hmm, well it depends on your group of friends but assuming that not all of them are hardcore underground respecting conscious music listeners like most of us, you are going to have to play some mainstream-ish type music. and you want the girls to start bumpin and grindin for sure.
songs that ill play that the ladies always die over
slow motion - juvenile
the seed 2.0 - the roots
juicy - Biggie
big poppa - biggie
pretty much various biggie and pac
cant nobody hold us down - puff daddy and mase
flashing lights remix - kayne, lil wayne, jay-z
breathe - fabolous
hey ma - cam'ron
it was a good day - ice cube
stay fly- three six mafia
and when youre ready to do some competitive drinking....
wasted - paranoid social club
i cant stress enough though you gotta feel the mood and assess the people there before you play a certain song or type of music. i LOVE reggae, but at my type of parties if i played any of my favorite reggae people would croak. so the songs i mention are catchy, old school enough, mad street cred, , and all the ladies love em.
When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. - Henny Youngman