How does NSG get over heartbreak?

Please sir. NO.

Ooooohhhhh yes. Dear OP - sleep until initial pain dulls, use of cannabis encouraged. Then, pull it together and find things you like doing just by yourself. Find ways to enjoy your own company, can involve alcohols and whatever. But the things you like doing best sober(ish) are always going to be better than getting hammered all the time to have fun. Then it'll come around.

around may we spent a great month together here in AZ, then she went back to Spokane. We talked some, but over the course of the summer we grew further apart. Around August she starts hitting me back up again, and i say i don't think we should be together anymore. She disagrees and tells me its her mission to change my mind. She threw all of the great things about us back in my face, and combined with some nudez, i agreed to try it again. So i move back to Spokane around september 1, and within the first 2 days she starts ignoring me. Blowing me off to hang out with other people, ignoring my texts, so im like whatever, its just not going to work. But then my roommate tries to kill himself, and i get in a massive fight with my other roommates. Im basically stuck in a house with no car and no friends, and my life is feeling pretty shitty. So i go to her, and she tells me we have to be done. This was like 5 days after i got there, and the same day my friend tried to commit suicide. So i go to my one other close friend, and were hanging out smoking some weed. He goes inside for a few minutes, but leaves his phone out. He gets a text from my ex, and i read it. She wants to hang out with him. Even though i know i shouldn't, i read the rest of the texts between them. Turns out they started fucking about 3 days before i moved to Spokane. So i break his bong and leave. Then i decide to just leave Spokane as a whole, so now im back here in AZ. The worst part is she still hits me up asking when ill be back, but says we can't ever be together. She asks if im hooking up with anyone else, and talks about how jealous that would make her, but how we aren't a couple. I don't really want to be in a relationship with her ever again, but she was my life for 3 years. And up until now our relationship had always been great. I feel like a piece of my life is missing, and i don't know how to fill it. I don't want to fill that hole with her again, but its been so hard to get her off my mind its ridiculous.

hack a dart bud

dude.. vibes. thats shitty,

Op, find something you want to do to improve you, your life, your fitness, etc. after my bad break up I was in the booze and then decide to get a new hobby (climbing) ad learn a new language (Spanish) and it's helped me a lot. Focus on you for a bit, and I think you will enjoy the results.

did that last night, helped a bit. but there just aren't ladies where i live. Up in Flagstaff there are quite a few, but i've never been able to just talk to a random girl in a new situation. At my friends parties and when there is a group hanging out, i'm pretty good with the cuties. But I have no idea how to just go from knowing no one to getting pussy. Never been my strongpoint, and right now i wish it was. I guess theres always high school chicks.

I know that feel op. I just stopped giving fuck about anything. Been working so far

Listen to A LOT of Lana Del Rey and cry all the time

just get it all out buddy

whats killing me now are the dreams. Im going through every day and while i can't say i don't think about her now and then, she isnt always on my mind, and whenever i start to think about her for too long i do activities. But every night i have these dreams about her, and when i wake up and they arent real it hurts more than anything else. Anyone else ever have this? And im not thinking about her right before i go to sleep.

rape her family

open incognito window and go crazy

sauces

marinara

A bunch of pics just popped up on the instagram of some dude asking her out. This just feels so shitty, and i really felt like i was getting over her. god damn i just want to die right now.

She cheated on you, she isn't worth the steam off your shit

I feel you man same shit happened to me a year ago and you know what the best thing to do is do delete all contacts and social media with her. The less her name pops up on social media sources the less your minded will remise about her. Just remember its going to suck ass for awhile, and there is basically no way of getting around this downfall. I tried everything by trying to find another girl but none of them seem to compare, but in reality they did my mind was just telling me no. Forget about all the memories and everything you had, I know its hard to do since she caused so many happy thoughts. Just know that there is another girl out there waiting for you and other people feeling the same thing as you. After awhile of deleting her out of all your social networks and forgetting about her new boyfriend, start to become friends with other girls. Don't have the mindset of having to date and bang any girl you see. It won't work. It actually helps a lot being friends with girls that help you forget about her and as time goes on you will possibly start to want to date whoever girl you've been talking to. I've been in the same spot and to sum everything up just enjoy life, know that this happens to everyone, and move on knowing you have a whole life ahead of you and so many people are out there waiting for you. Im out feel better man!

what the hell are you doing following her instragram? You're doing it to yourself man.

Surround yourself with friends, change up your scene, and don't even bother looking for chicks until you are actually over this girl. Sure, you might have a rebound or shallow one night stands, but it won't help you heal emotionally. If it happens, it happens, but don't go looking for a hook up, you know?

One of her friends whose always hated me tagged me in like 5 posts with her with this other dude. fucking sucked, and ive already unfollowed and unfriended her in every social media way i can.

yeah! you showed her!