Really really *NOT* looking to get into a debate about this (feel free to DM me) but just explaining the counterpoint...
This is sorta the whole issue with the transgender debate. You're still trying to classify trans people based on YOUR definition of what it means to be biologically male or biologically female, whereas trans men and women DO already view themselves as biologically male/female even if they have the "wrong" genitalia.
I totally agree that this is confusing and goes against everything we learned as kids (i.e if you've got a dick - you're a guy ) but I listened to a talk by a trans man who said "Some women are born with penises, some men are born with vaginas" and that sorta helped me wrap my brain around it. Also the reason why people want to stop assigning gender at birth, etc.
**This post was edited on Mar 22nd 2022 at 3:19:50pm