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but it's like... right at the top of the reply screen. If you hold your mouse over all the little buttons you see that one will say "videoembeddcode" then you can open it and it has a place to paste some sort of code. if you look at your youtube video right next to it it has the video embed code right next to it clearly marked. i dunno, maybe thats too much for some people.