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Fuck my parents suck, NS i need your help
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somehow my parents heard through the grapevine that i was smoking weed. im not sure how they found out cuz they wont tell me how they know. they didnt have any hard evidence or anything but basically they asked me about it and i confirmed that yes i smoke weed occasionally (if i denied it they were gonna get me tested). I started this year (im a senior) and only on weekends maybe 1-2 times a month. I have good grades (3.8, actually better than previous years) and i got accepted to college. basically im not a bad kid, i havent gotten into trouble that much. anyways they decided that as punishment they were going to take away my ski trip in march with my buddies from school. we always go to colorado for spring break and it has been a tradition since 8th grade. this year we were gonna road trip down with no parents for our senior trip. I voluntarily surrendered my bowl to show that i was on their side. today i asked them if they could possibly change my punishment to taking away my car or computer or something because it would still have a dramatic effect on me and it would be a fitting punishment without effecting my good friends who essentially did nothing but are still getting punished because i wont be with them. My parents didnt even listen to me, they just gave me some bs that my trip was the only thing they could take to get my attention blah blah basically a big fuck you we dont care about your friends... NOW, NS im asking you for advice what can i do that will get them to realize that theyre making a mistake by taking away my ski trip. this thread isnt a complaint about how lifes not fair or whatever. I realize that i fucked up and shouldnt have risked smoking in the first place cuz you can argue weed isnt a bad thing all day long but at the end of the day its still illegal and people still go to jail for it. in that sense it was dumb for me to start smoking. anyways if you read all that and still feel like helping me out id love to hear some ideas. thanks.
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this happened to someone i know.
if you dont ask again until like the beginning of march, the chances are you will likely be able to go.
good story
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Are you insane!? Fuck that, get off NS and go to your dad immediately and ask to smoke with him, trust me.
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just punish yourself. lock up your own computer, stop using your car, and lock yourself in your room. actually its a pretty bad idea, but i decided to try to be creative instead of just saying what everyone else has already said.
dont do anything that seems like you're trying to defend yourself or your actions and dont try to prove that weed is good. thats a good idea and it hasnt been said. i dont think.
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dude my dad would totally arrest me. and i can completely see him cutting me off if he ever found out that i did drugs. that would suck.
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just keep grinding on them kissing their ass, they'll come around it just takes time.
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this is actually pretty legit. basically, its an acceptable guilt trip to lay on your parents if they have indeed tried smoking pot themselves. pointing out their own guilt in the matter, and the fact that you have your life/grades/shit together, should - provided you have reasonable parents - be at least somewhat effective in changing their minds. good luck, sounds like you need it.
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yeah they definitly can stop you from going to colorodo to ski
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Educate your parents. Tell them how its not harmfull and ask them how exactly it has fucked up your life. You say you have a 3.8 GPA, and never get in trouble, so why the fuck would they care?
To win an argument you dont have to be right, all you have to do is prove them wrong.
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shut up...and r ur parents teahcers by and chance cas my parents are the same way both my parents are teachers,dad is a dean and mom teaches 6th grade...u should of said u dont and gone out and bought niason or w/e i lied and it worked
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How? What are they going to do? When they're out get all your ski stuff loaded, have your friend pull up early he next day before they wake up and ninja off.
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if you have a sister you should get her addicted to meth so that way you smoking weed would look like nothing in comparison
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haha, i just broke out laughing in bio class
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i woulda said i didnt smoke then have one of my freinds pee in a cup for me.. haha i dont smoke anyways buts thats what i woulda done
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so true...one night at a party i got real fucked up and like a week or two later my parents said they heard i was drinking...i denied the shit outta it. they had no proof they just said they heard from someone. i told them they must have the wrong info. i just told them i was actin like an idiot like i always do. i don't think they believed me but i didn't get in trouble
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just tell them: "well, if i can't go skiing, i guess i'll have to do something else, i think i'll try heroine. there ain't no point in not destroying myself if i can't ski."
it'll wrok, trust me.
if it dosen't- just go get fucking wasted as many times as it takes till they let you go, then can't stop you from getting wasted.
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is that your dildo or something?
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are you sure you parents are teachers because you need to work on your english so you can communicate later in your future.
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Or you could accept you live in you're parents house, are under their rules, and deal with it. Your a Senior and freedom is months away, don't flip out.
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Just play good boy for a while around/with them. Talk to them for sure. Tell them how it hasn't affected your grades and so on. Just give them the sob story.
But eh.. You're a SENIOR?? Why the hell don't you just NOT listen to what you're parents last words are before the trip, and LEAVE.
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Here's a solution: Don't smoke the chron.
That shit makes you dumb anyways.
Don't believe it? Read some more.
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weed doesnt make you dumb, you are dumb
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So smoking him makes you dumb?
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And I disagree to a point. I have two friends, a roommate and a frat brother, who were casual smokers, intelligent kids. They both went from casual smoking to smoking a few times a day and they honestly reduced their ability to have conversations, their social skills, it was bad. They turned into dumb dumb kids.
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why? NS is the shit. we can do whatever we want. and asp peeps for help...
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i think the first kid or whatever was right. what you typed right there said it all. if they know about your account on NS, maybe theres someway they will read it or you can copy paste it. but that might come off as too trying. if your a senior in high school, they SHOULD start to let ya do your own thing, but sounds like they arnt. give it a while, then sit them down and talk to them. be straight up, honest, and tell that your going away to college, and its prolly better that you learn the ropes in a semi-controlled Enviroment than there. tell the you completely relized that its not all fun and games. i was in a similar situation in my soph/junior year, and it SUCKED. i really grew up that summer, and my senior year kicked ass. if you wanna be treated like an adult, act like one. dont take some 14 yr olds advice. tell them you appreciate how much they care about you. if you act like an adult, they WILL treat you like one. my rents are SOOO cool now that i started acting less like a lil dick. they are with me partying (cause i dont get into trouble), i always drink a beer or two with my dad when i go home.
i completely agree with thier actions, especially considering your making a post saying FUCK MY RENTS, on NS of all places. show them your not a man, and not some kid, and they WILL treat you like one. PEACE OUT
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kill them
bury them
"Ah, rid of a problem!"
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Did your parents ever use to smoke cigarettes or do? Cause if they do or did, I guarantee they've smoked weed.
Also, tell them it's safer for you physically, socially and mentally then alcohol.
I swear everyone has or did smoke pot. Very few people haven't at least tried it. It's no big deal.
Like I've only done it 3 times, but I don't see why it's illegal.
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