Been talking to my ex for a while. Long story short, I was in the town she was in, she said she wanted me to visit her, so I did. Next you thing you know we're cuddling and we kiss. She hits me with the "I miss you" and the "I want to get back together eventually". I'm trying not to catch feelings but I'm going to the same college as her next year. Crazy right? Also, I was talking to her last night and when I'm talking about getting back together she goes "I have no idea what will happen" and then she just stops texting me. What do I do NS?
Nov 1 2015 1:26PM
BrueShe be play'n games. Only guys can do that sneaky shit. Move on
Sno.she's keeping you around as a back-up, just in case all the hot bods she meets at college next year don't work out and she needs you to fall back on.
FROGGINBULLFISHI wouldn't bother dude
BonzaloWord.You are going to college next year, don't lock you down with her now.
So stupid. I have no idea why she would want to do that.
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AgitatedHiatusShe texted me this morning saying "hey" after I sent her "morning." What should I text back, if anything?
You're asking the wrong person for advice on this bud. I would just advise being cordial and friendly but don't expect anything or put yourself in that position unless you're ready to accept the consequences.
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Nov 2 2015 8:05AM
All_AlpineShe's your EX for a reason. Don't get locked down in college, I was for most of it and regret it a lot still. Hook up, hangout with her sure but just remember she's an EX for a reason
casualNOTHING!!Seriously....this is going nowhere except to you being frustrated and confused. Just forget about it and meet other ladies.
36ChambersOfWuYou are actually about to meet hundreds of new ladies in a few months. If you want to keep busy till then, fine. But don't get locked into a relationship right before college, terrible idea.
Why did you regret it? And also, she's going to the same college as me. I dunno. I'm trying to move on but its really hard.
Nov 2 2015 8:25AM
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AgitatedHiatusWhy did you regret it? And also, she's going to the same college as me. I dunno. I'm trying to move on but its really hard.
delete her number. stop talking to her. she is an ex for a reason. you don't want her back, you're just missing that feeling of being desired and this is the easiest solution.
How long ago did you break up? Why do you think things are different now?
Nov 2 2015 9:09AM
TallxTdelete her number. stop talking to her. she is an ex for a reason. you don't want her back, you're just missing that feeling of being desired and this is the easiest solution.How long ago did you break up? Why do you think things are different now?
We broke up in late june/early july this last summer. And I dunno, I think things might be different because she's had a chance to think about how much she misses me, and since we're going to be at the same college it'll be easier.
Nov 2 2015 9:28AM
AgitatedHiatusWe broke up in late june/early july this last summer. And I dunno, I think things might be different because she's had a chance to think about how much she misses me, and since we're going to be at the same college it'll be easier.
why does it matter that she misses you? thats not part of a persons character. thats just a state of mind. You haven't been apart very long. 4 months? you're both just settling for fall backs because there isn't another option in your face.
I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 months ago. I miss her sometimes, but I know that she isn't the right person for me. Thats why i broke up with her. She sure as hell misses me, but that does mean we should be together.
Nov 2 2015 9:42AM
TallxTwhy does it matter that she misses you? thats not part of a persons character. thats just a state of mind. You haven't been apart very long. 4 months? you're both just settling for fall backs because there isn't another option in your face.I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 months ago. I miss her sometimes, but I know that she isn't the right person for me. Thats why i broke up with her. She sure as hell misses me, but that does mean we should be together.
You didn't end up inviting the post office girl out right??
Nov 2 2015 11:13AM
AgitatedHiatusWe broke up in late june/early july this last summer. And I dunno, I think things might be different because she's had a chance to think about how much she misses me, and since we're going to be at the same college it'll be easier.
one hundred percent NOPE.
Move on. She's keeping you around so you're not getting with other chicks. Basically marking her territory. Do yourself a favor and move on. She's just making sure she has you locked up if she wants.
Sucks to hear but i guarantee it's what's going on.
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It sounds like she was caught up in a moment or a memory and she's probably not really ready to do what she says. She pulled a cold move on you. Maybe don't totally dismiss her but don't expect to be getting back together anytime soon.
Also it's college, go out and have some fun! Try not to get hung up on exes, they're usually an ex for a reason.
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AgitatedHiatusI'm sorry?
If someone ever calls you a vagina tell them to go fuck themselves.
You have some of the best years of your life coming up. Don't waste your time chasing a girl who doesn't see your full potential. Go and see what other girls have to offer and you'll end up finding someone who actually appreciates you. Someone who you can talk to genuinely - without needing to consult an internet forum of 14 year old gapers to give the 'right answer'.
Nov 2 2015 6:05PM
KazabazuaIf someone ever calls you a vagina tell them to go fuck themselves.You have some of the best years of your life coming up. Don't waste your time chasing a girl who doesn't see your full potential. Go and see what other girls have to offer and you'll end up finding someone who actually appreciates you. Someone who you can talk to genuinely - without needing to consult an internet forum of 14 year old gapers to give the 'right answer'.
Dude, this may be the best advice I've gotten on this thread. Thank you.
Nov 2 2015 6:28PM
texting her won't make her care about you unfortunately. Just walk away and don't look back. It will probably make her miss you more (nice for your ego, but who gives a fuck) and will let you find a better girl. I'm not normally one for gender stereotypes and 'manning up'. But walk away with your pride will be more attractive to any girl over pinning over them.
Plus she sounds selfish, why waste your time?
Nov 2 2015 6:40PM
Download-My-Appstexting her won't make her care about you unfortunately. Just walk away and don't look back. It will probably make her miss you more (nice for your ego, but who gives a fuck) and will let you find a better girl. I'm not normally one for gender stereotypes and 'manning up'. But walk away with your pride will be more attractive to any girl over pinning over them.Plus she sounds selfish, why waste your time?
I don't know man. It's tough
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Nov 3 2015 1:46AM
TheBigAppleI look back on college and the only thing I regret is not having had sex with more women. I don't regret failing classes, I don't regret ending long relationships, and most importantly I don't regret not trying to get back together with an ex.
That's some classic text right there. Most guys are like "hey, I want to fuck everything."
Think about that for a second. If that's what you want and wanted. Why didn't you fuck more women? Probably because there was a lack of skill and focus. You should accept that you did what you wanted to do, which was NOT to fuck all the women. Only the ones you REALLY wanted.
Nov 3 2015 2:42AM
KazabazuaIf someone ever calls you a vagina tell them to go fuck themselves.You have some of the best years of your life coming up. Don't waste your time chasing a girl who doesn't see your full potential. Go and see what other girls have to offer and you'll end up finding someone who actually appreciates you. Someone who you can talk to genuinely - without needing to consult an internet forum of 14 year old gapers to give the 'right answer'.
This has nothing to do with the OP but I just saw that you were posting and I was just thinking about you the other day. What happened to your music dude? I was listening to your shit since you were Pinto Gold and I'm always checking up every once in a while to see if you dropped new shit. I love listening to it when I ski.
Nov 3 2015 8:49AM
RimJobberThis has nothing to do with the OP but I just saw that you were posting and I was just thinking about you the other day. What happened to your music dude? I was listening to your shit since you were Pinto Gold and I'm always checking up every once in a while to see if you dropped new shit. I love listening to it when I ski.
Thanks a lot man - In the past Ive only released music that I enjoy listening to and I got a little bored of the stuff I was making. I felt like there was something missing from my songs but couldn't put my finger on it, until about a year ago when listening to The Cinematic Orchestra - it clicked.
I realized you can get a lot more feeling and personality out of a real kit than electronic drums, so I bought a little jazz kit and have been practicing everyday for the last 6 months. I plan on releasing an EP in the new year that will incorporate real drums and real bass, which if well received I'll turn into a live set.
Thanks for listening.