Here's a story for you

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Aug 19 2016 2:18AM

Not asking for advice because I know this is a terrible place for it, but...

So my woman, at one point she brought up sexual history earlier in our relationship. We said our number or whatnot, hers was um...substantially...higher. I wish I could say it was twice mine... not something you wanna hear but college was a while back for her and I have mostly been a serial monogamyst except for a couple years in college. But I had to ask, was anything like crazy like 3 somes? She said no, life goes on. Anyways, I marry this woman. She's really cool. incredible and I have actually trusted her she really seems like an honest person who couldn't keep a lie so she doesn't even try. If not for her fuckups years ago, she would have been snatched up by a much better, classier, wealthy man than myself for sure.

Anyways...so we're on our honeymoon... we start playing drinking games with some foreigners. One was categories/never have I ever. Well question is "never have i ever had a threesome". I notice out of the corner of my eye that her finger goes down, on the 4th question she was out and I KNOW one of the other answers was the real no for her. I'm pissed, I say abruptly but fairly composed "fuck you you're buying me a Maserati someday you bitch" in the heat of the moment cause she makes a lot of money, and that was it. We didn't fight, night goes on and we had a pretty good time.

Anyways, we're back at the hotel, i can't sleep and she can tell somethings wrong with me. I try to not go into it because I know I'll say something terrible and mean but she keeps prodding me so I proceed to say really mean shit to her..

First of all, she doesn't remember me asking her about a threesome when we were talking about history but I definitely did. Her story ends up being that the threesome was back in highschool, and by it she meant she made out with her girl friend while one of them (i dont remember, she probably would have said the other girl) goes on to have sex with this guy. I call her out because I thought she had a boyfriend all through HS and this guy wasn't that bf...idk tons of bull and that's whats worse.

really sucks, not a great time to find it out. I know I'm a lucky guy but I can't help feel like her story is a complete lie and if she lies about that, then what

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littleman34

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Aug 19 2016 5:46PM

okay well first off I'm 14 and have never been in a serious relationship. with that being said here's my advice: If you love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her than just drop it. it was in her past and she already said in her past she was a little crazy. hell most people do some regrettable things when they're young, I mean ive done meth sooo. id Just forget it and it shouldn't bother you after a while. you'll forget all about in no time.

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eheath

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Aug 19 2016 6:01PM

Don't get caught up on people's pasts, everyone has done some questionable shit in their lives, sexually and otherwise, and all that matters is the person you are today. If it becomes an issue with her lying to you (which it doesn't sound like is actually an issue) or whatever, cross that bridge when it comes, but from the sounds of it you are aware of her past, you still love her and you shouldn't let the past question who she is now, because we were all young and dumb at one point in our lives.

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notspoicey

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Aug 19 2016 6:10PM

bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks

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Dddsz

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Aug 19 2016 6:50PM

ginbitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks

Do you even ski? Why are you on NS if you don't ski?

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MIHoodlum

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Aug 20 2016 12:50AM

So you came to tell us your wife use to be a hoe but now she is a house wife.

Sounds like that is not her anymore if she is willing to lie about it, shows regret. Still worth keeping an eye on her, ex party girls can relapse.

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jim.

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Aug 20 2016 11:56PM

MIHoodlumparty girls can relapse.

...it's only a matter of time.

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Deepskier

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Aug 21 2016 12:17AM

Everyone around me just seems fake so I just dont get into shit with people for more than a night. Its not a long term solution tho.

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.lencon

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Aug 21 2016 12:35AM

gypsy_kidI mean ive done meth sooo.

holy shit meth at 14

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brend

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Aug 21 2016 2:04AM

ginbitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks

SconnieDo you even ski? Why are you on NS if you don't ski?

@stopskiing

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BushDid9-11

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Aug 21 2016 12:32PM

Can't make a ho a housewife

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.SHAGGY.

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Aug 21 2016 2:47PM

BushDid9-11Can't make a ho a housewife

lmao

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.Hugo.

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Aug 21 2016 3:06PM

SconnieDo you even ski? Why are you on NS if you don't ski?

I dont ski and im on ns

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Chubz.

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Aug 21 2016 3:19PM

you really got that angry at the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with bc she "lied" about having a 3some when your guys's relationship didnt even exist?

fuck that shit its in the past theres nothing you can do about it now so whats the point of stressing over itt? Sounds like you have some insecurities that need worked on.

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.SHAGGY.

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Aug 21 2016 3:23PM

SconnieDo you even ski? Why are you on NS if you don't ski?

shut up slut

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Casey

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Aug 21 2016 6:17PM

If she had a 3some in the past maybe she will do it again with you!

I think you need to work on letting the past stay in the past how would you feel if she used all the bad shit you did in your life against you? You only know about it because she confided in you in the first place so it's not fair to be all judgy after the fact.

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littleman34

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Aug 22 2016 10:00AM

.lenconholy shit meth at 14

Rednecks have lots of fucked up drugs at their disposal.

Just to clarify, I am far from a redneck just live in hick territory

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brett_fisher

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Aug 22 2016 10:21AM

SconnieDo you even ski? Why are you on NS if you don't ski?

90% sure gin doesnt ski.

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.lencon

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Aug 22 2016 12:11PM

gypsy_kidRednecks have lots of fucked up drugs at their disposal.

Just to clarify, I am far from a redneck just live in hick territory

I live in Idaho bro, live 45 minutes from a town thats basically meth labs but I don't do that lol. Thats just an intense drug haha.

How was it tho? Ive heard people tell me they orgasm from it

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californiagrown

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Aug 22 2016 2:44PM

This was just a claim thread about how OP married a rich wife.

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270on420out

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Aug 22 2016 5:44PM

You're blowing this out of proportion

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littleman34

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Aug 22 2016 9:17PM

.lenconI live in Idaho bro, live 45 minutes from a town thats basically meth labs but I don't do that lol. Thats just an intense drug haha.

How was it tho? Ive heard people tell me they orgasm from it

Unfortunately no orgasms for me :( I didn't smoke Crystal meth though. Took it in a powder form mixed with dopamine, caffeine, kettamine and lots of other sketchy stuff, aka "speed". Still a hella great experience though. You will get these moments of pure happiness. Not something you'd want to make a habit of though. You end up like this:

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daannnnieel

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Aug 23 2016 8:32PM

lol what if she was telling the truth before, and the 3 some has actually happened during your relationship

boy would that be shitty, bet you didn't think of that one.

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