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Dating an 18 year old

BrothsTopaz
Posts: 225 - Karma: 1,202
Oct 16 2015 3:32PM

Hey what's up NSers?! Here's the deal, I go to school, I'm 23 and I met a girl in class that's 18. Super pretty, good vibes and pretty mature. Well we're starting to get into each other and she tells me that myself being older isn't a problem, but I feel like I should find girls more of my age. Honestly, I haven't met any cool girls Like her at my age; It should be the opposite. What do you guys think? Go thru with it, try things out? Is it considered out of my territory and therefore, kinda weird?

Thanks a lot gents and ladies

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YoungGun.
Posts: 267 - Karma: 562
Oct 18 2015 8:03PM

BrothsTopazI went into the marine Corps when I got out of high school. I'm in my second year of college. Thanks for your input though.

Rah

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SterlingArcher
Posts: 2200 - Karma: 2,456
Oct 18 2015 10:42PM

become her friend and get some intel.

if she's into the kardashians or teen mom bail out.

probably 95% of girls under mid 20's don't know what the fuck the want and get bored of guys quick. You're 23.. do the damn thing and live it up before you're married with kids and turn into a fanny pack dad driving an astro van

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ghosthop
Posts: 631 - Karma: 1,027
Oct 18 2015 11:03PM

SterlingArcherfanny pack dad driving an astro van

you say this like its a bad thing

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CHORIZO
Posts: 2003 - Karma: 10,039
Oct 18 2015 11:57PM

FROGGINBULLFISHdoesnt really matter how old she is they all act like children when they're mad anyways.

mega chuckles from this

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Sno.
Posts: 12155 - Karma: 6,147
Oct 19 2015 12:06AM

well there goes your social life...unless she has a fake ID...not sure, didn't read the thread.

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act.resist
Posts: 8875 - Karma: 513
Oct 19 2015 12:45AM

its a 50/50 chance that it works out. shes fresh out of high school and hasn't had the same life experiences that you have. you pretty much know how things work and she has to figure it all out. But maybe that will work out for you two.

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BrothsTopaz
Posts: 225 - Karma: 1,202
Oct 19 2015 7:31AM

SterlingArcherfanny pack dad driving an astro van

But I already drive a mini van to school and where a fanny pack.

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BrothsTopaz
Posts: 225 - Karma: 1,202
Oct 19 2015 8:49AM

BrothsTopazBut I already drive a mini van to school and where a fanny pack.

WEAR NOT WHERE!!!

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louie.mirags
Posts: 6015 - Karma: 5,028
Oct 19 2015 9:26AM

Spagett+Pics of girl

exactly... this thread is invalid thus far...

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arnie_grape
Posts: 3441 - Karma: 11,497
Oct 19 2015 9:33AM

louie.miragsexactly... this thread is invalid thus far...

yes I believe it's in the forum rules that once a thread about a girl has developed into a multi-pager photos of said girl must be produced within 24 hours. failure to comply will result in bishop fucking your mom OP. get on it.

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BrothsTopaz
Posts: 225 - Karma: 1,202
Oct 19 2015 11:20AM

louie.miragsexactly... this thread is invalid thus far...

FROGGINBULLFISHyes I believe it's in the forum rules that once a thread about a girl has developed into a multi-pager photos of said girl must be produced within 24 hours. failure to comply will result in bishop fucking your mom OP. get on it.

Bishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay

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Spagett+
Posts: 3499 - Karma: 14,884
Oct 19 2015 11:27AM

BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay

OP delivered

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.MASSHOLE.
Posts: 7408 - Karma: 11,040
Oct 19 2015 12:14PM

BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay

Yay. For sure.

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maxwags9
Posts: 25 - Karma: 48
Oct 19 2015 12:16PM

BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay

Yay for sure

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.lencon
Posts: 6753 - Karma: 17,178
Oct 19 2015 12:55PM

lencon approves

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.CJ.
Posts: 1507 - Karma: 3,657
Oct 19 2015 1:14PM

livelifelarge:

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mhuddy_22
Posts: 313 - Karma: 766
Oct 19 2015 1:52PM

BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay

100% yay

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DIX~
Posts: 4695 - Karma: 6,502
Oct 19 2015 2:13PM

BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay

Yeah she's definitely fucking a different dude every night

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Chubz.
Posts: 13918 - Karma: 25,658
Oct 19 2015 2:21PM

DIX~Yeah she's definitely fucking a different dude every night

lol

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deleted5
Posts: 14507 - Karma: 13,500
Oct 19 2015 3:36PM

In the same boat, however she did lie to me the first time we met and told me she was 20.

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S.J.W
Posts: 7609 - Karma: 31,182
Oct 19 2015 3:50PM

BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay

Basic bitch detected, but yay

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profa_212
Posts: 8673 - Karma: 32,963
Oct 19 2015 4:52PM

nocturnalIn the same boat, however she did lie to me the first time we met and told me she was 20.

I had a one night stand with a chick when I was 17 doing this same thing.

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Deepskier
Posts: 3267 - Karma: 4,825
Oct 19 2015 9:16PM

.CJ.livelifelarge:

haha yes

and don't worry she is legal and if you think it works well go for it age shouldn't matter if its legal and a good fit ad thanks for the service much respect

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Skitnit
Posts: 29 - Karma: 279
Oct 20 2015 12:43PM

Spagett+OP delivered

If she is 18, I am 18. Yay without a doubt

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FrenchFry
Posts: 969 - Karma: 3,432
Oct 20 2015 1:11PM

Dude pretty sure you answered your own question. You like her and think she's cool and mature. Fuck what society tells you is normal.

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Kooky_Lukey
Posts: 1002 - Karma: 1,966
Oct 20 2015 4:35PM

I would say yes just by how she looks and everything else is a bonus.

However, the ones thing that is going to suck is that she can't go out to the bars (if that's yo thang). My roommate is pretty much in the same situation and when everyone goes out he normally can't. Not that it's that big of a deal because bars normally suck, especially if you already have a girl then they're even more pointless.

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applejuice.
Posts: 5506 - Karma: 1,512
Oct 20 2015 4:38PM

18 and 23 isn't the same as 23 and 28. Seriously. You're in two completely different stages of your lives. I changed drastically over the 8 years I was together with my ex, and we started at 17. Save yourself the aggrevation. She's beautiful, yes, and I'm sure she seems great now, but things will change. She's 18.

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.MASSHOLE.
Posts: 7408 - Karma: 11,040
Oct 20 2015 5:17PM

applejuice.18 and 23 isn't the same as 23 and 28. Seriously. You're in two completely different stages of your lives. I changed drastically over the 8 years I was together with my ex, and we started at 17. Save yourself the aggrevation. She's beautiful, yes, and I'm sure she seems great now, but things will change. She's 18.

Wouldn't you say that dating someone like your ex opened your eyes to what you desire in a partner and what you would want to avoid in a future one?

You don't always date someone because you think you will marry them, you date them because you like them and want that connection. Who is to say when or if it dissipates?

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profa_212
Posts: 8673 - Karma: 32,963
Oct 20 2015 5:55PM

.MASSHOLE.Wouldn't you say that dating someone like your ex opened your eyes to what you desire in a partner and what you would want to avoid in a future one?

You don't always date someone because you think you will marry them, you date them because you like them and want that connection. Who is to say when or if it dissipates?

This. accept the fact that you are both very young and chances are highly unlikely that you will get married. Do what makes you both happy and take it day by day, maybe you do end up marrying, either way you have fun.

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applejuice.
Posts: 5506 - Karma: 1,512
Oct 20 2015 8:58PM

.MASSHOLE.Wouldn't you say that dating someone like your ex opened your eyes to what you desire in a partner and what you would want to avoid in a future one?

You don't always date someone because you think you will marry them, you date them because you like them and want that connection. Who is to say when or if it dissipates?

That's totally fair. I agree.

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DBack1321
Posts: 410 - Karma: 485
Oct 21 2015 12:33AM

Hey that's what's up! I'm in the same boat as you haha but a little older.

I'd say go for it man. Just be prepared for some immaturity and childish bullshit. After all, you have experienced a lot more than most college freshmen straight out of high school.

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DBack1321
Posts: 410 - Karma: 485
Oct 21 2015 12:39AM

DBack1321Hey that's what's up! I'm in the same boat as you haha but a little older.

I'd say go for it man. Just be prepared for some immaturity and childish bullshit. After all, you have experienced a lot more than most college freshmen straight out of high school.

As in that's what's up I was a Marine too, not that's what's up I'm dating an 18 year old lol

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BrothsTopaz
Posts: 225 - Karma: 1,202
Oct 21 2015 8:53AM

Update: her age shows already but I'm a guy willing to look past the small things in life.

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DBack1321
Posts: 410 - Karma: 485
Oct 21 2015 8:59AM

BrothsTopazUpdate: her age shows already but I'm a guy willing to look past the small things in life.

It'll get to you eventually haha if its already noticeable now.

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frosted_flakes
Posts: 1200 - Karma: 1,256
Oct 21 2015 9:19AM

BrothsTopazUpdate: her age shows already but I'm a guy willing to look past the small things in life.

elaborate?

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.MASSHOLE.
Posts: 7408 - Karma: 11,040
Oct 21 2015 9:20AM

BrothsTopazUpdate: her age shows already but I'm a guy willing to look past the small things in life.

Updates please.

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casual
Posts: 6712 - Karma: 6,746
Oct 21 2015 9:21AM

OP..MY G....get up in that young stuff. Only people going to be judging you are people who wish they were diving in head first, let it rip bub.

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TheBigApple
Posts: 1169 - Karma: 488
Oct 21 2015 9:41AM

I'm dating a chick in her early 20's and her age gets to me every now and then, just a maturity thing. I'm thinking about finances and savings and budgeting and financial security, and she's thinking about the next vacation with $0 to her name.

I'll get over it.

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Stadtski
Posts: 972 - Karma: 3,349
Oct 21 2015 9:55AM

BrothsTopazyay or nay

10/10 would pee in her butt

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SHIZ
Posts: 384 - Karma: 365
Oct 21 2015 10:19AM

I'm in a similar situation, I'm 19 (sophomore in college) and just started dating a 21 year old (senior). It's not so much about the age for me its about the fact that the girl is graduating but I decided to go for it and date her because there were just good vibes and we have a lot of fun together. I'm just going with it and if the age becomes an issue I'll just cross that bridge when I get there.

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BrothsTopaz
Posts: 225 - Karma: 1,202
Oct 21 2015 10:34AM

frosted_flakeselaborate?

What I mean by her "age shows" from the maturity level is that she doesnt know what she wants in life, and I do. Ive had experiences, both bad and good, from past relationships, people, life events etc. She said she wanted to be with me, now she's saying she doesnt know. Its a perpetual cycle of "i dont know what i want" and im just over here chillin waiting for ski season to show up.

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.MASSHOLE.
Posts: 7408 - Karma: 11,040
Oct 21 2015 10:51AM

BrothsTopazWhat I mean by her "age shows" from the maturity level is that she doesnt know what she wants in life, and I do. Ive had experiences, both bad and good, from past relationships, people, life events etc. She said she wanted to be with me, now she's saying she doesnt know. Its a perpetual cycle of "i dont know what i want" and im just over here chillin waiting for ski season to show up.

Sounds about right. My advice after waiting for someone who was the same way, move on because it doesn't end well even if you end up together. That perpetual cycle won't end at her age.

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Charlie_Kelly
Posts: 11953 - Karma: 12,294
Oct 21 2015 11:06AM

BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay

I'd cram it in her cramhole.

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Chubbs.
Posts: 1018 - Karma: 2,647
Oct 21 2015 12:03PM

BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay

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Chronic_
Posts: 1730 - Karma: 1,601
Oct 21 2015 1:45PM

1. Im 22 and my girlfriends 26. weve been dating for over 3 years. shit can work out.

2. That chicks a smokeshow definitely pursue.

3. Thanks for delivering pics.

4. RAH! to my fellow marine NS'ers

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B.Ryan
Posts: 322 - Karma: 1,142
Oct 21 2015 3:23PM

BrothsTopazShe's down to learn to ski this season as well.

Read that line, skipped rest of thread. Go for it buddy.

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gnar_whal
Posts: 1286 - Karma: 3,787
Oct 21 2015 6:37PM

OP she's a babe and she's down to learn how to ski. PEE IN HER ANUS

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whoisthatsquid
Posts: 135 - Karma: 371
Oct 22 2015 1:29AM

BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay

OP came thru with pics.... yes id smash

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KravtZ
Posts: 6637 - Karma: 2,629
Oct 22 2015 8:30AM

TheBigAppleI'm dating a chick in her early 20's and her age gets to me every now and then, just a maturity thing. I'm thinking about finances and savings and budgeting and financial security, and she's thinking about the next vacation with $0 to her name.

I'll get over it.

Actually she probably wont. Money and finance on a personal level is extremely difficult habit to change. You are on the right track. She is not.

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FastSpeed
Posts: 646 - Karma: 644
Oct 22 2015 9:32AM

SterlingArcherbecome her friend and get some intel.

if she's into the kardashians or teen mom bail out.

probably 95% of girls under mid 20's don't know what the fuck the want and get bored of guys quick. You're 23.. do the damn thing and live it up before you're married with kids and turn into a fanny pack dad driving an astro van

Don't hate, my parents had an green Astro van when I was like 6. Loved that car

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