HA college is not real life. Closer than high school, but still not real life.
Also, OP and others, don't totally disregard fraternities right off the bat. Obviously there is a stereotype there for a reason, but as will all stereotypes, there are exceptions to the rules. I was a guy that was 100% positive I would never join a fraternity, cuz all those guys are just douchey assholes that only care about boozing up women and wearing boat shoes with flat brim snap backs. But when I got to school, I met some really awesome guys (who happened to be in a fraternity), and just from hanging out with them and realizing that they weren't at all what I thought "frat guys" were like, I ended up joining, and it's absolutely the best decision I've made in my life.
That said, I still would probably not join 90% of fraternities. But don't shove greek life by the wayside just because of stereotypes. Chances are, you'd probably actually get along well with a lot of frat guys. If you have any interest at all, just check it out. If it's not for you, it's not for you, and that's great. But if it is for you, and you don't take a peek, you could be passing by the best opportunity of your life.
/touching advice on life and stuff.
And OP, best of luck on your ventures, hope everything works out well for you!
You have one life. Live your dream and go broke.