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Morning after pill

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EH_DUBS
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k so last night shit happened...i dont remember much of it...at all really...
but my gf is freaking out but shes saying shes not gonna take the morning after pill
i dont think we did it for very long at all...im not even sure we did i think we were just starting
and im really sure i didnt cum...cause we were interupted

but i dont know what to do
should i be even be worried since i didnt cum inside of her?
i think im more worried about what could have happened and i just want to be sure...

but i dont know who to talk to cause the only friends i trust dont know what to do either
so i thought i might as well turn to newschoolers and some strangers il never ever meet

should i keep pushing her to take the morning after pill?
or am i worrying over nothing...
Jan 21 2008 1:11AM
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guava
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haha you're gonna be a father bro!
Jan 21 2008 1:14AM
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splooshie
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maybe you shouldnt have drank so much..

and the answer to the question is

d. not enough information
Jan 21 2008 1:15AM
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EH_DUBS
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you could try to be a bit easier on me
im feeling fuckin horrible
Jan 21 2008 1:16AM
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EH_DUBS
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well what do you want to know?
Jan 21 2008 1:16AM
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splooshie
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do you remember distinctly if you were interrupted or not?
Jan 21 2008 1:18AM
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rockyhockey11187
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you're not very smart are ya
Jan 21 2008 1:18AM
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BEARS.
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wrap your junk.
Jan 21 2008 1:18AM
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EH_DUBS
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yeah ok i know i fucked up
i dont even remember doing it just hooking up with her
and then i heard the rest from her after

and yes i know about precum which is why im stressin
Jan 21 2008 1:19AM
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donots06
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same thing happened to me a few weeks ago except it was with some random girl.

I remember stopping and asking if she had a condom which she didn't then the next thing I remember I'm inside her asking her if she's on birth control, haha. I didn't cum in her either but I was freaking out the last few weeks. Luckily she had her period a few days ago. That really made me examine my drinking.

as for you, i'd keep pushing for her to get the morning after pill. there's always a chance that she can become pregnant even if you didn't cum inside of her. just sit her down and explain to her and tell her it'd make you feel a lot better. she should understand.
Jan 21 2008 1:20AM
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solitaryman
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sorry but i just had to put my lollerskates on for this one, keep pushin it
Jan 21 2008 1:24AM
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*rkp*
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Can I name your child?
Jan 21 2008 3:05AM
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solitaryman
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are you electric?
Jan 21 2008 3:14AM
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IcePointa
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Explain to her that if she doesn't take the morning after pill now, in a few months, you're going to have to stick a clothes hanger up her vagina while she is sleeping.
Jan 21 2008 3:22AM
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solitaryman
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BAAHHAHAHHAHHHHHAHHAHAHHAHHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHA
Jan 21 2008 3:25AM
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ronalddregan.
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why the fuk wouldnt she want to take it.
Jan 21 2008 4:31AM
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snwbrdmilf
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Yeah....what the hell?? That doesn't really make sense....unless she's one of those stupid teenage girls who think it's "cool" to get pregnant and be a mom. Idiots.
Jan 21 2008 7:50AM
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EH_DUBS
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no she said she dosent want to get sick or something...
anyway i talked to her last night and she agreed to take it
i just have to get it for her and she cant get her care card cause her mom holds it...
but another friend of mine is gonna try and get it for her and my other friends mom whos really chill might try to...

so i think thisll work out...
Jan 21 2008 10:10AM
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jane.
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if you're really feeling that uncomfortable about it, she should understand and take the morning after pill, but even when a guy does cum in a girl when the girl is actually trying to get pregnant, its a 30% chance that the girl will actually get pregnant.  i dont think you have that much to worry about but it doesnt hurt to be safe than sorry especially since you dont remember that much
Jan 21 2008 10:39AM
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jane.
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you can go to a family planning place and they'll give it to her for $15 without telling her parents, thats where yoeu can get the pill andstuff without your parents knowing, and also..it doesnt make you sick

Jan 21 2008 10:41AM
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EH_DUBS
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well im in canada if it makes a difference
and all my friends are telling me she needs her care card or the doc isnt gonna give it to her
i got this other girl that im friends with thats gonna go get it and give it to me though
Jan 21 2008 10:43AM
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jane.
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thats if you';re getting it form a doctor though but your right, it might be different cause you;re in canada but just let her know that it doesnt make you sick, my friend took it and got really sick from it and then she had to get it again and they changed the formula since then so it doesnt give you as much nausia
Jan 21 2008 10:47AM
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EH_DUBS
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ok thanks il tell her that
and thats really good to know.
Jan 21 2008 10:49AM
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jane.
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sure no problem

and just incase canada does have the family planning places, you can just look up "planned parenthood facilities" on google or something and find one near you if worst comes to worst :)
Jan 21 2008 10:56AM
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EH_DUBS
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yeah it works better the sooner you take it
but its still very effective for up to 72 hours
Jan 21 2008 12:13PM
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thenakedcellist
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I would definitely try and encourage her to take it. But you may be paying for your dumb actions bro.
Jan 21 2008 12:18PM
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dangerdad
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you should be alright, but there is definatly a possibiliaty you got her preggy. Try to convince her to take the pill, buy it for her, go to plan parent hood with her, be supportive. If not ask her how she feels about abortion. I have a friend who got a girl pregnant and now he has a daughter and it has fucked with his life.

best of luck
Jan 21 2008 12:26PM
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Nihiriju
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there is usually a small chance of getting a girl pregers...however there is still a chance all the time. You should get her to take the morning after pill if you can....i think its works for up to 72 hours after the sexxy times. Most girls feel like shit all day and puke and lie in bed.....i met one girl who it didn't effect at all and she was fine. You also have other options post morning after pill time....but those are even harder decisions...so it would be best to take it if you have the chance. Try not to freak out tooo much....i was in the same situation last weeek.....she didn't take the pill, but its eased off my mind slowly...... now i am kinda freaking out again......shiiiiiit.
Jan 21 2008 12:34PM
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jimmychung
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you know some shit comes out before you actually finish right? there's a fluid that cleans out your urethra before you actually come, and it could contain sperm left in there. if you didn't wear a condom, and you were going at it for even just a couple minutes, i'd push her for it. tell her you'll pay for it, all she has to do is take it.
Jan 21 2008 1:07PM
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Nicholas.
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i had to get it last week, its umm helpful and stuff. easy to get and use. 40 dollars well spent. do it.
Jan 21 2008 1:10PM
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RJD2
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Dude, you need to get it. It will be the worst month of your life waiting to find out, and the more stressed out your girl gets waiting for her period the longer it will take her to actually be on it. Just get it and take it, you will not regret it.
Jan 21 2008 1:12PM
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Big--Ben
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bro just go to planned parenthood, if the girl is under 18 the pill is free, if shes over 18, its 42 and you dont need a care card or anything like that
Jan 21 2008 1:13PM
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ValPow
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sweet mate, you'll have a little nipper 8 months from now
Jan 21 2008 1:29PM
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PASKIINGSUCKS
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Man I really miss the exciting life of being 16.  Actually at 16 my GF was on birth control cause her mom was the SHIT.  Seriously dude get that pill pronto, in the future if your gonna be with this girl see if she'll go on the pill for ya.
Jan 21 2008 1:51PM
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FreeBallin
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what are you going to name it?
Jan 21 2008 1:52PM
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Therealbillus
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haha.. I roflcoptered
Jan 21 2008 1:57PM
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adam.
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uumm check if there is one of those STD stations in your town (no jokeing here, i found one in my cirt and theres only like 80 000 people)

they can distribute condoms and birthcontrol pills, treatments for herpies..... and dont tell your parents and can save your life
Jan 21 2008 2:51PM
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InfernoHits
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you are fine, she is fine. Girls always freak out about this shit. I have had sex many times without a condom and pulled out and Im still not a dad (at least to my knowledge) just relax, push her down a flight of stairs and call it a day.
Jan 21 2008 2:53PM
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ride-rider
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haha, precum has sperm in it to you!!! so if you want to be safe yes i would have her take it.  Chances are your fine but, it is possible.
Jan 21 2008 2:58PM
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.makuma.
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dont be a fool, wrap your tool
dont worry, if you didnt cum in her, your all set
Jan 21 2008 3:09PM
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TMswitch06
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i was in your shoes about a month back son, cept the dongbag broke and i did the business inside her..anyway as long as you didnt you'll be fine. Just get the pill to be safe at planned parenthood or any local drug store, your girl will feel like shit for 1 day so just tell her you'll take care of her or somethin. its about 45$ but it sure as hell beats the $80,000+ youd probably spend on a kid..youll be aight man
Jan 21 2008 4:01PM
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unchyll
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Why the fuck wouldnt she take the pill, personaly i think you should just push the bitch down some stairs or something
Jan 21 2008 4:06PM
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