so I hope to god that yours is as awesome as you say she is!
Mar 20 2012 6:13PM
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.AR6rider.
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Bang it out with her one last time and break up with her as you pull out and blow your load in her eyes. Then you can laugh at her as the salty mixture of tears and semen is streaming down her face.

Mar 20 2012 6:13PM
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PopsicleStand
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pics?
Mar 20 2012 6:21PM
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WillStart
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false.


see: woman logic thread.
Mar 20 2012 6:24PM
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laurence^
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Let me hit you with the cold hard facts that will save you from a lot of useless back and forth:

Shes not different
She been banging another man for a while
Cheating on your current with your ex is such a cop-out
Go out and buy a handle of hard alcohol some weed and some cigs or dip to get you through the hard stuff
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Drop the motherfucking hammer on this bitch


One day you'll laugh about all this and realize there are much better situations and scenarios to get involved with

You only live once bru, don't waste it being too nice to people, they will walk the fuck over you without remorse or hesitation
Mar 20 2012 6:35PM
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easy.steezy
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Ahhhh, I guess you guys are right.  ^^
Mar 20 2012 7:21PM
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.AR6rider
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Dawg hard truth is she does not feel the same way about you as you do her, she's been fucking cheating on your ass. Cheating is the ultimate sign of disrespect in a relationship and if you keep dating her youre pretty much allowing yourself to be bitchmade by your slutty gurl, your better off ditching her hombre
Mar 20 2012 7:35PM
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NSwidow
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Do you want this drama in your life?
If you don't mind, then stay with her. Who cares?

If you don't want drama, then get rid of her. People complain about the drama like this in their lives, BUT IT'S YOUR LIFE! You're responisble for it. If there is drama in your life, you're the one to blame. If you don't want it, get rid of it. (Obviously doesn't apply to everything, but DEFINITELY this)

One day, (i promise) you will meet a girl you would trust your entire life with. She will never look sideways at another guy, because she has you. And you will laugh at the prospect of her with another guy. And this girl right now, well, you won't even remember her.
Mar 20 2012 7:44PM
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DIX~
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Now go have her make you a nice dinner, fuck the shit out of her, and end things. Don't be a bitch
Mar 20 2012 7:51PM
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little1337
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being ready to die.
Mar 20 2012 7:59PM
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Airwolf
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same, except i was 9

Mar 20 2012 9:57PM
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easy.steezy
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Once again, thanks for all the great responses to this thread! 
Mar 22 2012 12:58AM
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Timmy.
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for some reason i lost so hard
Mar 22 2012 1:15AM
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bdarb207
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Get back with this chick and shell be like awesome I have a really sweet push over boyfriend and I can still fuck the guy I want it's perfect. You're better than that dude you're a ns'er have some dignity. Pee in her butt and tell her to get lost.
Mar 22 2012 6:52AM
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Steve-Brown
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i liked the last one a lot
Mar 22 2012 9:35AM
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Huck_Norris
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Sorry for what I'm about to say but...  Fuck you. 

Thats right.  FUCK.  YOU. 

Grow some fucking balls and kick this SLUT to the curb.  She didn't just go get drunk and hook up, she's been lying, sneaking and cheating right under your nose for months.  Oh, you kissed her?  How did her ex's dick taste???  She wasn't in the mood that day?  News flash: It's because her ex just fucked her.  You literally probably cuddled with her while his jizz was still drying on her and she never batted an eye- never acted the least bit strage- you know why?  BECAUSE SHE'S A FUCKED UP BITCH.  She was NEVER real with you, honest with you or ever respected you in the least and you can never expect her to be...  She'll just be sneakier about it next time.   

See, you had the misfortune to fall in love with a selfish cunt and I feel for you.  I do.  Get real with yourself and get the fuck out of there.  The ONLY reason I've said it in such a fucked up manner is to ram it through your head that she doesn't care about you, never did, will continue to cheat and you will be fucked AGAIN over so sorry if that hurt but you've got to stop wasting your time with this cunt.  I seriously and sincerely feel for you but unless someone makes this real for you you'll just keep concentrating on how much YOU care and never address how little SHE cares. 

So don't talk to her.  Don't text her or respond to hers.  Don't call her.  Don't FB her- in fact, block the bitch.  Literally just cut her off 100%, girls lose their shit when you do that and say nothing.  The next time you SEE her, laugh.  When she asks what's wrong in a panic, laugh some more.  When she asks what's so funny, you reply "That I thought I could trust you, so why don't you go fuck _______ some more, sluuuuuuuut" and walk away.  Trust me, she deserves it.   

/slutrage

Mar 22 2012 10:01AM
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Huck_Norris
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In case you can't tell, my turning point was when I realize I can walk away from anything and #1 is most important.  Oh, you were a cheerleader at the last superbowl and a smokeshow?  I don't give a fuck if you're a dishonest, selfish bitch.  Get the fuck out with your teary doe eyes, bitch.  BAM!  empowerment.  Fuckin' great feeling. 
Mar 22 2012 10:05AM
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mattytru
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something bad must have happened to this one



but yea dude, you gotta end it. i mean, i obviously dont know the girl, but if she was willingly cheating on you for an extended period of time, then shes really not someone you want to let yourself get too close to. dont hurt yourself man
Mar 22 2012 10:09AM
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Grobot
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says the immature piece of shit
Mar 22 2012 10:25AM
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dprice21
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drop that bitch
Mar 22 2012 11:07AM
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BrewskiJr
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drop it like its hot and find a girl that will treat you right.
Mar 22 2012 11:14AM
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Steve-Brown
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holy shit.

Mar 22 2012 1:41PM
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Willard
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Chop the boyfriend into little pieces and put him in her food then rape all her friends
Mar 22 2012 1:46PM
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Willard
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Chop the boyfriend into little pieces and put him in her food then rape all her friends
Mar 22 2012 1:46PM
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DaveM
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Wow you must've had a slut of a girlfriend.
Mar 22 2012 2:00PM
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beezey
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Seeing a hickey on my ex boyfriends neck after two years, and then learning it was from his brother's wife's little sister, so his sister.... it filled me with hatrid for so many years. I feel okay now but I loved him and I still do even though I don't want to. Was hard, it made me so mean and cruel especially on here. I have a wonderful new boyfriend though...
Mar 22 2012 2:02PM
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tBatt
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Winning.
Mar 22 2012 2:07PM
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Huck_Norris
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Hahaha well to be fair I had about four or five slut girlfriends.  I usually go for girls that are "trouble hot" and end up paying the price.  Oh well, pretty girl bullshit.  Besides, a girl is only really as faithful as her options anyways.  Who cares.  Fuck em.     

Thank God I'm the fuckin sherlock holmes of bullshit though.  One lie and I'm all over it.  It's as if I have a 6th sense of sniffing out shadiness and I have no tolerance for it.  Thank the lawd, I'd probably choke a bitch if I didn't catch them immediately & boot 'em and endured months of cheating like the OP. 

Mar 22 2012 2:51PM
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Charlie_Kelly
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Evan dropping some mad wisdom
Mar 22 2012 3:55PM
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easy.steezy
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Quite frankly I don't see how that's wisdom.  Unless my meter's broken?  Yeah, I know there are a lot worse situations, and I clearly stated that in the OP.

Anyway, I broke up with her today, hard as shit to do in person, but it's done..
Mar 22 2012 5:11PM
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.WALDO
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me gusta
Mar 22 2012 5:16PM
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5oup5teeze
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i broke up with my ex of over 4 years. i was basically just tired of it and i didn't love her anymore. she didn't cheat on me or anything and we're on good terms now, even though we don't talk. but basically, it was the best decision i ever made. i've since then met some pretty cool girls, had some flings but mainly focusing on myself and growing myself as a person. im now hanging out with a new girl and there's something about her that brings out the best in me. i've been happier these last few months than i was for like 2 years of dating my ex. like everyone else is saying, you're only 17 and a long life ahead of you. my suggestion: keep having fun in high school then have even more fun in college. and believe me, when you meet the right girl, you'll know. and you're going to look back on this shitty circumstance and laugh at it. no worries man, you'll get through it! keep your head up!

lastly, if you're having a rough day, i highly suggest you check out the song "Hold You Head Up" by Macklemore. That song has gotten me through some pretty tough times and i guarantee you it will help get you through some rough times too.

take care!
Mar 22 2012 5:17PM
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uosdwiSrjewoH
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at least you had a reason bro, try breaking up with a girl when you don't really have a good reason other than "i don't want to go out with you." my friends who have been dumped (never really been dumped myself) always say how spoiled i am, and how getting dumped is way worse, and i'm sure it would be devastating getting dumped (or cheated on) by a girl i truly care about (don't really count highschool relationships in this, sorry man, you'll learn) BUT... breaking up is seriously hard to do, and seeing a girl's face once you crush her is somethign that stays with you.
Mar 22 2012 5:28PM
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Thadius.Castle
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Send newdiez to all your friends. Ruin that bitch's life. OR you could alternatively kill her and hide her under the floorboards/cement in your house.
Mar 22 2012 6:14PM
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TechnoPotamus
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....really? bro have some self respect and dump that cheating bitch right this second. fuck that shit.



and OP, sorry to hear it man - luckily it was only 4 months and not longer. You could take the high road and just dump her.....or yeah go fuck somebody else behind her back and then let her know you can cheat too. i'd probably just dump her and end the process right away, and then go be free and bang whoever you please.
Mar 22 2012 6:32PM
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Vino
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If I ever find out my girlfriend is cheating on me I'd rage hard. WTF are you waiting to tell her straight she's a fucking slut.
I can't even imagine how it's possible to cheat on someone when you're in love. Fucking dump that girl, hard.
Mar 22 2012 6:39PM
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DIX~
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Good on you man, you won't regret it
Mar 22 2012 6:45PM
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