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Jib-Ninja
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Alright, so my mom has been seeing this douche bag Tom for like..8 years now, and they arnt married yet..and my mom doesnt plan on marrying him. He is the reason my mom and dad split up,my mom cheated on my dad with Tom. And my whole dads side of the family hates this douche bag, he is always talking shit about my dad and my dad the same, and Tom tried to start a fight with my older brother once. He is just an overall douche bag. All he does is sit on the couch and drink his beers and argues with my mom..my mom is just staying with him because of his money. The only plus about my mom being with him for me is that i get to steal his beers out of the fridge. I used to be cool with him until like, 2 years ago...he was talking shit about me and i called him a bitch and i told him i was gonna kick his ass, and he wouldnt fight me *Obviously because i was just a cocky 15 year old at the time* but he is still a bitch. And since then i havnt said one word to him. He is always talking shit about me to my mom and calling me worthless and just downgrading me. I always tell my mom to leave this douchebag but she doesnt listen. HOW CAN I TAKE CARE OF THIS PROBLEM?!??!?! Kill the douchebag? lol i dunno what to do.
Jul 27 2009 7:54PM
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andrew.
Posts: 2349 - Karma: 165
hate to say it, but your moms an adult and makes her own decisions. theres probably a reason behind her being with him, even if it is his money. the best thing to do is to get her away from tom and have a serious adult conversation about why you think she should leave him. think up all the pros and cons about leaving him and tell her them in a mature and organized way. whatever you do, dont stoop to his level and reduce yourself to kicking and screaming. stay calm and collected and explain yourself and hope that she understands.
Jul 27 2009 7:58PM
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b-ladd
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Some good advice, but that situation is definitely fucked. no one should have to deal with that. Just keep looking forward to moving out.
Jul 27 2009 8:00PM
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neutralzombie
Posts: 8629 - Karma: 606
yeah, problem is, your mom's gonna do what she wants to do.
having problems with my own mom, the sad part is you have to realize that there is nothing you can do to change your parents. she might see the light one day, or she might not. my mom dated an asshole once and he tried to start a fight with all of us, and she broke up with him the next day. it's a lot harder to beak up after 8 years. i don't know, if you really want to, you can try and sabotage it on her part, but that's just low. you should try talking to the guy in a civilized way and tell your mom how you feel. that's about all you can do, but you can't expect your mom to change, just like you wouldn't for her. sorry dude.
Jul 27 2009 8:02PM
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Jib-Ninja
Posts: 2819 - Karma: 20
This guy is not "civilized" in any way. He is seriously drunk from the time he wakes up to the time he goes to sleep. I have no idea how he got so rich because the guy seriously barley knows how to use the TV remote..and our DVD player was broke one time so he started hitting the top of it like a caveman thinking that would fix it. There is no sitting down and talking with him. And my mom has a trait where she just absolutely loves to argue, if i mentioned the cons about him she would bring up the cons about me..but i guess its worth a try talking to my mom.
Jul 27 2009 8:09PM
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Pippin
Posts: 4846 - Karma: 661
Bring this to the Ladies Man cult - you'll get some good answers
Jul 27 2009 8:10PM
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neutralzombie
Posts: 8629 - Karma: 606
why?


sorry to hear that, then i think you have to let it go bud. or call up intervention, make it a tv special.
Jul 27 2009 8:11PM
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taaayyla
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sit down with your mom and this douchbag guy and tell them how you feel when you hear him saying negative things about you. tell them how it is affecting you when you hear him say things like you are worthless etc. once you have done this, let them voice their concerns about your behaviour (if you behave well then no need) ... then together work proactively & maturely on changing the way that your relationship is with you mom and the dbag ... you would be surprised at how well an honest, mature & heartfelt conversation can change a situation
Jul 27 2009 8:12PM
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crazyfuck
Posts: 5968 - Karma: -7
are you blind?

he said, "you'll get some good answers."

that's a pretty damn good reason.
Jul 27 2009 8:14PM
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neutralzombie
Posts: 8629 - Karma: 606
no.
Jul 27 2009 8:15PM
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*steeze_is_good
Posts: 2885 - Karma: 718
Hows you and your moms relationship, just do that^ (sit down and talk with both of them. Maybe call AA haha
Jul 27 2009 8:17PM
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Jib-Ninja
Posts: 2819 - Karma: 20
Well its not just that he is a drunk that makes him a bad person..my dad said even before he started drinking  during all hours of the day he was just as pathetic as he is now. And my relationship with my momis pretty decent i guess, i can tell her about the shit going on in my life...except recently it has been a little rough because of all the trouble i have been getting into.
Jul 27 2009 8:19PM
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neutralzombie
Posts: 8629 - Karma: 606
try sticking out of trouble, even though we all know how fun it is...it can help damage your relationship with your mom, since the step guy seems like the manipulative blackmailer type.
besides, it's better for you in the long run not to end up like either of them.
Jul 27 2009 8:21PM
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*steeze_is_good
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Yeah pretty much be an angel haha
Get on her good side then make your move
Jul 27 2009 8:29PM
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Lax_Bro40
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tits or gtfo
Jul 27 2009 8:36PM
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charmander
Posts: 10636 - Karma: 372
you seriously wanna see her tits?
Jul 27 2009 8:43PM
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neutralzombie
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better mine than yours i'm sure.
Jul 27 2009 8:44PM
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infedel_one
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ooooh shit mander just got pwneedd!!! u go girl haha
Jul 27 2009 9:53PM
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charmander
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totally...
Jul 27 2009 9:56PM
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yellav
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is living with your dad an option?
Jul 27 2009 11:38PM
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crazyfuck
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.
Jul 27 2009 11:41PM
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ty.tran
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yucky. just gtfo no tits!!
Jul 28 2009 12:07AM
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zylstra
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Jul 28 2009 12:15AM
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PSiekierski
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call the police and say he bad touched you
Jul 28 2009 12:34AM
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Elijah.
Posts: 9322 - Karma: 76
This.

Personally, I would beat the shit out of this Tom guy the next time he does something deliberately agitating you, but thats probably the most immature thing you could do, and it wouldn't solve any problems.
Jul 28 2009 12:40AM
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Totes_Magotes
Posts: 2259 - Karma: 870
http://free.napster.com/player/?play_id=18760472&type=track
Jul 28 2009 12:47AM
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PeterNorth
Posts: 1347 - Karma: 1,232
just kill your self. its the only answer
Jul 28 2009 12:48AM
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Mr_Orange
Posts: 1024 - Karma: 154

or him...

no.

go live with your dad if thats an option... If i remember correctly you were 15 two years ago? so... just wait it out.. you'll be gone in less then a year

Jul 28 2009 12:53AM
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A-Lee
Posts: 256 - Karma: 19

just mess with the guy like deflate his tires on his car or drain or take all of his beer and put it in random places. or you could put everything that he puts down three inches to the left to make him get hella paranoid. none of these thing would help you but it would just be funny to do.

Jul 28 2009 12:57AM
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statuswhitegirl
Posts: 4058 - Karma: 883
cut his penis off with scissors
Jul 28 2009 1:19AM
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rj.
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Jul 28 2009 1:22AM
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Jib-Ninja
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Uhmm, living with my dad really isnt an option because he lives out in the middle of nowhere about an hour from where i live and an hour and 15 mins from my current school. And the school up where he lives is full of rednecks and people who live in trailers. Definetly dont want to move there. But the messing with him sounds really good lol...i think i might let out all the air in his tires.
Jul 28 2009 4:28AM
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chames
Posts: 2331 - Karma: -33
You beat me too it! Just do everything you can to make this guys life a living hell, but without ever admitting to doing any of it. Open all his beers and take a gulp out of everyone. Draw cocks on his car, take the laces out of his shoes, and just start taking random shit of his and throwing it out. Eventually he'll go crazy. Trust me, dewie did it in malcolm in the middle.
Jul 28 2009 4:48AM
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P-trees
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DO NOT FIGHT HIM. When I was 16 my mom was dating a guy named Tom (Ironic?}. One night I came home drunk, and I over heard him talking about how I was going nowhere because all I did was ski. I walked into the kitchen and started arguing with him. He said something about how I was just like my dad and I'm not "worth two shits". My dad is the consul of Norway for the entire west coast mind you. So I got mad and poured his beer on him, he slapped me, and my mom began to cry so I took his glass and smashed it on his head. He tackled me, and I am much bigger than he was, so we started fighting. I ended up getting on top of him and i started hitting him in the head with a baseball. Turns out my Mom called the police and I ended up getting arrested for aggravated assault. I've spent the last 2 years in prison . I spent my 17th and 18th birthdays in state prisons. I got out on November 19th. I missed out on some of the best years of my life. Just talk to your Mom, or move in with your Dad. Do yourself a favor.




















Jul 28 2009 5:32AM
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Scott22~
Posts: 649 - Karma: 10
Kill him and have sex with your mother, make psychologists proud~
Jul 28 2009 5:50AM
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chames
Posts: 2331 - Karma: -33
Oedipus would be proud.
Jul 28 2009 6:11AM
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Scott22~
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Thats what I was looking for, I had forgotten who it was so I just said psychologists heh~
Jul 28 2009 6:20AM
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honeydip
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HAHAHAHAHA
Jul 28 2009 7:53AM
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proZach
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lolwut
Jul 28 2009 8:47AM
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-+Siver+-
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you could move in with your dad, and just occasionally see your mother sometimes.
Jul 28 2009 9:24AM
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70794Willow
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o man. that sucks. +vibes here.
what punishment did the Tom doucher get?

and for u, also try ladies men cult like others before said...
Jul 28 2009 10:41AM
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snwbrdmilf
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LM is a fantastic cult for genuine advice...you won't get typical NSG responses in there. Its incredibly productive and it actually helps. NSG is just not a place you go for personal issues.
Jul 28 2009 10:48AM
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Big_Spence
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Jul 28 2009 11:18AM
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lineskier10
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holy shit are you serious?
Jul 28 2009 11:47AM
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strongmark
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i was arrested, charged with aggravated assault
"yo clancy, we got him", but it wasnt my fault!
nevertheless, dont mean to bust your bubble,
but girls of the world aint nothin but trouble!
so next time a girl gives you the play,
just remember my rhyme and get the hell away!!
Jul 28 2009 11:54AM
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mike91129
Posts: 777 - Karma: 43
Brain punch
Jul 28 2009 12:08PM
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roor
Posts: 946 - Karma: -80
i assume there is a local getto near you soo.. first drive into the getto then  look for the scariest  looking black man  you can find. Then assuming your white you introduce your self as Chuck Norris . If he does not run, your looking at one of the bravest negro the world has ever seen, maby even brave enough to get a job. At this point you can be sure that he carries a few brick of cocaine on him at all times. Now if you really were Chuck Norris you would just kick his ass and take them bricks, but remind your self that you are  indeed not  Chuck Norris..you will get your ass kicked. Now you ask him for a kilo of cocaine. Of course since your Chuck Norris he will give you a good deal just for not kicking his ass.  Once you have obtained  them bricks. Your goning to steel your dads keys and hide the bricks in his trunk, once returing the keys your then going to call the police. Then pop a bottle of cristal and watch the fire works..your dads going to be gone for a long time. 
Jul 28 2009 12:10PM
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deleted5
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wish I could help if it makes you feel any better my dads in jail.
Jul 28 2009 12:52PM
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Lax_Bro40
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you were 16.. how did you go to state prison?
Jul 28 2009 1:18PM
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gmack24
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I've seen 11 year olds get tried as adults
Jul 28 2009 1:31PM
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PopsicleStand
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what is your deal?

And just come on into ladies men. No random chuck Norris bullshit
Jul 28 2009 1:58PM
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