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sKILOve07
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Alright... well i talked to one friend about this.. but she was just like oh im sorry.. so THAT WAS ALOT OF HELP.

Okay so there's this boy, whom i like alot, and hes pretty much everything i look for in a guy. Doesn't care what people think, is a complete dork and just makes me laugh.. So we hang out all the time, when we are together we have alot of fun and just make eachother laugh by being stupid. Well i guess he was telling people in school today that Im obsessed with him, and like i give him all these rides and what not, ( i hate drama!) and he says he likes me. So pretty much he just freaked out when i asked him about it, and he got mad yesterday cause i refered to another guy friend as someone 'special' ... i don't know if all this stupid stuff and fights is worth it, but he does make me really happy.. any thoughts? Oh and i forgot to say that he has like 80 other girls that also like him. But im like the one he hangs out with.. idk.
May 11 2006 9:12PM
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Dilla
Posts: 6447 - Karma: 106
says boner boy
May 12 2006 1:11PM
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Scratch*my*Back
Posts: 8334 - Karma: 160
yep, moving on is the only remedy.

you will deal with the same bullshit over and over it is a fact. i've been dealing with the same bull shit from relationships for years and it doesnt seem to change. only thing you can do is move onto the next when you're ready and hope for the best.
May 12 2006 1:14PM
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ski_me
Posts: 358 - Karma: 10
yeah i agree.
May 12 2006 3:35PM
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SkiCrzy
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you ahve to talk to him about, guys dont want to be left out too
May 12 2006 3:39PM
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D_Mezz
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just be nice to him.....oh i mean extra nice...
May 12 2006 4:24PM
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skiinscotland
Posts: 644 - Karma: 10
bahahahahahahaha.
i saw that one coming
May 12 2006 5:16PM
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sKILOve07
Posts: 3482 - Karma: 9
Well.. he just talked to me, and hes like ... i dont mean what i said last night. So i guess this is good news, for now?
May 12 2006 11:45PM
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Rhastaman420
Posts: 331 - Karma: 10
baby baby
May 13 2006 1:17AM
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ThaLorax
Posts: 21061 - Karma: 8,366
guys fear the rejection just as much as girls do, but society tells us that we're the ones that HAVE to do the asking out. If you like a guy and he either doesn't know it or isn't man enough to ask you out him self then you need to "man" up and do it yourself. personally, i would love to have a girl do that. just my two cents.
May 13 2006 1:31AM
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garrett.
Posts: 9304 - Karma: 3,670
suck his cock, he'll get the message
May 13 2006 2:09AM
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Annabelle
Posts: 647 - Karma: 10
don't get with him.. It'll ruin your friendship when the relationship ends. then you dont get to be with him at all. just acceot him as a clse guy friend.
May 13 2006 11:55AM
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-benedetto
Posts: 5238 - Karma: 1,359
just don't squeeze to hard at the first grab
May 13 2006 12:08PM
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holyDINOSAURS
Posts: 7038 - Karma: 639
haha never figure. just do it and stop being a pussy...you already have one.
May 13 2006 1:01PM
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young.beezy
Posts: 42 - Karma: 10
just get on your knees you dumb bitch
if you like him then bone him and if you dont shut the fuck up about it
May 13 2006 1:06PM
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sKILOve07
Posts: 3482 - Karma: 9
we are more like friends that constantly act like we are together, so we started being that first.
May 13 2006 1:07PM
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sKILOve07
Posts: 3482 - Karma: 9
mmkay, well here's a new update: I hate boys.

He got back with his ex-girlfriend last night apparently.. and didn't tell me. I saw it in his profile on aim.. cool, huh?
May 14 2006 7:40AM
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Leckett
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^peace him
May 14 2006 9:01AM
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ejoy
Posts: 524 - Karma: 43
^^Maybe act pleased for him and support him. He'll appreciate it and it will be good for the friendship. Then he'll know you're there for him and who knows what that could turn into in the future.
May 14 2006 9:04AM
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sKILOve07
Posts: 3482 - Karma: 9
yeah but the thing is, he tells me he wants to date me and everything and then out of no where hes back with her. Of course im gonna act supportive i don't have a choice it's just frustrating.
May 14 2006 9:25AM
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TRIppEN
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heres my two cents, when girls like me and start making moves, sometimes its like a turnoff (sometimes its the hottest thing a girl can do) but in the turn off case, for some reason I just get disinterested, its like i already got this girl I;m gona go try and get another, but then as soon as she moves on and hooks up with another guy i get mad jealous and want to hook up with her, if that guy is anything like me, and i am assuming he is, seeing as i'm 16, then i would try hooking up with another guy randomly (maybe not you style cuz it might seem slutty) and make sure he hears about it
May 14 2006 1:57PM
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Girays_Brother
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date evan bogart.. hes cool
May 14 2006 3:13PM
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sacchettiadam
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wheres all the rapist when you need them.
May 14 2006 3:20PM
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soulskier
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talk to his close guy friends
May 14 2006 3:24PM
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skogenjake
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different school. 80 girls like him. he tells people you are obsessed with him.

dont even bother.
May 14 2006 3:35PM
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pbandj
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stop acting like you're 12 and tell him how you feel, or you could touch his penis that usually works
May 14 2006 3:41PM
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sKILOve07
Posts: 3482 - Karma: 9
hes with amanda :P and so yeah.. new update: hes not going out with her, he was trying to make her feel better, but it deffinately seemed like it... so ahh idk. I got a text from him at work that said i love you more than you love me.. GAY. im like so confused about him, i dont know if he's worth all this work and trouble.
May 14 2006 5:12PM
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Scratch*my*Back
Posts: 8334 - Karma: 160
there will always be headaches and stress, just to a different degree when you actually have the guy you want.

you've gotta take it one day at a time and keep an open mind for other boys to come your way. yeppers.
May 14 2006 5:25PM
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japie99
Posts: 2128 - Karma: 19
^as I read all this I wondered did u even talk to him in real? Coz u're taking conclusion based on profiles on AIM. Just talk to him and say how u feel. But dont act like u all want him and stuff uk
May 14 2006 5:28PM
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sKILOve07
Posts: 3482 - Karma: 9
well i assumed it, it was very suggestive and everyone asked him about it i guess, and on his myspace he put up a picture of her and it said, i love .. her name. And i didnt get a chance to talk to him before i went to work, but he knows how i feel and i have talked to him.. im planning on seeing him tomorrow hopefully, so we will see how this goes.

But thanks guys.
May 14 2006 5:36PM
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ThisAngelicRage
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melvs i will pay you 100$/hr. to figure out my life!
May 14 2006 5:38PM
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n-o
Posts: 3457 - Karma: 41
"your hearing stuff he says" could be complete bullshit rumours so unless its straight outta his mouth dont listen to it
May 14 2006 5:39PM
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japie99
Posts: 2128 - Karma: 19
It seems like he is cocky and feeling a bit too good about himself? Am i right?
May 14 2006 5:41PM
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sKILOve07
Posts: 3482 - Karma: 9
hes confident, but hes deffinately not a dickhead, like everyone loves this kid.
May 14 2006 5:56PM
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Girays_Brother
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steal bogart from amanda
May 14 2006 7:14PM
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ejoy
Posts: 524 - Karma: 43
He shouldn't mess you about. If he says that he likes you again and wants to go out, you could try being straight with him and say that you're confused and he has to be clear with you on everything.
May 14 2006 7:18PM
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FREESKIER_FIVE-0
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you have to talk to him. either ask him in person or on the phone or the bullshit will continue. and if u get denied or break up after a relationship u have to make an effort to stay friends. it actually works if u try hard enough. just talk to him. or u can fuck the shit out of him like everyone else says, and will see which one works. id prolly want to just talk to him though.
May 14 2006 7:46PM
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japie99
Posts: 2128 - Karma: 19
^take his advice
May 15 2006 3:48AM
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skier^4life
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just show him that funny face u made on ur 1 pic and he'll go runnin for the hillz biotch
May 23 2006 7:13PM
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scratchskier170
Posts: 443 - Karma: 10
whoops my mistake sry
May 23 2006 7:17PM
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DunDunDun
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through the penis is the way to a mans heart.
May 23 2006 7:18PM
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BusyJohnSohn
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i wish more girls would ask for advice, this is soo sick, i love hearing how girls feel, we def need more of these
May 23 2006 7:36PM
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dre14
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if you dont ask him out then it might never happen. overcome your fear!
May 23 2006 7:46PM
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