Good to see people bringing point break to the mountain. Honestly, you're going to get that pissed about some hipster moustached people talking shit to you? Get over it. Most of those people are transplants anyway, so they don't have any room to be talking shit in the first place. They're stuck in Big Bear for their 20s, I couldn't imagine anything shittier than that.
I've ridden Bear many times and have had 0 problems. If you don't suck and don't look like a douche no one is going to talk shit to you.
Bear is nowhere near as big a fashion show as Summit.
You want to get some respect? Localize Bear Mountain. See someone that didn't go to grade school with you? Start slashing tires, throwing rocks, sending people home and create the all out skier vs. snowboarder war. If it works in Palos Verdes, it can work for Bear. Skiers and snowboards have the feelings of entitlement, but none of them will actually follow through when push comes to shove.