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CKpolicy
Posts: 2587 - Karma: 2,463
so last night my girlfriend of almost 3 yrs and i decided to take a break, i wasnt really all for the idea but she said she needed it and there wasnt much else i could do about it without being a total asshole. so now she wants to meet me for lunch this afternoon, and i dont know what to do/expect, i already agreed to meet her any advice? i know this shoould be in ladies men but im not a member and dont have alot of time please help me
Feb 9 2008 11:10AM
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kepler.
Posts: 8761 - Karma: 139
Someone get this guy an invite to Ladies Men.
Feb 9 2008 11:12AM
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Yauch
Posts: 1685 - Karma: 62
dont go, she's probly gonna  try to break up with you, thats why she wants to go to a formal place where you cant make a seen, just go ski or go hang with your friends or something
Feb 9 2008 2:20PM
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Tinga
Posts: 11349 - Karma: 2,333
well you have to go. if she's going to break up well then that really sucks but you need to go and realize that she isnt happy and it needs to end. yeah go and dont be nervous or anxious. just be cool and happy to see her. or just fricken propose. lol just kidding.
Feb 9 2008 2:22PM
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doritos
Posts: 7368 - Karma: 53
Yeah dude, fuck that. Say you're busy but you'd be happy to hang out with her in a park / at your house / at her house / anywhere that she can't break up with you comfortably on her terms... although if she's gonna do it I'm not sure how long you'll be able to avoid it.
Feb 9 2008 2:23PM
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Yauch
Posts: 1685 - Karma: 62
take her skiing with you and bust some mad skills in her face
Feb 9 2008 2:26PM
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Itsbackfliptime
Posts: 18901 - Karma: 75
maybe she's telling you she doesn't want to go on a break.

Fuck girls. That break shit is so bogus.
Feb 9 2008 4:10PM
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Fish_Sandwich.
Posts: 9108 - Karma: 16
Well get in ladies men fast dude, we'll help you out in there.
But I think that if she breaks up with you you should tell her you want to go talk about it at a different place and she had better respect that and shit, after 3 years I think ending it in a cafe or whatever and then not even talking about it would be fucked up.  If she does break up, not at all saying she will just might as well be prepared right, I would just tell her you wanna talk about it at a different place, if she says no, just walk out and give her a guilt trip or something, then just NEXT her probably, depending on how good of friends you were before you started dating.  How old are you too?  That would help to know.
Feb 9 2008 4:16PM
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tommihq
Posts: 905 - Karma: 11
SLAP THE BITCH
Feb 9 2008 4:36PM
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Fish_Sandwich.
Posts: 9108 - Karma: 16
wow retard, what a typical response in nsg.....

somebody take this to lm.

Feb 9 2008 5:19PM
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solitaryman
Posts: 3578 - Karma: 123
pee in her butt




or not you could break up with her first to keep up your street cred relationships are gay anywho
Feb 9 2008 5:23PM
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christo4
Posts: 232 - Karma: 10
just fuck her in the butt
Feb 9 2008 5:26PM
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swTroyanchick
Posts: 2616 - Karma: 9
If I d be you i would go to the lunch thinger, because IF she would wanna break up she would do it either way, but maybe she just regretts her stupid idea of being on a break ?? In my opinion breaks are just making it worse
Feb 9 2008 6:17PM
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gbirrd
Posts: 1475 - Karma: 20
go to lunch n if she breaks up with you punch her in the head
Feb 9 2008 6:22PM
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lotsoffun
Posts: 278 - Karma: 15
i'm guessing lunch is probably over, hope it went alright
Feb 9 2008 11:07PM
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CKpolicy
Posts: 2587 - Karma: 2,463
ya so her break lasted a total of 24 hrs, she realized she couldnt handle it i guess and now shit is back to normal...i guess. she just doesnt want to fight over the past anymore, which is an agreeable condition
Feb 10 2008 1:13AM
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Smidt
Posts: 339 - Karma: 11
Holy thats like the happiest shit ive ever read on the internet bro thats good for you hope she doesnt try to do anything like that again
Feb 10 2008 3:38AM
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lotsoffun
Posts: 278 - Karma: 15
good for you broheem
Feb 10 2008 10:49PM
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Alex_G
Posts: 11902 - Karma: 1,018
I can't believe nobody's told this guy to pee in her butt yet...
Feb 10 2008 10:51PM
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R-B-B
Posts: 915 - Karma: 28
I just smiled for you.
Feb 10 2008 10:53PM
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comeatmebro
Posts: 10720 - Karma: 66
shit. did you just get an internet connection 10 minutes ago or something?


Feb 10 2008 10:53PM
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melskiis
Posts: 180 - Karma: 6
they have.. look up
Feb 10 2008 10:54PM
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EVAN.F
Posts: 895 - Karma: 2,820
jokes jokes
Feb 10 2008 10:58PM
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D-HAWK
Posts: 890 - Karma: 10
scoreee  <3
Feb 10 2008 10:59PM
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doublexl
Posts: 8407 - Karma: 26
so many things you say should be nominated for golden wheel chair.

why wouldnt he go if shes gonna break up with him? shes not a mail order wife, and believe it or not, women have a say in things too.

so, maybe you shouldnt give him shitty advice like go ski and maybe some good advice: go and tell her how you feel and listen to what she has to say. if she wants out and you dont, you will both be happier apart then if only one of you is feelin it.
Feb 10 2008 11:01PM
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Squirrel_Murphy
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She is 99% going to break up with you.  Take it like a man and move on buddy.  There's plenty of ladies out there.  Yeah 3 years is a long time and gettin over her isnt gonna be a walk in the park but just hang out with your close friends, ski as much as possible, and smoking weed has always helped me with shitty situations and from gettin depressed, so if you're into that then go for it.

Feb 10 2008 11:01PM
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R-B-B
Posts: 915 - Karma: 28
They are not breaking up.
Feb 10 2008 11:05PM
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2+2=5
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hahahahah i laughed at that for some reason...
Feb 10 2008 11:06PM
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titsLOL
Posts: 7485 - Karma: 396
wow. you guys are real helpful. why the fuck would he want to avoid going so that she cant break up with him? if she wants to break up that's that, it's not like ignoring her will make you boyfriend/girlfriend again. that's seriously some of the worst advice I've ever heard.  and if you've been going out with this girl for like 2 years or whatever you said why is going to lunch such a big deal that you are tweakin out? kids these days... geez
Feb 10 2008 11:07PM
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Bentley@DOSMedia
Posts: 1410 - Karma: 1,827
Dude thats good!
breaks are the scariest thing in the world if your really like her a lot. I think they can make things worse.
Hope all goes well dude!
now time to get back to skiing :)
Feb 10 2008 11:16PM
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lotsoffun
Posts: 278 - Karma: 15
indeed. break ups will make things worse
Feb 12 2008 8:20AM
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IcePointa
Posts: 1879 - Karma: 19
I believe the point was to not go to the lunch so that if she was gonna break up with him she would have to do it somewhere they could talk about it and not have a waiter trying to shuffle them out of the place and send them on their way. Restaurants aren't the best places to handle a breakup, although it happens all the time.
Feb 12 2008 8:54AM
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duckets.
Posts: 1168 - Karma: 41
damn, ur lucky dude. when my ex said she "wanted a break" it was code for she was breaking up with me. wish she had just told me straight up, would've made things a lot less complicated. Glad to hear you had a better situation.
Feb 12 2008 9:43AM
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Owen.
Posts: 1134 - Karma: 13
[to the noobs]

Read shit before you post. Half of the posts after he said THEY DIDN'T BREAK UP have been giving advice on a subject that doesn't need it anymore. 99% chance shes breaking up with him, eh?

Man you're a genius.

Feb 12 2008 12:23PM
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J.D.
Posts: 21362 - Karma: 5,141
Fuck that noise... Break up with her first.
Feb 12 2008 12:25PM
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da-bling
Posts: 1145 - Karma: 11
naaa man if shes breaking up with you make her do it on your terms
Feb 12 2008 1:40PM
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TomK1
Posts: 144 - Karma: 13
Hey not to worry you have to take advantage of this situation. The formula is simple: The longer you are in a relationship, the more other girls want you. You have 3 years under your belt so take the break up hit, get drunk at a party and tell all the girls how crushed you are about it. Have fun, get laid, then put your used condom in a manilla folder and mail it to your ex with a fuck you note.
Feb 12 2008 2:49PM
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ParkLife01
Posts: 378 - Karma: 17
 smoke some weed and tell her you were to high to go or something like that
Feb 12 2008 3:36PM
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KRASHED
Posts: 7803 - Karma: 466
perfect example of an NS idiot, they didn't break up and that's one of the worst ideas in this thread other than peeing in her butt, which is at least funny!
Feb 12 2008 4:22PM
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doritos
Posts: 7368 - Karma: 53
Arguably the single worst possible way to handle this scenario.
Feb 12 2008 8:00PM
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Squirrel_Murphy
Posts: 2195 - Karma: 1,165
  "we should take a break.....ing up"
Feb 12 2008 9:33PM
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jason...
Posts: 9006 - Karma: 780
if shes gonna break up with u, atleast get break up sex, pee in her butt and claim it on ns
Feb 12 2008 10:15PM
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theres_ghosts
Posts: 875 - Karma: 13
say you go to lunch with her

her: im sorry i dont think we should be together anymore blah blah blah.

you: (make sure lots of people are around) I CANT FUCKING BELIEVE THIS!!! WHY DIDNT YOU TELL ME YOUR A LESBIAN??
Feb 12 2008 10:32PM
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argo801
Posts: 602 - Karma: 39
dude, what ended up happinin?????
Feb 12 2008 11:34PM
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jKutcher
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this is what happened for those to challenged to read the entire thread
Feb 12 2008 11:38PM
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argo801
Posts: 602 - Karma: 39
opps, must have missed it
Feb 13 2008 12:11AM
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