Red Bull Unrailistic | LIVE Broadcast

Member of the Month

PartyBullshiit
March, 2024

Online

Welcome to the Newschoolers forums! You may read the forums as a guest, however you must be a registered member to post. Register to become a member today!

Ways you gain self-confidence

profile picture
SirFryanator
Posts: 11149 - Karma: 1,415
My methods of gaining self confidence and such are not really working right now.
So I ask, what are some things that you NSers do to keep a really high amount of self-confidence?
Nov 29 2007 11:15PM
0 0
profile picture
DANETRON
Posts: 6671 - Karma: 137
i have no idea as i have absolutely no self confidence. But is this related to your rap dilema?
Nov 29 2007 11:17PM
0 0
profile picture
Shadows
Posts: 8068 - Karma: 42
if im having trouble landing something, or being a bitch i want people to get mad at me for being a bitch and say i cant do it...so i just do it.
it works
Nov 29 2007 11:18PM
0 0
profile picture
SirFryanator
Posts: 11149 - Karma: 1,415
not at all whatsoever.
Nov 29 2007 11:18PM
0 0
profile picture
Nicholas.
Posts: 10905 - Karma: 60
do stuff im good at, crochet something sick as hell, go riding, hit on a girl that i wont get rejected by...



even pwn some noobs at halo.


Nov 29 2007 11:19PM
0 0
profile picture
skisebski
Posts: 5970 - Karma: 21

growing up and just be happy with who you are and this may take some time. it wont happen over night. dont worry too much about trying to impress people. ask yourself why you may lack self confidence and see if you really are being rational about it. chances are your not. your probably beind to hard on yourself.  in relation to skiing if you want, land a trick that you mabye dont to often and stoke yourself up.

Nov 29 2007 11:19PM
0 0
profile picture
Nicholas.
Posts: 10905 - Karma: 60
oh i also like to get drunk and make fun of people that i think i am better than, that makes me feel better sometimes until i realize im an asshole.
Nov 29 2007 11:21PM
0 0
profile picture
SirFryanator
Posts: 11149 - Karma: 1,415
and I have plenty of skiing self confidence.
It just seems the only times I have self confidence and believe in myself are when I am skiing, or when I'm on stage. The opposite of most people. I'm just a pretty introverted guy outside of parties and when I'm not the center of attention. I'm really trying to break out of that "nice guy" that the ladies think are cute but would never think of dating stage. But it's not just the ladies and such, it's my overall well-being I want to improve.

Plus I'm a bit bored right now and I decided that it would be a good time to start working on this.
Nov 29 2007 11:22PM
0 0
profile picture
skisebski
Posts: 5970 - Karma: 21

somebody invite this dude to the LADIES MEN CULT, this might help.

Nov 29 2007 11:24PM
0 0
profile picture
SirFryanator
Posts: 11149 - Karma: 1,415
already in it haha. I already know what I have to do to get the ladies. Truth is, I really don't care too much about getting pussy right now.
Nov 29 2007 11:26PM
0 0
profile picture
freestyler540
Posts: 13046 - Karma: 18,292
I took on rock climbing, it really help my confidence. skiing helped too, remember the more time you spend with people, the more confidence you get. I was also a coach, I had to deal with parents so I had to develop confidence, even when I was wrong.

 
Nov 29 2007 11:26PM
0 0
profile picture
proZach
Posts: 7163 - Karma: 917
talking to really good friends helps. anyone that makes you laugh even if you're super mad or depressed or something. i have like 5 friends that can do that. it helps a lot. i guess its like knowing you have super awesome friends makes you a super awesome kid? haha, dunno.
Nov 30 2007 12:46AM
0 0
profile picture
ISkiSwitch
Posts: 3157 - Karma: 22
actually take like...more than 10 minutes in front of the mirror, and pick out clothes for once. I look like a slob alot, and actually shaving, and wearing a well matched outfit boosts my confidence once in a while. Plus my acnes like gone, so I'm super happy about everything lately. If you're happy about the way you look, that boosts your self confidence up.
Nov 30 2007 12:53AM
0 0
profile picture
landonn
Posts: 2913 - Karma: 385
just listen to jack johnson's upside down. i fucken hate pretty much anything besides rap but this song is just so chilll that it makes me feel better about myself and all relaxed. its sweet.
Nov 30 2007 12:56AM
0 0
profile picture
BillyRayUSA
Posts: 9 - Karma: 10
Ill tell you how you young kids can get some self confience. It starts with respecting yourself and your country and making yourself worth the air youre breathing. Skiing is fun an all but it has no contribution to our great society. I tell you what get yourself a job and a fine southern woman to take care of an she love you forever if you stop actin a fool with that abobination to god music kids call rap today. Call your mother an tell her that you love her and that youll stop smoking that reefer I hear you kids blatherin bout in here.
Nov 30 2007 1:03AM
0 0
profile picture
MFM
Posts: 842 - Karma: 77
shut the hell up
Nov 30 2007 1:11AM
0 0
profile picture
SirFryanator
Posts: 11149 - Karma: 1,415
Well BillyRayUSA, I suggest you open up your mind to the outside world and relax. I've already found that southern women are a bit too high-maintenance and dumb for my liking.
Funny alias btw haha

I'm patriotic too, and I try not to take much for granted. That's the message you're sending. I don't think it's helping out. I think I'll just go with the flow for now, and use some techniques I find myself.
Nov 30 2007 1:18AM
0 0
profile picture
treesmann
Posts: 2675 - Karma: 49
just a thought... alias?
Nov 30 2007 1:21AM
0 0
profile picture
landonn
Posts: 2913 - Karma: 385
go check out his other thread in ski gabber, so funny.
Nov 30 2007 1:23AM
0 0
profile picture
T.L.
Posts: 4729 - Karma: 3,008
Find some slut and bust on her face.... jay-kay-ing.  Just don't be a wiener.
Nov 30 2007 1:24AM
0 0
profile picture
RudyGarmisch
Posts: 25443 - Karma: 13,844
Confidence and self assurance is currently best achieved for me by knowing and trusting in the divine wisdom that is Ladder Theory.
Nov 30 2007 2:02AM
0 0
profile picture
Skipig25
Posts: 10729 - Karma: 256
it's all true. gotta strive for that first ladder
Nov 30 2007 2:54AM
0 0
profile picture
coolhandluke
Posts: 4465 - Karma: 153
maybe you should open up your mind to the world of southern women

and for an added boost of encouragement go watch 40 Year Old Virgin
Nov 30 2007 12:21PM
0 0
profile picture
spere
Posts: 6105 - Karma: 248
i always feel a lot better after i go for a run or work out

or superman a ho
Nov 30 2007 12:22PM
0 0
profile picture
skisebski
Posts: 5970 - Karma: 21
yea, runners high will do that. gotta love those endorphins!
Nov 30 2007 12:34PM
0 0
profile picture
Tom.
Posts: 1954 - Karma: 12
hell yeah, thats what I do.
Nov 30 2007 12:45PM
0 0
All times are Eastern (-4)