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do you guys even realize the shit people go through after being actually raped? it ruins their life.
first you get verbally harassed. then physically. then you start to get beaten up. then you have a knife at your throat. at this point, you have no control over anything that's happening. you're scread to fight, because you think you'll get your throat slit like he said he'd do if you faught. your body is then used and violated for someones fucked up pleasure. after, its hard to have a relationship like you used to. you feel crappy, and low about yourself. you feel used, and dirty. you have no confidence. you wake up in the middle of the night with nightmares of your rape happening all over again. you wonder why he didn't slit your throat when he was two second away from doing so. you keep it to yourself for years because you think no one will beleive you. you have hard time trusting anyone, and when you do finally trust someone, you obsess over them like crazy. you're family kicks themselves in the ass for letting you go out that one night that you got raped, thinking its all their fault and they can't even look at you the same. some nights you can't kiss your boyfriend without being scared shitless, and you have no idea why. you're finally diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, and you go through a shit load of therapy to become the person again you once were.
i understand that joking around about rape is no different then joking around about racism or such.. which i do beleive is wrong as well. but right now we're talking souly about rape, and i, personally, think its fucked up for raped to be viewed as desirable or magical or funny for even a second.
call me dramatic, call me a feminist, whatever.