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easy.steezy
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First off I'm 17 and a junior in high school, so I know that I have a lot of life left to live and a lot more chances with women.

 However, this is the shittiest I've possible ever felt, ever (besides family deaths).  My girlfriend of just over 4 months cheated on me.  She left her facebook up on my computer and I saw she was having a convo with her ex.....turns out they fuck all the time and shit like that.  Clicking on that convo was the turning point of the past half year of my life.  Everything went from being perfect to me feeling like I was gonna throw up.  She's been completely normal our entire relationship, and I never would've guessed that she'd do this.  I'm obviously gonna break up with her, and that's about the only resolve I can make as of now.

So my question to Newschoolers is this:  what single, precise moment in your life, whether it be big or small, changed everything?  Whether it be life-altering or just a shitty circumstance like mine.   
Mar 19 2012 11:25PM
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DIX~
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You really are the master
Mar 19 2012 11:54PM
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El.Guapo
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so do you have more than one dick? because dix is plural
Mar 19 2012 11:55PM
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DIX~
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I sure do, 10 in fact. Dix = 10 in french you know. You can call me dix dix
Mar 19 2012 11:57PM
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El.Guapo
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or sexy beast
Mar 20 2012 12:02AM
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DIX~
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If you must
Mar 20 2012 12:03AM
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rainystatesteeze
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girlfriend of almost one year cheated on me out of know were, shit sucked but oh well move on.
bitches aint shit but hoes n tricks
Mar 20 2012 12:14AM
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Darth.Maul
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Put toothpicks and thumb tacks under her nails and make her kick a wall. Then tell her what you think of her and lock her in a room full of banana slugs and great whites with lazorz beemz on their heads.

That should shut the bitch up

Mar 20 2012 12:21AM
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DIX~
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What does shutting the bitch up have to do with anything?
Mar 20 2012 12:23AM
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captainslack
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sleep with someone else then confront her about it the next day, get mad and make her feel really bad then as you're walking out tell her you fucked someone last night, pause for a second and then say 'and again this morning' then stroll out like a boss.

works best if you fuck a model or actress. if you need tips on how to do it watch entourage season episode 2, eric blows it up with this method, although he fucked a perfect 10 model.
Mar 20 2012 12:33AM
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djikstra
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Sorry to hear man thats rough. Lifting up my snow pants and seeing my deflated knee cap 2 months ago and thinking I may never walk again was pretty pivotal. That sucked in a whole another way though. Chin up brotha
Mar 20 2012 12:51AM
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Ribss.
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Mar 20 2012 1:09AM
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DaveM
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Big moment was my cousin passing away in 2010. Never could have seen it coming, real unexpected. Just gave me completely different outlook on life.
Mar 20 2012 1:11AM
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vaginapanties
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Mar 20 2012 1:14AM
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wait.what
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i was like 5 seconds from suicide and my girlfriend of two years decided she didn't want to have a part of it and dumped me once i got out of the psych ward :\
Mar 20 2012 1:16AM
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vaginapanties
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Mar 20 2012 1:17AM
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.WALDO
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i know exactly how u feel.. i had my girlfriend cheat on me at 6 months.. fuckin sucked.. punched a hole in my wall.. kept dating her (for some retarded ass reason) and its now been over 2 1/2 years and im trying to break up with her cuz i still cant trust her. especially when she lives 2 hrs away. i fucking hate relationships i've realized. and she now doesn't want me to leave. finish out high school single. you'll dig it much MUCH more. +vibes for know that feel bro.
Mar 20 2012 1:18AM
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Alpine3
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when i finally realized my father wasn't coming back after he passed away in 1999. it didnt set in immediately. but once i finally realized i lost him. id say that would be the moment.

and dude. seriously fuck anyone that says don't worry about it cause ur 17. that's bullshit. im about the graduate college. and the shit i went through it high school with girls and relationships completely tops anything that happened in college. my worst moment after that with my father is easily with a gf i had in high school when i was 18. just because i was 18, and u were 17, doesn't mean it means nothing tho. know what i mean?

but anyway. sorry that happened to you man, and that u found out that way. just try and have a serious conversation with her and see what happens.
Mar 20 2012 1:19AM
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Kman000
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I know how you feel man. My ex of 6 months cheated on me with three different guys but I didn't find out till after our relationship when we were "friends". Anyway, I booted her out of my life this weekend and she begged me not too, balled her eyes out and promised she wouldn't talk to any of them ever but, once a cheater always a cheater. SEE YA!
Mar 20 2012 1:30AM
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JIBpsy^^
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fuck the redbul inks man. Also  would rovl say the first time i ad m yheart brokens
Mar 20 2012 1:42AM
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GypsyLovin
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dSJxvi767kQ

Love that song* But dude I feel for you bro... Thats gotta be the worst way to find out.. And like that guy said who cares if your 17 or 25 shit sucks no matter what! Its all a part of life and growing up!
Mar 20 2012 1:43AM
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armadaski44
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thread full of your stories needed to backup your claim. Mostly because I wana try it hahahha. But probobly getting the shit kicked out of me finally last year. Turns out Im not as tough as I thought hahahahah. Whatever, it was a good xp and were friends now oddly enough
Mar 20 2012 11:46AM
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nickyp
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One of friend's girlfriend broke up with him the day before their four-year anniversary. They had lived together for a couple of years, and had been friends before. She said it was because they were moving too fast. Turns out she was bumping uglies with some random from a night out.
Mar 20 2012 11:57AM
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Nufity
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Sunday evening.
Mar 20 2012 1:35PM
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Haellgren
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1. Fuck somebody. 2. She comes home. 3. Dump her. 4. Fuck. 5. ????????????. 6. Profit.
Mar 20 2012 1:43PM
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eldridge
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my girl of 2 and 1/2 years broke up with me back in january, wasnt cheating on me or anything but the shit still sucks cause i legitimately love her and care about her as much as I care about my family. The reality is that we might talk 5-10 more times before i graduate and go to gradschool, then probably never again, and i'll mean nothing and be forgotten. It all made me realize that I didnt have my priorities straight, and that lying is the worst thing to do, because of a few lies i'll probably be a bad memory for her, and that sucks to think about.
Mar 20 2012 1:55PM
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SKI.ING
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Contribution right here! Heal up well man.

And yeah I had the same thing in highschool, beat up the other guy and it was a big old mess. Looking back I would've done the same thing, but just don't give a fuck and move on. It'll hurt her more than you being angry with her.
Mar 20 2012 2:00PM
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.Annydrew.
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lost.

when my mum and dad broke up, my dad strangled my mum, and was on the run, until he handed himself him no-one knew where he was, so that night i felt like he might do something really stupid(i.e commit suicide etc), worst feeling ever.
Mar 20 2012 2:08PM
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charmander
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when i realized my arm wasnt gonna work again.

oh well, sucks about your girl though op
Mar 20 2012 2:10PM
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.AR6rider.
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Aren't you at the age where girls still have cooties?
Mar 20 2012 2:25PM
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Cotter
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shit fucking suck bro +vibes.
Mar 20 2012 2:25PM
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.AR6rider.
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Oh, and as far as the question in the OP...

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It'll be 18 years in August, woo hoo!
Mar 20 2012 2:29PM
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hey-dude-its-me
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yea getting cheated on sucks, in college I had some ghetto thug call me on my ex's phone at 2:00 am to tell me, 'I just fucked your girl yo, she don't want you no mo, don't answer your phone no mo', I was like wtf and I have to admit I was really hurt at first, but after like an hour the absurdity of it made it easy to get over, he called back at like 4:00 am talking shit to me for answering my phone and I just laughed and like man you can keep her shes damaged goods now anyway. two weeks later she came up to a bar near campus where me and like my entire group of college friends and friend's friends were and tried to act like everything was ok, without yelling and without swearing I was able to make her run out of the place in tears with half of the people there laughing at her.
Mar 20 2012 2:36PM
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The_Big_Tuna
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this x 10
Mar 20 2012 2:37PM
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tspanagel
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got arrested and prosecuted for shoplifting, the or going to the hospital with for alchohol poisoning blowing a .285
Mar 20 2012 2:43PM
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northeast
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you're a fucking pussy. cheating can't be tolerated, no matter the situation. you give men a bad name, and your man card should be permanently revoked.
Mar 20 2012 2:57PM
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HamFaceGirl
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Overused meme
Mar 20 2012 2:57PM
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2_fadez
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wat
Mar 20 2012 3:00PM
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yuck
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you're young, its highschool, 4 months is long enough to make this suck but not long enough to ruin your life. just completely erase her from your life for a while a move on.

also, having a way of "venting" or releasing all the shittiness you feel now is super key. for me it was playing guitar / writing music. music now that sits in a book in my room and I could never remember if I didnt re-read it. The point is, the time I spent putting it together gave me a huge amount of relief.

so if you have any creative outlets, now is the time to use them. sounds lame and super cliche but seriously it helps a lot
Mar 20 2012 3:01PM
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trettzilla
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sucks. my girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me like three days after valentines day after i had just spent $200 on concert tickets
Mar 20 2012 3:26PM
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maynaiseman
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Get her pregnant.
Mar 20 2012 3:38PM
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Peppy
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I was diagnosed when I was 15.. I cried
Mar 20 2012 3:57PM
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seward
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i know this might be really really hard for you to understand, and im not trying to sound like a dick, but trust me trust me trust me trust me, you will look at this situation the second youre done highschool and laugh.

its nice to be with someone who treats you how they want to be treated in highschool, but when shit like this happens dont loose sleep over it man.
fuck i used to let this one girl get right up in my head in highschool, its never worth it buddy.
Mar 20 2012 4:39PM
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jeremyo13
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this is the worst advice ever.

however, telling everybody you know about what she did, and painting her as the whore that she clearly is...ruin her

Mar 20 2012 4:47PM
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throatyogurt
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"accidently" put it in the wrong hole. PEE IN HER BUTT.
Mar 20 2012 4:51PM
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corona
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get her ex pregnant.
Mar 20 2012 4:55PM
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[evan]
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Yea and 7 weeks ago I found out my dad has been cheating on my mom for 2 years after being married for 26. like i said to op, theres worse things than your gf of 4 months cheating
Mar 20 2012 5:01PM
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Poops_McGee
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Confront her about it in person, break it off, make her cry. Don't entertain any her bullshit excuses or apology. Tell other people what she did with indifference, cause you're the shit.
Mar 20 2012 5:09PM
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geteducated
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listen to this song and feel better that you're not gonna become like the dude in the song...you better not.

shrug off your relationship with her like it didn't matter. get back in the mix. it will drive her nuts.

Mar 20 2012 5:16PM
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JakeAssBeatClap
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That's what they all say... Have fun with that brotha, three months in and she is already giving out "handies" you should cut your losses and drop her like a sack of wet rocks.
Mar 20 2012 5:31PM
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