How do I open up to people and trust them more? (subtle brag!?)

Okay so I'm not a bad guy, I treat my girl (when I have one) right. I treat her like a queen, I’ll rub her feet if shes tired, Ill massage her with oils when shes tense... Ill do anything. I cook and keep a clean house. All jokes aside Im not a total nutcase. I wont even look at porno when Im with someone as I feel its like cheating sort of, I take her out, we go walking, kayaking, dinner, etc... Im not a jealous jerk either. I can talk about anything from art to politics or whatever. Im not a perfect built guy with huge muscles but Im not all that ugly :fawk:

With that said, I cant find someone I like or respect for the life of me. When they have a nice \"mind\" they weigh like 200lbs and when the body is okay (I mean okay - not perfect, not being picky) theyre dumber than a freaking rock. Sometimes when I think shes fine with a good personality and theres a physical attraction, something happens like me finding out she has a boyfriend (without telling me). Women my age want guys in their 40s. I wanted to see this one girl, shes 26 (Im 28) and she has a little kid. Well when I finally got her number from a friend it was too late, shes currently with a 45 year old guy with teenage kids. :wtf: Women in their early 20s are not worth anything besides getting laid for a month because in my experience theyre into the most stupid shit.

I had a 21 year tell me that Im too nice, she\'s into the \"ganster\" kind of guy. I later saw her with a boyfriend \"gansta\" he didnt own a car, had large ass pants, a long t-shirt that went to his knees and a sideways cap with a head band he walked with a sort of lean too.

Not wanting a 200lb chick is not being overly superficial, I tried to enjoy a woman\'s body who weighed 180 pounds but I couldnt at all, "nope aint gonna happen, Im sorry - I cant get my little guy to work with me tonight". I was grossed out, just not my taste. I cant resort to a sort of relationship where the partner will make me vomit a little everytime she wants sex.

All I want is a cute woman in her mid 20s to early 30s with long dark hair, no more than 130 ish pounds. Thats into rock music (or at least hates hiphop, dance, techno etc...), that can talk about anything, not a bitch, and whatever... **** it will never happen. Im going to be 30 in a few years, what happens then? I feel like Ill be alone for the rest of my life. I\'m not looking for the perfect chick, I just want a chick that will be perfect for me and so far I have yet to find her. sigh [/rant]

dont look for love
it will find you
you just have to know where it will find you

Wow, very relatable TRVP! I know about losing a girl to the "gangster type" and it's not a pleasant feeling. Maybe I should stop being the nice guy from the kebab shop wearing my Sperrys and polo t-shirts. And replace them with waist size 48 jeans and a 5xl lrg t-shirt. Change up my personality and all so I look all tough. That'll fix my problem!

hubbardsdont look for love
it will find you
you just have to know where it will find you

How do I know where to find something I never had!?!

Xx_Ac1dTr1p_xXHow do I know where to find something I never had!?!

you got me there
i dont have a clue man
I know confidence and dominance are key but I have no idea how to show ppl how to get it

Lol do you guys not even have a giant FD suit?

OregonDeadLol do you guys not even have a giant FD suit?

I have a 3XL Bloom suit. It's pretty big AND green. It's very cool, however lacking on the functional side!

hubbardsyou got me there
i dont have a clue man
I know confidence and dominance are key but I have no idea how to show ppl how to get it

Confidence and dominance, I will put that on my shopping list. Maybe I could buy it at the store.

Xx_Ac1dTr1p_xXI have a 3XL Bloom suit. It's pretty big AND green. It's very cool, however lacking on the functional side!

Not even functional for looking gangsta? Gotta get your priorities in order. Have you not been paying attention in NS school?

Xx_Ac1dTr1p_xXI have a 3XL Bloom suit. It's pretty big AND green. It's very cool, however lacking on the functional side!

Are you against bringing back oldwave or something? smh my head.

But really OP, I have zero qualification in your case. This sort of thing worked for me because I was platonic with them for a while before deciding I was interested in dating. I’d say try that, but different people are different, so I really can’t assure you this is the right way.

I donno if I can chime in on this cause I’m a chick but im going to anyway haha

Mature women who are ready to settle down like nice guys (gentleman)....

I think that women who aren’t ready to settle down like the “bad” guys cause internally (aka unknown
Instinct) they are scared to fall in love and be forced to settle down...

Then you have People like myself who would rather have a nice guy either way

hubbardsI know confidence and dominance are key but I have no idea how to show ppl how to get it

To this, dominance is not attractive to most ladies... confidence is a definite winner though... for example If you like a girl tell her that and ask her on a date (don’t wait for months) don’t ask her to “chill” use the word “date”.... 👌🏼

https://mpora.com/skiing/chair-lift-chat-lines

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your best bet

**This post was edited on Jan 31st 2019 at 11:33:39am

I prefer this one when starting convos with attractive people

https://mpora.com/skiing/23-ways-instantly-make-chairlift-ride-incredibly-awkward#XOefhqqkcB5XcMMw.99

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how the hell did we wind up like this?

AbiHI prefer this one when starting convos with attractive people

https://mpora.com/skiing/23-ways-instantly-make-chairlift-ride-incredibly-awkward#XOefhqqkcB5XcMMw.99

I think I'm gonna try number 12 next time I'm up!

satanworshipperhttps://mpora.com/skiing/chair-lift-chat-lines

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your best bet

**This post was edited on Jan 31st 2019 at 11:33:39am

Number 7 seems like a great idea

Xx_Ac1dTr1p_xXNumber 7 seems like a great idea

Number 11 is the best