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this girl (help someone with basically no expeirence)
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ok so there is this girl at school that I like alot. But the thing is that I don't really know her that well. would it be considered out of the norm to just like see if she wanted to go to a movie or something sometime? I am assuming it would but I don't know... and if so IU would like to get to know her better but I don;t kow of a good way to do such a thing withought seeming like a stocker.
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be honest, just ask her if she'd like to go somewhere. if she says no, then you know and don't have to worry
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try talking to her.
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well ya but it would seem a little bit weird is someone I barely know just started talking to me out of no ware.
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well, my advice would be to not advertise the fact that you're the grand master of the poser-geeks cult. but i'm a loser with no girlfriend, so what the hell do i know, right?
if you can talk to her, and she hasn't slapped you, you can see if she wants to go to a movie. keep it 'as friends' for the time being though.
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I mena I guess that is normal, it just seems weird to me
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the poser geeks cult has nothing to do about posers or geeks. it is a giscussion about punk music
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shiit..you cant just walk up and ask her. get 1 good conversation in with her, and then at the end of that ask her
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talking to someone isnt wierd. well, maybe in middle school it was. just go up to her and talk to her like u would talk to anyone else. be confident in yourself. i can tell thats your problem because if u were confident u wouldnt be asking us on what to do.
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'. . . thou shalt eat the herb of the field ' (Genesis 3:18)
'. . . eat every herb of the land ' (Exodus 10:12)
'Better is a dinner of herb where love is, than a stalled ox and hatred therewith' (Proverbs 15:17)
“He Causeth the Grass to Grow for the Cattle, and Herb for the Service of Man” (Psalm 104:14)
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well sure. I know that, but you know...
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i sometimes found it better to make sure they know you like them... at least for me it has worked better.. i asked out some girl as a complete surprise and i regret it soooooooooo much.
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the other problem is that I have almost no expeirence in the matter. I mean I hang out with girls and stuff but I haven't had much expeirence in the relation ship sort of thing. Obvously it wouldn't be a relationship in that sense right away but it would be nice if that is were things headed
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Just talk to her, it is out of nowhere which is why it's good you are letting her know that you want to make an effort to know her because you are in some way interested in her, that's a compliment. Go for it, take the leap before someone snatches her up.
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just to note, i wasn't ripping on the poser-geeks cult.....
from what it seems, you haven't gone much farther than staring at this girl. if so, my first advice isn't much help. find some common ground to actually talk to her first. then go from there.
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well we have both already established that we like canada... and from what I can tell she likes similer types of music as I do so I guess theres a start
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totally, if you got that much, and actually had half a conversation then it wouldn't seem that bad
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dont pee ur pants or drool when u talk to her
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oh man if you know that much about her it probably means she likes you. now normally that would be sarcasim directed at 13 year olds.. but im serious. if youve talked enough to know that and she is fairly open talking to she probably is interested in you. no joke. from experience ive noticed that girls are like dear cought in the headlights, when they see something new, doesnt have to be anyone in particular, they get ammused. the key is to hook her before she gets bored of the new thing (you) and once you get here keep her entertained.
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How do you know you like her if you have never really met her? Dude...a LITTLE wierd...anyway, here's what I did to get the women. Pretend you are interested in them. Like talk about dumb shit they like to talk about..things like..shopping or clothes or how slutty their friends are. Then invited them over to talk more about shopping and slutty friends and make a little drink Quagmire would call the Ruphy(sp?) collata. Then hit that shit while she thinks she is sleeping in her own bed.
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^hahahahahahahaha
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'. . . thou shalt eat the herb of the field ' (Genesis 3:18)
'. . . eat every herb of the land ' (Exodus 10:12)
'Better is a dinner of herb where love is, than a stalled ox and hatred therewith' (Proverbs 15:17)
“He Causeth the Grass to Grow for the Cattle, and Herb for the Service of Man” (Psalm 104:14)
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we should just make an 'advice' thread this gets brought up so much :) anyway bro, I think it is easy for everyone to get caught up in different dating styles and what is normal, etc. If you like her you and she talks to you what is the harm in asking her to dinner and maybe a movie (I don't recommend the movie though, all you are doing is wasting time. Do something where you can get to know her a bit more). or instead of that, ask her to do something you know she enjoys. But don't be mundane, ask her to do something and she will say yes. breaking the ice / commitment to doing it is 90% of the battle.
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dont take her to a movie, dont take her to get something to eat, dont take her to mini golf, dont take her to any of those cliche places. its tiring. take her somewhere thats special to you, or even better, to her (ask her friends maybe). that should get the conversation kickin. common ground, and being able to hold an interesting and free flowing conversation is key in starting a relationship with any chick. and be who you are, pretend shes your best friend. cuz when you start trying to impress, your look like a fool. chicks are attracted to the real person inside of you and if shes not attracted to the real you, then forget about it, move on.
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use the pathetic 'oh, hey, I'm doing 'that'(homework, nails, masturbation, essay, whatever) right now too, why don't we do it together over coffee?' line, after you 'accidentally' run into her at school or whatever. Works EVERY TIME.
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^ why don't we masturbate together over coffee has a nice ring to it doesnt it?
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midwest_rep...that was orgasmic
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Spike her juice box....
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this may sound retarded but show her that you've got balls. Girl's like that. Go up to her in the hall or in class when she's by herself and say hi how's it going? chances are if shes a decsent human being then she'll say hello back..if not she was a waste of time. Later on if she asked why you said hi to her, tell her you wanted to meet her. This may sound ridiculous but I've been dating my gf for a year and 1/2 and that's how i met her...
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let girls come to you, then you know they like you from the start and you can have a quality relationship. if you gotta approach them its always danger. plus, you'll look like a badass. bitches love that.
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Just have some confidence, go up and talk to her, chat her up for a minute or two. Then ask her for a date and get her home phone number. If she says no, then you know where you stand. Big deal, if she rejects you without even really knowing you, then why would you even care? Move on to the next one. Just give 'er, ya got nothing to lose.
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do u have ne classes with her? ru friends with ne of her friends?
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heres whatchya gotta do: go up to her & be like hey ii gotta win a wench, wanna be the one?', & she'll be like, holy shit this guy can rhyme about me being his bitch, & then hit her with some more cheesy ass pickup- lines & she'll be yours. if shes a hooker.
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^ sound's like you got it down on how to pick up hookers there......
isn't is just like, flash some bling, and go for it?
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if you both like the same kinda music ask her to a concert or something
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tell her you want to meet her parents.
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all of this could be simplified by doing one tihng.........QUIT BEING SUCH AS PANSY. make sure you dont trio on your dress on the way over, and just talk to her. go from there. ask her here plans for the weekend, see if she wants to do something. get her number, and then jsut go pick up a pizza, and a movie, and go to her house. but in your case, youre probably 12, so have your parnents do all this for you, adn then drop you off at her house, make sure oyure home by your curfew though
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that was supposed to go in the thread about morphine? what I wanted to say was that I want an update this thread started a while ago, what's the deal now any advances?
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I'm just a sweet transvestite
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dude i just talked to a completely stranger girl today at work, she just started.. either be completely confident or come off as confident.. girls like that. If ur not confident try and pretend.. girls usually arent really into guys that are too scared to talk to them..
now that you've actually talked to her tho.. .invite her out with your friends or out somewhere to eat or something
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the sad thing is I am not anyware near the age of 12 LOL. I am, you might say getting a late start...
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and thanks for all the suggestions, most of it is basically what I expected, just wanted to make sure...
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yo dude, if u dont have her AOL instant messenger screen name get it and start breaking the ice using it, because its so easy to talk to people when ur typing it haha, so if you say suttn gay and shes mad or suttin u just type lol hhahaha, JK... gay shit like that, once you break the ice then go out somewhere with her and call her up and stuff and it will just be alot easier through the internet, its basically the pussy way but so many people use AIM its easy to break the ice with it
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good idea, but the one thing thats weird about that is that the girl might think first off, how the hell did he get my AOL. my other one is that she might think why he wont talk to me in person but will on a computer. i hink you should have a couple of convos in person first before u start instant massaging
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you know, I was thinking that^ same thing while I was reading NH_line's post. but once I know her well enough I could ask her for her SN. than sure that would work...
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ask for the sn now bitch...but dont im her right away...cuz yull seem desperate...wait a while...and play it cool
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Don't do it over IM, unless you wanna look like a geek. Talk to her. Call her...which leads me to this: next time you see her, steer the conversation into something interesting then say something like 'shit i gots to go skate/ski/workout/run/beat my dick, but you're really interesting...Can ihave your #, we should 'do something(insert something SHE likes to do)'. See what she says. You've opened the door for her to smack you in the face and walk away, but that's what dealing with girls is all about.
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meet her at some social place just by coincidence and if shes into you, then ask her out sometime, but no, if you go up to her, your gonna look weird n shit
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start with something small, girls like that, it sparks an interest. say hi to her or something in school, a little out of the ordinary but not stalker-like, and not 'hey' as your running past her locker. Then a few days later do it again, and start sparking conversation. Slow and steady wins the race, you know the saying. Girls don't like to be bombarded like that. After a while talk to her online or phone to get to know her but don't IM her every day or call her every night...just like she's a normal friend, let her initiate some of it so you know if she's onto you. Then it will come with time, you'll be glad you did it that way if youre in it for the right reasons, trust me. Ask her to do something with some mutual friends, don't act different online either...that IMing crap can be risky..if you talk to her all the time but then get to the coffe shop and you don't know how to say anything...thats a turn-off.
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jib_this thats good stuff.....but i think aim is a good spot to talk...but not all the time
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stocker is spelled stalker.
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I've figured it out...I'm considered 'such a nice guy' by all the girls I know, so my opinion is worthless. My way of getting to know her will lead to conversation, her telling you about her mean ex-boyfriend for hours, and then a talk about her feelings and the guys she thinks are hot. Don't do anything I've suggested. Be a jerk: Get drunk at a party/bar/club, and then hit on her while she's drunk. You'll probably get to make out with her, maybe fuck her, and that's more than good enough. Do that, it's way better than the other way, trust me.
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your a sad, sad man just go up to her starting conversation, possibaly using one of them pick up lines.
or if one of your friends or someone u know, knows her get them to introduce u 2
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