I really keep it to me personally. As different people want different things. I personally define wealth as being comfortable, meaning a stable living situation, good health, and some kind of monetary cushion, and a plan, even if it's more just goals.
Somebody that is doing something they love to do/are good at, and able to make it through life for the most part relatively stable. Even if there are some speed bumps, it's a situation where they can stay afloat.
That probably doesn't afford crazy ski vacations and a second home in the mountains, but to me that's where it's at. If living frugally, they can still get some solid adventures in.
Honestly for me that's what it's all about.
I'm sure I could find a job making more money than the jobs I've worked, but for me, this is what I was born to do. If I didn't make any money, even if I actually had to pay money, I would still do my job.
If you're at a point where money is nearly irrelevant to your work, and your living is stable enough to keep you comfortable that's wealth to me.
If I worked my whole life doing something I hated just to make more $, I would feel like I wasted my time. Also you never know when it's your last day. I would hate to slave away stacking some funds, and then die young, having never really lived the way I wanted to, or done/seen the things and places I wanted to.
There's a happy medium in there for everyone. For me I'd like to keep enough of a buffer zone that I have something to keep me afloat, but still go on plenty of adventures and fill that part of my life.
YOLO and shit
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