I'm not trying to get in a shit storm either, but thing I see wrong in your statement is that you say "you accidentally knock a women up". How do you do that accidentally? it's your choice to have sex and you know what the consequences could possibly be so you should be responsible for you actions.
just my take on it, not looking to argue with anybody
"if your friends jumped off a cliff would you?" me: "hell ya if if i had skis and some snow"
"You put on your boots, click into your bindings,
dust the snow off your skis, and head out for the chair. It doesn't matter that you failed a test, didn't get the girl, or that your life doesnt seem like it could get any worse, your world is right for the next couple of hours."