So my story goes as follows, I used to work at ski resorts on Mt Hood a couple years ago so naturally I got to ride a lot; my wife never set foot on skis or a snowboard, and lives a rather low intense low risk lifestyle. At first nothing seemed too bad I got to ski she got to stay home and watch Netflix or do whatever a home body does (nothing wrong with that its cool)
I eventually left the low wage mountain jobs and started working with low voltage shit; cool here I am 2 years later doing the same line of work kicking ass at it, bringing home bread to support us, etc.. yet slowly ever so slowly I have felt defeated that my lifestyle dramatically became altered to mirror her lifestyle which as I said is super low intense.. I went from getting 70+ days to these last 2 seasons getting 4 Days combined into 2 years
so I ask that you take all this into consideration when reading post
It is near impossible for me to ask her if I can go skiing because the answer will always be an uncontested “No” or if I do get to go she expects me to be there and back home in 2 hours (which is Impossible) and I usually never hear the end of it when i’m not back in those 2 hours and sometimes get close to getting the boot.
so today I had been telling her that me and my supervisor were going to be going to check out a future project we will take on (bit of a white lie cuz me n supe Did go towards Portland from Bend)
We had actually intended to go skiing at SkiBowl which we did the conditions were crud the rope tow park was fun as fuck though and my soul finally felt fed that I got to do what I love this is only my 2nd day of the season but damn it was so nice I went hard on the features at rope tow I saw all
the homies that work at the Bowl, had good convos with my supe (his lady lets him shred and Encourages it)
anyways I do feel shitty for lying but I also think it is shitty that my partner makes me feel like shit for enjoying skiing, shit even going on a simple hike wouldn’t get “approval”.. so I decided to ask for forgiveness instead of permission and it led to me being booted from our apartment lol it sucks I know but I ask you NS and fellow skiers
what would you do?