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Sean...M
Posts: 2450 - Karma: 14
Aight so heres the deal. I hooked up with this kids EX girlfriend over the summer and i guess this kids a total tweak job about everything. He's been threatening me since he found out which is about a month and a half now, and first day of school rolls by and he's in my 7th period class. After class, he chokes me up against the wall, starts saying shit to me n stuff and i dont say n e thing back. I walk away and he hits me in the face fuckin hard. He just threatened me again and this kids probably the scariest kid at our school. Im scared outta my mind and i dont know what i should do. My friends know about it but my parents and no adults do. no teachers saw this happen at school, but i dont know what i should do. I've tried talking to him and having his friends talk to him and his ex gf, but nothings worked so far.


Hopefully you guys have some advice cuz i dont know what to do and im scared outta my mind

p.s. please give me some real advice not shit like carry a gun etc
Aug 24 2007 8:05PM
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couchskier
Posts: 614 - Karma: 10
man i hope this chick gargled your dna and blew bubbles with it for this much bullshit
Aug 24 2007 9:49PM
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kepler.
Posts: 8761 - Karma: 139
has this kid ever gotten into any fights? if not then you just need to scare the living shit outta him.

i would start by always carrying a bat or wrench or something metal and heavy in your car, just in case.

the best thing i can say is if he ever does that shit like grab you by the neck, you need to man the fuck up. fight him dirty as hell. kick him in the nuts, take him to the ground and don't stop hitting till he's not struggling.

i know you said he's got 60 lbs and 6 inches on ya but you got to be willing to stand up for yourself. if you get beat up, so the fuck what? you aren't going to die. you beat the shit outta him then he'll probably leave you alone. if he doesn't, tell him next time you'll be using a bat rather than your fists. trust me...getting beat up isn't the worst thing in the world, i've been pummeled real bad one time but i healed and the shit was over.

if you are completely against fighting then hopefully you've got some big crazy friends. i know my friends have gotten me out of a few close calls before
Aug 24 2007 9:54PM
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pbandj
Posts: 5610 - Karma: 28
as have mine, but thats because i get drunk and talk shit and i'm too drunk to stand let alone fight
Aug 24 2007 10:08PM
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ax_murderer
Posts: 3322 - Karma: 30
dude if u sued him id want to kick your ass. i hate pussies that sue for dumb shit.
Aug 24 2007 10:10PM
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bitchassphatz
Posts: 6171 - Karma: 107
damn man i'd just tell him its too bad she wanted to suck your dick. an ass kicking is definately worth it if you hurt the kids feelings.....clearly he'll be crying himself to sleep. you might get beat up, but you can always get head from his g/f. screw it man.

if that were me i wouldn't let that shit phase me. don't avoid him, he'll feed on that shit and his friends will too. just act like you don't give a shit what he thinks. if he wants to beat you up, great. that shouldn't stop you from enjoying life. besides you said he's clearly gonna win. the worst thing you can do is try to fight and lose. then its like you're a dumb ass too. let him blind side you or do some pussy shit. it's hard to respect someone (even if they're your friend) when they hit someone who isn't trying to fight them.

and if he is confronting you don't say sorry....i'd just play it like i dunno why he's mad. if he brings up that his ex sucked you off and that's why he's mad...we'll he'll look like a dumb ass. and if you keep calm and explain to everyone else standing, but be talking to him "listen man it was one night, you were ex's and its over. grow up" he'll remain pissed off and everyone in the circle will be like "oh....well that makes sense. this kid who is mad is a faggot"



i had some kid last year in the dorms confuse me with someone else. i was sitting there talking to some kids in the hall drinking some beers. he sees me and starts yelling at me telling me i choked his girlfriend some night weeks ago. anyway, so i didn't move at all. this kid probably could've stomped me, especially cuz he was ragin'. but i just sat on the wall drinkin my beer and told him he was confused. all these other kids, his friends were taking his word and acting hard and saying shit like "man you like to choke girls, faggot". after about a minute of making light of their comments (them: you choke girls? me: yeah man all the time i'm about to go choke my cock upstairs) his friends ended up holding him back and restraining him in a room while i was sitting on the wall drinking a beer and laughing about how strange it was. its amazing how effective staying calm and civilized can be when dealing with irrational spaz's.

the kids on that floor told every girl they knew about me and how i choke girls (which was cool cuz then a ton of girls knew about me). so everytime news girls would kick it with us i'd get the standard "i heard you choked a girl, you don't seem like the type to do that." at the end of the night. i'd make a joke outa it some how and fuck 'em. that kid created a great ice breaker for so many of the girls i met in the dorms, i should've thanked that floor for handing me pussy like that.
Aug 24 2007 10:15PM
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pbandj
Posts: 5610 - Karma: 28
thats how a true womanizer works
Aug 24 2007 10:22PM
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couchskier
Posts: 614 - Karma: 10
why the fuck would you want a rep for choking girls?
Aug 24 2007 10:24PM
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pbandj
Posts: 5610 - Karma: 28
because he can turn it around and be like "yeah i choke girls" and turn it into a joke, maybe he'll find some freaky bitch who likes to get choked while having sex you never know
Aug 24 2007 10:25PM
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comeatmebro
Posts: 10720 - Karma: 66
i hate to say it, but quit being a pussy. if he wants to fight, then fight what the worst that will happen? you get beat up boo hoo. i was in the same situation last year this kid in my grade was even more of an ass hole and just picked on me cause he was bigger. i just blew him off cause i had better shit to do, but one day i just decided that i didnt care. i fought him, and was pretty much kicking ass until he got me on the ground he is a good 60-70 lbs. more and wrestles. i got beat up but not too bad. my cousin found out and put the kid in the hospital for 2 days. just fucking fight him man, i really didnt even get hurt a few bruises but im fine. but he pretty much got his day fucked up from my cousin. i dunno if that advice even helped, but all im sayin is man up and fight the kid. chances are you will stand a chance.
Aug 24 2007 10:27PM
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jimmychung
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Aug 24 2007 10:28PM
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couchskier
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oh granted there are girls out there that love it. but i would rather be that is the guys who's balls are so big they slap your chest when your sucking him off, or he can arc one out from across the room, or his tounge can hit your g spot. not yeah he chokes girls out and leaves oj hand marks on your throat, he's hot
Aug 24 2007 10:29PM
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pbandj
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hahaha good point, but you can still turn it around without dissapointment ya know?
Aug 24 2007 10:31PM
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bitchassphatz
Posts: 6171 - Karma: 107
you misunderstood. i didn't want the rep....i just got it cuz those kids were fuckin' d-bags and wanted to wreck my chances of having friends and gettin' laid or something. but it back fired and actually worked out into my advantage most of the time. granted, there were times when a girl that i didn't charm would just continue to think that i was a woman-choker. but i didn't know them or talk to them, so who the fuck cares what they think of me. that rep was squashed after the amount of girls i knew increased and bathroom talk had happened. eventually, that floor became notorious for fighting (with themselves or anyone walking through it) and being d-bags.

some of the nicer kids from that crowd ended up partying with us later on that year and became regulars in our crowd.
Aug 24 2007 10:34PM
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couchskier
Posts: 614 - Karma: 10
oh ok. what a fuckin d-bag. if someone chocked out my chick i would make her point out exactly without a doubt who the guy was. and then (without friends) follow the guy, find out what room he was in and just without telling a sole knock on his door and just unleash when it opened, shut it behind me and pummel that kid. see back to my much earlier point..guys talk to much before a fight just walk in and punch away
Aug 24 2007 10:45PM
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pbandj
Posts: 5610 - Karma: 28
that's what i did in college, i had problems with other dudes in high school cause i fucked someone's girl but once i got into college it was all about a few nights then moving on and if i got confronted by some big dude i'd be like "what are you talking about i'm fucking (put name here)"
Aug 24 2007 10:45PM
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couchskier
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so bottom line since we all got off topic. what are you gonna do about this kid whose chick dumped him,you dumped one into her, now he wants to fight you?
Aug 24 2007 10:49PM
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pbandj
Posts: 5610 - Karma: 28
one problem was those this bitch was trying to break it off with some dude and told him that she cheated on him with me, which was a lie but i fucked her afterward just for good measure, so i find out about this shit so i started keeping a bat in my room just in case so some dude about 5'8" 140 pounds comes up to my door bangs on the door so i open it with the bat in my hand he looks at me and then walks away later on he came back to "talk" he was pretty civil and chilled out but he was like "did u really hook up with my girl man?" and i said nah she just wanted it to end with you but things were always a little uneasy whenever we were in close proximity to each other
Aug 24 2007 10:52PM
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couchskier
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bitches are crazee. they love seeing dudes fight. i dated a chick that was all freaked because her ex was in jail for stealing snowmobiles (shitbag) found out about her taking it in the face from me via a friend. so i gave her one last tonsil boxing and ended it. i don't need bullshit like that but i's do needs to drain the sacthel
Aug 24 2007 10:56PM
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emopoppins
Posts: 3996 - Karma: 269
hahah last part, i hate when that happens to me between kids in my school, but no one fucks with me because i'm so tall. i guarantee most of the kids in my school could kick my ass. haha i guess being tall does have its advantages.
Aug 25 2007 12:23AM
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ax_murderer
Posts: 3322 - Karma: 30
yeah but in this case u'd have the wrong kid so maybe that isnt such a good idea macho man.
Aug 25 2007 12:40AM
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kozy
Posts: 872 - Karma: 10
good plan

Aug 25 2007 12:45AM
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Public_Enemy0255
Posts: 2994 - Karma: 17
that seems to make the most sense along with t-roy's post
Aug 25 2007 12:51AM
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lyndon
Posts: 7266 - Karma: 127
The only "bully" experience I have had was some freaky blonde chick who stalked my for most of my 2nd Grade 10 semester. I just ignored her, and eventually she moved away to Timmins, like 4 hours from me.

I guess just always try to stay witha group of friends, and dont do/say anything to provoke him. Seems like he's feeling the need to impress someone, and is simply too retarded to go about it accademically.
Aug 25 2007 12:53AM
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TerminatorX
Posts: 3087 - Karma: 169

get a couple of friends and jump him

Aug 25 2007 1:03AM
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pbandj
Posts: 5610 - Karma: 28
you were intimidated by a freaky blonde chick who was stalking you? was she like butch or something? why didn't you hop on that?
Aug 25 2007 1:05AM
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sdfjklioeur
Posts: 2082 - Karma: 114
lol. just jump him
Aug 25 2007 1:16AM
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moonofendor
Posts: 1484 - Karma: 14
dude. all u gotta do is go to the bank and get twenty bucks in quarters in plastic. keep those in ur pockets. the next time he walks up to u like hes gonna do something. make a fist around the quarters and right cross that kid to the next county over. man end that shit before it begins.
then send him pics of u and his ex.
Aug 25 2007 1:23AM
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unchyll
Posts: 4554 - Karma: 96
get a crew and take tha queer down
Aug 25 2007 1:23AM
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ax_murderer
Posts: 3322 - Karma: 30
seriously just ignore him. thats the one thing you can do and it will make it not enjoyable for him. dont act scared just live your life like he doesnt exsist. he wouldnt think its fun anymore. if not, crack him in the nuts
Aug 25 2007 1:28AM
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Sean...M
Posts: 2450 - Karma: 14
i think thats what i might do. Just ignore him and if he does hit me dont say n e thing and act like nothing happened so i dont give him any power or entertainment outta it. Im also probably just going to have to suck it up and face him sometime sooner or later.
Aug 25 2007 11:52AM
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NataliePortman
Posts: 1382 - Karma: 84
Tell Them your fathers a wiseguy
Aug 25 2007 12:02PM
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bitchassphatz
Posts: 6171 - Karma: 107
yep. but if he hits you i wouldn't act like it didn't happen. i'd egg him on. somethin' like "oh are you gonna hit me everytime you girlfriends blow me?" you know, something to get under his skin. this kid clearly is just mad cuz he hates himself. he fucked up with her cuz he sucks at relationships and now needs to beat you up to feel like he's good at something. fuck him.
Aug 25 2007 12:53PM
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lyndon
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well, i want intimidated, more annoyed and frustrated.

secondly, she was rank nasty-i wouldnt touch that with a 40 foot pole.
Aug 25 2007 1:19PM
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pbandj
Posts: 5610 - Karma: 28
like her pussy would eat through the condom pretty much
Aug 25 2007 1:22PM
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KG_
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aiiyt act like u got this tic, liek the army did some horrable experiment that went terribly wrong.


"BACK UP BACK UP, jus miiind ya bizness das all, just miiind ya bizness"



gotta love fresh prince
Aug 25 2007 1:28PM
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Sean...M
Posts: 2450 - Karma: 14
i have no idea what you just said..
Aug 26 2007 1:14AM
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TannerCoulter.
Posts: 1713 - Karma: 111
PEE IN HIS BUTT
Aug 26 2007 1:17AM
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Alex_G
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alright so my freshman year in high school, some junior thought he was the shit and started bullying me around all year and one day it just went overboard. so he says something to me and pushed me and i was like "bitch why dont you suck my dick" and then he slapped my and then i just went off on his ass and got like 10 face punches in and threw him into a shelf. dude had a fat black eye and did not show up to school for another 2 days (i wonder why).

yeah so stand up to him and just rock his ass up aim for the lower jaw thats a knockout. youre probably angrier than he is so you could win there.
Aug 26 2007 1:38AM
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.scott.
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dudes it's all about who has the greater motivation.  don't hold back and you might just have him.  or if you must, just roll deep and when anything does happen it won't get too outta hand.
Aug 26 2007 1:52AM
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charmander
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ok get a knife like a real knife, like go to a hunting store and buy the biggest fukin knife you can and go up to him afetr school wit no one around and be like hey man fuck off, and when he goes to punch you (if he does) have the knife in your coat or w/e and just stick it in his throat
Aug 26 2007 2:08AM
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.scott.
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that will f*** him up for sure.  i lol'd.
Aug 26 2007 2:10AM
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potato_man
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no, ur not a pussy if u do this

tell an adult. hell get in trouble, which means he will actually try and kill you, but when he does come up to you, dont be afraid. he is just trying to intimidate u and get his girl back. if he is really going at you, fight back. these fags do all this to get some fear out of you, and also in ur case hes jealous cuz u got wat he doesnt. her.
Aug 26 2007 2:12AM
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TheMoostafian
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yeeeep that'll take care of him


just carry one of those in your coat pocket at all times
Aug 26 2007 2:45AM
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TerminatorX
Posts: 3087 - Karma: 169

just listen to this kid

Aug 26 2007 2:55AM
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Half-Blood
Posts: 1770 - Karma: 385
Next time he corners you just strait up knock his ass on the floor he wont be expecting it and be caught off guard. Thats when you strait up fuck his ass up then he will leave you alone.
Aug 26 2007 5:00AM
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Rbamf
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grow a pair and punch the fucker in the nose
Aug 26 2007 3:13PM
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steve.o
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get a couple of your friends together, and jump that mother fucker until he cries dude, seriously
Aug 26 2007 3:25PM
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Elijah.
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I hate bully situations in high school, cause your stuck with them every day. Whenever someone wanted to start shit with me they'd bring 2 big friends and find me after school (I was usually editing in our video productions room), but you really just gotta play it cool like Bitchassphatz (sp?) said. It's really the only way out except fighting.. I don't like fighting but it came close a couple times with this d-bag, but he eventually just layed off cause neither of us really wanted shit.
Aug 26 2007 3:26PM
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couchskier
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like i said "point out exactly" the guy
Aug 26 2007 3:58PM
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Black-Bandanna
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You ahhviously need to fuck his mom and post it on youtube.


But seriously, run at the fucker and kick him in the chest. He won't be so big when he's double'd over coughing up blood.
Aug 26 2007 4:02PM
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