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Sounds like you both need to sit down and talk about this shit or it'll only get worse.
you say hes passive aggressive.....making an angry thread on NS instead of confronting him....very logical
start using paper plates and going out ur window.
but really what you should do is go ask a bunch of pretty girls if they would clean ur dishes for 10 bucks a hour. then when he comes home there will be a bunch of chicks cleaning ur shit and doing ur dirty work and when he says whats this just smile and say "im the boss"