Friend to a friend (piss)

sorry, i had to refer to the girl i'm seeing as my 'girl'. I do not drive an Integra nor do I use hair gel..... I merely couldn't come up with a better name for her.

Everybody to the limit!

umm i would tell him straight up man to man..but don't tell him 'she isn't taking it seroiusly'.. just use a story of another person to express it to him and .. the best advice for him would be to take you to cuba instead and party it up with his boys and not give her so much attention -- to much attention and she will just bolt.

But then - if you want her to take off and him to get rid of her.. tell him straight up and that should dent his ego enough (i hope).

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I was explaining to him that he has to make her want him by not smothering her and basically treating her like shit, kidding, sort of, but.... I don't want to tell him cause:
A) my girlfriend will get in trouble
B) maybe they have a relationship and were over-analyzing it
C) he will start drinking lots and I'll have to drive more often

thanks skilikeadude!

Everybody to the limit!

its skilikeagirl! Anyways, if you want to tell him.. then you are on the right track. He does have to basically treat her like shit.. but not really. Basically, he is giving her too much attnetion. He has to leave her wondering sometimes and stuff.. so he has to do more stuff without her and do more stuff where he isn't always calling her and telling her and all that garbage - you know.

He dosen't have to treat her like shit - just STOP GIVING HER SO MUCH DAMN ATTENTION. And your girl won't get in shit 'cause you just tell him not to say anything and say he will look like an ass if he does.

Ignore and then do one good day a week where you are sweet and kiss a little ass.. etc etc..

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I agree, treat a girl with little less interest and then.... I'm the same way, and by the way you talk you sound the same. This is a helpful hint to all those younger people on here, you always want what you can't have so you have to tease. It makes things more interesting for both parties. If I was him I'd just start pulling away from her and have fun. Eventually she's going to start asking what he's up to and curious as to why he 'dumped her' and shit. Then she'll want him back. Save him looking like a loser, spending money on her, etc, when she talks behind his back....

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You need to tell him to ask her straight out. That way you do the best for him without feeding him secondhand info which could lead to the wrong conclusion.

In summary, the hint you should give him should be to question his Girl's motives and plans!

Cheers

Bawbadaddy

i don't think he should dump her.. but all the rest of it sounds right.. you just have to keep him super busy until he learns to do it on his own. He has to stop basing his plans and shit on her. Make his own happy-happy fun times rather then always depending on her and needing her.. yep - he needs this advice..

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he never sees her anyway, like once or twice a week. He lives east of the dot and she lives in the city so.... you have to understand that this is his high school crush, infatuation. It is a tricky situation.

Jonas

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