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Dating younger chicks...

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rugbydave
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yeah how do people feel about that? When I was young, I always thought that the older guys who dated highschool guys were creepy, now I'm kinda the creepy guy... Any thoughts?

Dec 5 2005 3:35AM
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Wafflez
Posts: 388 - Karma: 10
thats creepy and weird
Dec 5 2005 9:04PM
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rugbydave
Posts: 770 - Karma: 9
the 'hypothetical' thing was actually true, I was curious cause a buddy of mine is in that spot. I told him fuck it, if she's hot give'r. I mean if she looks old enough to look hot who cares. As far as relationships with youngins, meh if they're mature why not I guess, hell I'm not real mature and I'm 23...
Dec 5 2005 9:26PM
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awsomecoolguy
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when i was first on this site there was thread like this and some kids had this math problem for figureing how young you can date a chick. it was way good because like the older you got the biger the age diffrents
Dec 5 2005 9:31PM
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skiierman
Posts: 28699 - Karma: -5,563
It's all about the 3 year diff. rule...
Seniors can only date sophmores and up while with freshman... Only in certain cases is it alright to fuck them and leave. These rare cases only work if the girl is 14 and you are 17. No exceptions, Anything else is pedofile.
Dec 5 2005 9:38PM
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Lé.Skiing
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not to mention the law and statitory rape
Dec 5 2005 9:56PM
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SkiMN
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damn fuckin straight it did
Dec 5 2005 11:05PM
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jsg
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if there over 18 they are fair game

if they are under 18 its a 2 year diffrence so 16 and a 18 year old is legal 17 and a 15 is legal but if its over 2 years u can get in trouble(thats what it is in canada)

in NZ apprently once ur 16 u can fuck anyone u want
Dec 5 2005 11:14PM
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Stan_Darsh
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its fine as long as they are not like 10. there are many hot chicks that are younger
Dec 6 2005 12:14AM
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aussieskier
Posts: 805 - Karma: 182
murder here is alot more my friend got done for manslaughter after a car accident and got 18 1st degree murder i dont know how long but it is really high. prob around 30-40.
Dec 6 2005 12:16AM
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mad_540_trix
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statuatory rape is a bad thing.

half age plus 7 is a good thing.
Dec 6 2005 12:42AM
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Mr_Bojangles
Posts: 2585 - Karma: 16
haha that's a nice lil rule of thumb you've got there, I'll keep that in mind
Dec 6 2005 1:04AM
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Mr_Bojangles
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yeah bad, here in australia they're pretty tough when it comes to manslaughter, people have been done for up to 25 years
Dec 6 2005 1:06AM
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$tezzyStu
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thats gross, find someone your own age, im 17 and if one of my friends who was 17 was going out with a 24 yr old id be like wtf
Dec 6 2005 1:07AM
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shootr
Posts: 293 - Karma: 20
Well I was in that exact position when I was 25.
I went to a club in Guelph Ontario and met this super cool chick.
We hung out a bit (I was in the military) and we eventually hooked up...
Right after we did it.. she drops two bombs..
1: "I was a virgin, even though I told you I wasn't before"
and when I asked how a girl as hot and fun as her.. (and she seemed experienced) was a virgin at her age..
she dropped the second bomb.
"I'm only sixteen".

Needless to say I freaked.. and panicked.
I was in the Military for crissakes.. I would not go to some lame ass civvy prison.. I was gonna go to "Violate me in ways I never thought possible" Military prison.
I call up a few friends who know stuff... and they told me that in Canada the age of consent was fourteen.. so I had nothing to worry about in that regard.
Well she called me a bunch of times.. and told me that I did not have to worry because she was "old enough to consent"..

And I thought back to how it was before I knew she was only 16.. and it was actually super cool and good..
We tried dating, and though she was VERY mature (had alot of life experience... she had to grow up fast at an early age because of a tradgedy)..
Though it was good.. it was still a little weird for me.
Eventually I got posted to another province and pretty much bailed on her..
She was hella pissed at me.. hurt.
We didn't talk for a long time.
She went to university the next year (she was extremely smart as well as hot.. who woulda figured) in New Jersey..

Now alot of time has passed.. and we are friends again.... Sorta. There is still some lingering resentment between us, but as the years pass the age differential slips away.

The real problem with dating a girl who is at that age.. no matter how mature she "seems".. is that she will have VERY different notions of what is actually going on than the guy has.. and she will end up hurt... and that hurt she suffers will be worse than being hurt from a breakup with an age peer..
Part of what attracts them to us is that we seem grounded, solid and permanent.

Tread carefully..
Dec 6 2005 1:14AM
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Drunkenmaster
Posts: 435 - Karma: 9
like my buddy sais all the time..there is no too young there is jsut too tight....
Dec 6 2005 6:59AM
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japanada
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hahahaah soooooo wrong.
Dec 6 2005 10:37AM
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Thorvildsen
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my friend is 19 and he's fucking a 15 year old EXTREMELY HOT chick
Dec 6 2005 10:46AM
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Ktownchic
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im 17 and ive been with one kid who was 22 and the other was 21. age doesnt matter. i dont think ive ever dated a guy my age. their just not mature enough.
Dec 6 2005 11:37AM
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powder_2_the_people
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hahah yeah
Dec 6 2005 11:49AM
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freestyle_kyle
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for some reason you dont have a quote reply button for me?

'yeah how do people feel about that? When I was young, I always thought that the older guys who dated highschool guys were creepy, now I'm kinda the creepy guy... Any thoughts?'

yeah i kinda think older guys that date highschool guys are creepy too. hahahaha that made me laugh. then calxskier's ^what the fuck? priceless
Dec 6 2005 1:21PM
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EndlessWinta77
Posts: 560 - Karma: 13
Ha... my friend is 21 and is dating a 17 year ol girl.... thats a bit sketch if you ask me
Dec 6 2005 2:46PM
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P-JO
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I think a lot of it has to do with maturity level. So for example if your in college, and is in highschool, that creates a HUGE problem. I mean my ex was in highschool and I'm in college, but we are the same age and things didn't work out, and they were great when we were both in highschool.
Dec 6 2005 2:51PM
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Lé.Skiing
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this reminds me of this rickey demidaros guy thats like 25 and is goin out with a 17 or 16 year old.. i think it would be funny if her parents called the cops on him for statitory... haha
Dec 6 2005 7:28PM
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skisf4x4
Posts: 394 - Karma: 21
the magic forumula to dating is: take your age and divide by two, then add 7. thats the lowest you can go. i am 22, so i can go as low as 18.

however, i am also a big proponant of the phrase "my second wife has not been born yet"
Dec 6 2005 7:31PM
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sethpistol02
Posts: 390 - Karma: 10
i like older chicks my self... but not much older... like 2 years
Dec 6 2005 7:44PM
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Lé.Skiing
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its more like... if your say 18 its three years younger... and if your dating some one older and your under 18 you cant go older than 3 years older... thats how the law works.. but if your both over 18 it doesnt matter... but its where you set the limits for yourself... i have know girls that were like 19 or 20 and have had like 40 year olds go after them.. to me thats just wrong
Dec 6 2005 7:48PM
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table_top08
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well a lot of girls only date guys older than them. then there are no good ones left your age so you have to go younger
Dec 6 2005 7:50PM
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danbrown
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i went out with a girl almost 2 years younger than me, she was cool. i hooked up with a different one whos wicked hot but shes as annoying as she is hot
Dec 6 2005 7:56PM
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skisf4x4
Posts: 394 - Karma: 21
those 40 year olds were dating girls WAY too young... their limit (according to the formula) is 27. thats resonable in my opinion.

but you are right in that its primarily for people over 18. it doesn't work well for say a 15 year old.
Dec 6 2005 7:58PM
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wiener
Posts: 2247 - Karma: 63
simple mathematical formula to solve all dilemmas

first take your age and divied by 2 eg. 20/2= 10
second add 7 to that number 10+7=17
third is she is younger than that number drop it
(half numbers round down for your benefit)
Dec 6 2005 8:03PM
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MarkieR
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dude that formula pretty much works for every age group. good call.
Dec 6 2005 8:05PM
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skiierman
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Ok, a guy who is 21 and 22 CANNOT POSSIBLY be mature themselves. Honestly, if they where they wouldn't be dating a fucking 17 yearold. Seriously, go to the bar to pick up girls, not the daycare.
Dec 6 2005 9:03PM
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jsg
Posts: 7701 - Karma: 534
^^BURNNNN
Dec 6 2005 9:06PM
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table_top08
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good call they would just be losers
Dec 7 2005 6:15PM
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skiman523
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i know a 25 year olad dating a 16 year old and there are girls in my grade who fuck around with like 32 year old married men
Dec 7 2005 6:17PM
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