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My gf told me i can sleep with other girls. should i?

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snowfinder
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So today we were talking about our sex life, and she looked at me and told me i have to high of sex drive and if i wanted to find other girls to have meaningless sex with to give her a break she is fine with it.

not to sure what to do here is this a trap or what? we have been together for 4 years and live together, and this isnt the first time she has told me this. should i go for it?
Nov 12 2011 9:35PM
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Strobe
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ladies men
Nov 12 2011 9:36PM
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Cufe.
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Nov 12 2011 9:37PM
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no_steeze
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no you shouldn't go for it. setting up a relationship like that often leads to failure. she's hoping that you don't want to be with anyone else but her, which probably should be the case considering it's been 4 years and you live together, and if you feel any differently then maybe it's time to end it
Nov 12 2011 9:37PM
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soulskier
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i dont know much, but i can see that leading to some issues further down the line
Nov 12 2011 9:38PM
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MFM
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4 years? You shouldn't even be thinking about that...
Nov 12 2011 9:39PM
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shr@gler
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prob just a test!

be wary of her intentions.

Nov 12 2011 9:39PM
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geteducated
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or she's saying that because she already slept with someone else.
Nov 12 2011 9:39PM
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Oldmann1584
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def. dont. if it sounds to good to be true it probably is! ITS A TRAP!!!
Nov 12 2011 9:40PM
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snowfinder
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no we are good. we have done swaps before so wouldnt be that weird but kind of will be because i will be the only one getting action.
Nov 12 2011 9:40PM
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las.
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if you've been together for 4 years and shes saying that you should have sex with other people then maybe she's hinting at something. or this is all just a test to see if your relationship is still strong.
Nov 12 2011 9:40PM
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JakeAssBeatClap
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This is her way of making it "okay" for her that she has been fucking other guys.

Scenario..
"Baby you like sex sooo much you should find girls that you can have meaningless sex with to give my vagina a break."

(what she is thinking in her head)

"God fucking those two guys last weekend made me feel guilty, but it was so fun, maybe if i tell him to fuck other girls and he does i can tell him that i've been fucking guys behind his back for 2 years? Then when he tries to get mad at me i can just say Well youuu fucked another girl"

Nov 12 2011 9:40PM
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FBGM
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Nov 12 2011 9:41PM
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JakeAssBeatClap
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See she knows whats up!!! Your girl has been banging other dudes, dude.
Nov 12 2011 9:42PM
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*monsterskier*
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Nov 12 2011 9:42PM
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TallerThanThou
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Nov 12 2011 9:43PM
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rudager
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I'm sure there are plenty of better ways out there that can amp up your sex drive.

I personally wouldn't. The negative outcomes outweigh the positives.

Take this to ladies men too, you'll get much better replies.
Nov 12 2011 9:43PM
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Sklar
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Came here to post this
Nov 12 2011 9:47PM
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DIX~
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impossible
Nov 12 2011 9:52PM
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Mr.LemonPie
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Many People say there relationships got much better after changing to an open relationship.
Nov 12 2011 9:54PM
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SpaghettiWizard
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Its a trap!
Nov 12 2011 10:03PM
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fawne.
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yup....TRAP is written alll over that!! dont do it!
Nov 12 2011 10:05PM
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Anathema
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you find a way for her to want to hook up with another girl and you, and make it seem like youre the victim and you have no choice but to oblige.
Nov 12 2011 10:09PM
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Balto
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ask if she can set you up with some of her hot friends
Nov 12 2011 10:11PM
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Mcfottley
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its a test! just be faithful and she will make it worth your while;)
Nov 12 2011 10:15PM
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.spaghetticat.
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ahahahahah
i lost
Nov 12 2011 10:17PM
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kstanz
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Nov 12 2011 10:23PM
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Shamoo-H
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Nov 12 2011 10:25PM
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Davy.Crockett
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lm, its a tarp, and probably no.
Nov 12 2011 10:27PM
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max...
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i'm not one to judge a relationship that only you truly know about, but that does not sound meaningful at all. if you are in love with her (which i would expect after 4 years) you wouldn't want to have meaningless sex with anyone else, cause meaningful sex feels so much better.

just my opinion though...
Nov 12 2011 10:27PM
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GeneralT
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shes trying to get you to sleep with other women so she doesnt feel bad about cheating with you. sorry bro. talk it out with her.
Nov 12 2011 10:29PM
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Shark.
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threesome. obviously
Nov 12 2011 10:34PM
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JayMeZZy
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eating isnt cheating
Nov 12 2011 11:11PM
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snowfinder
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ok wow on everyone thinking she is cheating on me, she is not i know this 100% for fact. She isnt really the sexually active type, me on the other hand i would like to be everyday.
Nov 12 2011 11:46PM
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J.M
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this. its a trap
Nov 12 2011 11:53PM
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theWIZARD
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Trap.
Nov 12 2011 11:54PM
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TechnoPotamus
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do it. you won't.


girlfriends suck anyway, go fornicate like a wild hog you crazy sonofabitch
Nov 12 2011 11:58PM
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michelle
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But in all honesty, do what you BOTH think is right for your relationship. Before you start running around with different girls you need to figure out some guidelines and limits. I think it can be done in a healthy way, just be mature about it (which I don't doubt you would be).
Nov 12 2011 11:58PM
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Che~
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pics of said girlfriend are needed
Nov 13 2011 12:10AM
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EastCoast315
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Monogamy is dead anyway, man. If she's actually been sleeping with other guys, whatever. Go for it, take other women on, because you will either way, it's just a matter of how long it takes for one to cheat. Both go separate ways now and then, but always have each other to come back to.
I've been seeing a woman who is in an open marriage, and she's explained these things to me and it makes total sense. Listen to yourself.
Nov 13 2011 12:15AM
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canterbury
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same here.
Nov 13 2011 12:16AM
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snowfinder
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no way
Nov 13 2011 12:16AM
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3mania
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Bingo, we have a winner.
Nov 13 2011 12:30AM
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KANGAROOJACK
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Nov 13 2011 12:38AM
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shea.
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Heres what has happend. She has slept with someone else and has probably caught some form of STI or AIDS. She wants you to sleep with someone else too so when you realise you have it, you can blame it on them.
Nov 13 2011 12:40AM
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Spinoza
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the thread underneath this one in the listings was 'grandpa'   and i accidentally read this one as
"my grandma told me i can sleep with other girls, should i"

that thread would probably be more interesting
Nov 13 2011 12:40AM
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theabortionator
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She's probably going to be taking 3 dicks at a time while you're off looking for girls. SKANK
Nov 13 2011 12:42AM
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J.D.
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Nov 13 2011 12:44AM
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El_Barto.
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sounds like an opportunity for a threesome. rail some random whore while she watches, then joins in. have some neapolitan ice cream ready for when youre done. thank me later
Nov 13 2011 12:45AM
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NinetyFour
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On the topic of steel panther.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i0SUSbDu26o

Were not gonna embed that one...... ;p
Nov 13 2011 12:54AM
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NinetyFour
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On the topic of steel panther.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i0SUSbDu26o

Were not gonna embed that one...... ;p
Nov 13 2011 12:54AM
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