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This could possibly be the loneliest I’ve ever been. Yet surrounded by so many people.

AbiHThis could possibly be the loneliest I’ve ever been. Yet surrounded by so many people.

Has the adjustment to the move to New Zealand been difficult? Sorry for stalking I just saw your Instagram in your bio

GarrettHanleyi see this so much nowadays, smartphones are taking over in such a bad way its pretty sad.

_GHOSTPeople on smartphones make me want to kill myself.... it's almost like people are forgetting how conversation works.

You start with small talk, then progress to more complex topics through association (as a general rule)

my rule is that if I have to try to get someone’s attention three times, I’m out. No goodbye, just dip. Those people aren’t worth the time.

connecticuntmy rule is that if I have to try to get someone’s attention three times, I’m out. No goodbye, just dip. Those people aren’t worth the time.

Good guideline to follow, I feel like when I go out (rare occasion) I barley use my phone unless I’m taking a video or something, let alone use my phone on a date. I once saw these people on a first date (could just tell by how awkward it was). They sat down and ordered drinks, and the guy was sitting there taking Snapchat’s of his beer hahahahah. 20 min later and she’s now on her phone to, no communication what so ever. Anyone under the age of 20 is doomed

Don't let the system get you down

Real mattafix shit

AbiHThis could possibly be the loneliest I’ve ever been. Yet surrounded by so many people.

Just graduated hs, I’m at community college so the few kids I was friends with are away at school. I feel this big time. Really fucks with your head in a negative way

AbiHThis could possibly be the loneliest I’ve ever been. Yet surrounded by so many people.

I'm at college and lonely as hell. I talked to almost nobody today. It wasn't supposed to be this way. Everyone else is drinking, hooking up, partying. This is supposed to be the time of my life. What the fUUUUUUUUUUUUCKKKKKKKKK

surfaceoutsidersI'm at college and lonely as hell. I talked to almost nobody today. It wasn't supposed to be this way. Everyone else is drinking, hooking up, partying. This is supposed to be the time of my life. What the fUUUUUUUUUUUUCKKKKKKKKK

Hang in there, ski season is upon us and and you will be up on the hill soon in your own element. Give it time, you will doing what everyone else is doing if that is what you want. First little while can be difficult but things will come around.

oldmanskiHang in there, ski season is upon us and and you will be up on the hill soon in your own element. Give it time, you will doing what everyone else is doing if that is what you want. First little while can be difficult but things will come around.

I go to school in Georgia. There is no skiing here. I'll probably only ski a few days like every year #poserlyfe :( I'll try and do what I can and take some weekend trips but yeah I have to settle for blading, which I love, but I have trouble getting to skateparks and it's just not the same.

surfaceoutsidersI go to school in Georgia. There is no skiing here. I'll probably only ski a few days like every year #poserlyfe :( I'll try and do what I can and take some weekend trips but yeah I have to settle for blading, which I love, but I have trouble getting to skateparks and it's just not the same.

Join clubs and shit, even if you're not 100% stoked on the club you will meet cool people in every one and bam u got friends. They might also have hot friends that would be down to pressure treat ur dong if you play ur cards right too

ISO 1 guy (preferably) with long term live-in relationship experience to dm me bc I need advice on what to about a guy in a long term relationship but don’t feel the need to air it all out in the open nah mean

Idk guys, I just don’t think Jeffrey Epstein killed himself

**This post was edited on Oct 27th 2019 at 10:40:43pm

theLiquorIdk guys, I just don’t think Jeffrey Epstein killed himself

**This post was edited on Oct 27th 2019 at 10:40:43pm

connecticuntISO 1 guy (preferably) with long term live-in relationship experience to dm me bc I need advice on what to about a guy in a long term relationship but don’t feel the need to air it all out in the open nah mean

You have better chances finding someone on craigslist casual encounters than here

connecticuntISO 1 guy (preferably) with long term live-in relationship experience to dm me bc I need advice on what to about a guy in a long term relationship but don’t feel the need to air it all out in the open nah mean

not the one to pm u but good luck b

Someone who I used to call a friend is so blinded by their own ego and pride that they cannot begin to realize why they've lost multiple friends. She even told me that everyone in high school thought she was an asshole. Nothing has changed in the seven years since. Really sad.

Didn't get invited to any Halloween parties tonight. Will most likely diddle my dilly to ig whores instead. Feels bad man.

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Suck my duck, you scamming piece of shit.

I’ve been pretty down bad recently. I used to be super introverted. A girl I was crazy about broke up with me three months ago. The first month was super depressing and sad. I then just decided to be super extroverted and say yes to literally anything anyone asked me to do which was really fun and took my mind off that situation.

I went out for the first time since the break up, I was at a bar and asked this cute girl for he number but she said she has a bf but gave me her number anyway. Long story short, we have been casually hooking up for the past two months and it’s been really fun and she is really cool. There was also another chick who I have been hooking up with at the same time who is kinda crazy but the sex is good so w/e.

Now, I’m feeling pretty shitty about the whole thing, sure it’s fun and all but the excitement is really wearing off. I used to be so good at being alone and doing my own thing. Now I just get really ancey when I’m not doing something, sitting at home scrolling the gram. My ADD is back with a vengeance, I refuse to go on meds. I just feel kinda hyperactive all the time. I have also become very open about my life with my friends. Even writing this post, I could never have imagined being vulnerable to anyone a year ago, I always kept my cards pretty close to my chest.

i don’t know if I’m just changing as a person and my brain is like ‘wtf is happening’ or my relationship/breakup with my ex is having a bigger toll on me than I realize. I feel great 90% of the time but then the 10% is really really bad. There seems to be no middle ground.

/downbad

JAHBRADORI’ve been pretty down bad recently. I used to be super introverted. A girl I was crazy about broke up with me three months ago. The first month was super depressing and sad. I then just decided to be super extroverted and say yes to literally anything anyone asked me to do which was really fun and took my mind off that situation.

I went out for the first time since the break up, I was at a bar and asked this cute girl for he number but she said she has a bf but gave me her number anyway. Long story short, we have been casually hooking up for the past two months and it’s been really fun and she is really cool. There was also another chick who I have been hooking up with at the same time who is kinda crazy but the sex is good so w/e.

Now, I’m feeling pretty shitty about the whole thing, sure it’s fun and all but the excitement is really wearing off. I used to be so good at being alone and doing my own thing. Now I just get really ancey when I’m not doing something, sitting at home scrolling the gram. My ADD is back with a vengeance, I refuse to go on meds. I just feel kinda hyperactive all the time. I have also become very open about my life with my friends. Even writing this post, I could never have imagined being vulnerable to anyone a year ago, I always kept my cards pretty close to my chest.

i don’t know if I’m just changing as a person and my brain is like ‘wtf is happening’ or my relationship/breakup with my ex is having a bigger toll on me than I realize. I feel great 90% of the time but then the 10% is really really bad. There seems to be no middle ground.

/downbad

Love and affection is like heroin. Its fucking awesome when you have the feeling, but fucking sucks when its taken away.
In your case, it sounds like a rebound relationship.

Last gfs Ive had just got up and left with only a day notice. They were like: hey, Im leaving to live out east… so… seeya. Every time, I spent months trying to figure out what did I do wrong. The last one was in 2015 and I still never got over it. Since then, I have been very careful about who I open up to. I have to make sure that they are willing to make an effort to keep the relationship alive. I would set up activities, invite them to outings and by the 3rd refusal (or BS reason) I wait for them to suggest something. 100% failure rate so far.

Its protected me against deep sadness of being dumped through all the years, but I grow more and more lonely and self esteem is an all time low. I picked up a ton of hobbies, got really good at biking and focused on skiing and travelling, but never felt complete. Since I dont have social media accounts, I tend to get turned down on first dates or meetings. I can see their hopes being dashed in their eyes when I tell them that I dont have facebook or instagram, dont have netflix or satelite TV, but I can be reached by phone, text or email.

Ive made a great friendship with an older lady at my appartment complex. Shes always stoked on hearing about my adventures, watching my footage and staring at my pictures. She even joined me on a few outings. For a 65 year old lady with a severe herniated back, shes more active than most people my age. In March, she was diagnosed with breast cancer and last week it was found to be terminal. She cared more about me than my parents, and now Im going to loose her by winter. She is the only one that will go in because shes shaking so hard from the cold or fatigue and not because shes done her cigarette or joint.

Im sick of being punched in the gut over and over again. Being at work on a ship for 5 straight months really doesnt help my mental state. But as usual, no one cares.