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College and Girlfriend

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InfernoHits
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I've had a girlfriend for 2 years now but I am going to college in 3 months. She is a year younger than me so she will be home. I have heard time and time again "don't go to college with a girlfriend" but 2 years is a long time. what are some of your experiances?

May 13 2005 1:19PM
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kykelly05
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how far away is college from home?

May 13 2005 1:21PM
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MacMahoooon
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you are actually planning on dumping her cause someone told you you should? might want to check your priorities. you can make it work being away from eachother, it'll be tough but can work. but if you want to break it off just cause you think you'll get laid every night and wont get ionvited to parties cause you have girl at home then dont know how you made it 2 years.

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May 13 2005 1:21PM
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Melvs
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talk to her about it.

distance is a HUGE thing. so is how serious you are. however, from what I've seen with college, unless both parties are commited to making a lot of effort to see each other still, it won't work. It'll be hard to keep it going, but if you do want to stay with her, try to.

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May 13 2005 1:23PM
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t-mack101
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get married

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May 13 2005 1:24PM
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DANETRON
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i doubt that ur getting married^

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May 13 2005 1:27PM
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kykelly05
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id stay with her...

but im in the same boat right now, my boyfriend and i are going to different colleges, its a really hard decision.. we're gunna stay together and just see how things play out..

May 13 2005 1:30PM
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WIfreeskier
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yeah same boat here... goin off to college in 3 months, had this gf for a year (she's 1 yr. younger) so she'll be staying here, i'll be off in Madison, so i dunno what' s gonna happen. I think she already is expecting that we naturally split up before it happens...

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May 13 2005 1:33PM
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VTskier3
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i went through the same situation when i first left for college 3 years ago. i had been dating my boyfriend at the time for a year..and he was a year younger. we decided to end it the day i left..and it was actually a good idea. to this day we are still wicked close...i dunno if we would be if we had tried to keep the relationship..but ya never know. good luck



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May 13 2005 1:36PM
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Quinny
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For that kind of relationship to work, their needs to be a mutual trust between you and your girlfriend. Otherwise either her or you can (or will) cheat on the relationship. It can be an anchor, but if you like her enough, power to ya.

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May 13 2005 1:40PM
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Tosh
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hows the sex?

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May 13 2005 1:43PM
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skifiend
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I tried that when I was around college age. I was a year younger than my gf. She went off to college and things were good when she got back. Summer went by. Then we're both off to college, but now I'm 8 hours further away. We make it through that year, but then things got really rocky. We were pretty much on and off till I graduated. Then we tried to work things out again when we both got back home but we were two different people at that point.

My advice is; if you're committed to each other, try it. I have friends that made it through college with long distance relationships and now they are married. You'll learn alot about your relationship as soon as you can't see each other every day.


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May 13 2005 2:12PM
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strode
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here's some advice:

DON'T GO TO COLLEGE WITH A GIRLFRIEND

especially if you're going to a large university with SOOOO many hot, innocent (or not), willing young females within arms reach. if it's meant to be, you'll wind up together. stay in touch with her, and don't be a dick to her or anything like that. but when you're your age, you don't really know what you want, and it's better to be unnattached to someone so you can make important decisions with only yourself in mind.



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May 13 2005 3:28PM
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JackBach
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I would say it depends on your objectives. If you want the typical "bone a bunch of girls and get really wasted and do terrible in class" college experience, having a girlfriend will hinder you (if you reject cheating, as I do).

So, if you're committed to the relationship and don't feel that it's going to diminish your experience in college, stay with it. My parents got together when the were 16 and got married when they were 19 and they are still together.

Point is, it could end up being worth it. You'll never know if you don't try. But if you're dick outpowers your brain at this point, you better dump her.

SHAKE YOUR BLOOD
May 13 2005 3:33PM
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icecreamsandwich
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if you have a good relationship and trust each other it can work. just talk to her about it..be honest. it really depends how serious you are about the relationship.

i went to college with a bf that was 2 hrs away, it worked out fine....i saw him pretty much every weekend, and we are still together now that im done college.

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May 13 2005 3:36PM
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strode
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very well put



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May 13 2005 3:39PM
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frp1080
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you'll prolly find a better sex partner at college, but don't listen to me, i'd prolly stay with her

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May 13 2005 3:47PM
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Ghost
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Aha! The truth comes out. I knew you liked girls all along. Haha. joke.

May 13 2005 4:23PM
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SSteezle
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this kids a douche bag, i think we found the new Atlantaski

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May 13 2005 4:25PM
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Vicious
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I tried to stay with my gf when I went off to college...haha....yea, that lasted about a week. Then I realized how many other hot women that were around and figured I'd be retarded not to take advantage of the situation. Plus, I was in San Diego and my gf was in Denver.

Anyway, the bottom line is, if you try to stay together and then break up after college, think of all the shit you would miss out on!! Get drunk, get laid...save the serious relationships for later in life.


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May 13 2005 4:37PM
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Luc.
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stay with her....if u love her that is

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May 13 2005 5:07PM
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JackBach
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I'm gonna have to agree with that.

SHAKE YOUR BLOOD
May 13 2005 5:56PM
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40ozKid
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Its impossible, i dont have any experience but im in a steady relationship going into my Junior year and my older brother told me that i better lose her by the end of senior year. He had a girlfriend going into college and they couldnt handle it, his girlfriend was horny and so was he so they broke up. Hey, there are other fish in the sea, your high school sweetheart will probably never become your wife unless you knock her up.

coz it's easy once you know how it's done
you can't stop now
it's already begun
you feel it
running through your bones

and you jerk it out
jerk it out
May 13 2005 6:06PM
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JackBach
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Unless you're my parents

SHAKE YOUR BLOOD
May 13 2005 6:11PM
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InfernoHits
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for those who asked, I'm going to University of West Virginia to play baseball, shes in new york

May 13 2005 7:51PM
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InfernoHits
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and question about sex life.. never actually had sex with her

May 13 2005 7:54PM
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Anathema
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^ fuck her and end it with that. a fair goodbye present, something to remember each other by. i did the same thing dude. trust me, do not go to college with a girlfriend. that has bad news written all over it. i'd advise to get over her now, and take the next few months to settle things down. if you do it later, it's going to be that much worse.


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May 13 2005 7:59PM
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brokenback17
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your all fools. Stay together with her, so when you are home you have a piece of ass no matter what. And while at school, play the field and get as much pussy as possible. What she doesn't know wont hurt her

May 13 2005 8:18PM
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NBCskier
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haha perfectly said






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May 13 2005 8:28PM
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skier_chick_360
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honestly dude there is no right or wrong answer. I went to college solo and ended up in a social group where basically everyone had a steady relationship at home. There are so many different sides and faces to college that you have to give everything a shot. I mean try it if its what feels right and if its not working out then its not gunna kill you or your social life, no one at school even has to know that you have a girlfriend back home and you can be single nad flirty but not hook up with nayone either which is possible too.
Also honestly think about the type of relationship you haev aside from sex, can you 2 carry a full conversation or is it kinda boring tlaking to her casue thats gunna be your only source of anything for a while!
Think about and do what you feel is right no one can tell you what to do!


























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May 13 2005 9:47PM
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johanblaze
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college and girlfriend are two words that do not go together.

May 13 2005 10:11PM
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Prospect
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your 14 and an only child ross you dont know shit haha

May 13 2005 10:15PM
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Vicious
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amen!


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May 13 2005 10:18PM
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frp1080
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i'm not 14 i'm married, and i'm 22

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May 13 2005 10:18PM
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Prospect
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HYAAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA

May 13 2005 10:19PM
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frp1080
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te hehe te hehe ;)

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May 13 2005 10:20PM
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bleu-rodeo
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man honestly...i know you've heard this



local_608- Aren't there alot of gay people in san francisco or something?

spam_man_1500- That's like saying there are alot of rednecks in the south.
May 13 2005 11:11PM
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bleu-rodeo
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man honestly...i know you've heard this



local_608- Aren't there alot of gay people in san francisco or something?

spam_man_1500- That's like saying there are alot of rednecks in the south.
May 13 2005 11:12PM
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