I'm writing this to help people avoid what I am going through as well as hoping writing this down will help me feel better. I met a girl back in January and I thought that we hit it off pretty quickly. I learned that she was a skier with a lot of knowledge about the industry which instantly got my interest. Although we lived a good distance away from each other we would ski every weekend as well as travel around Colorado together. After about 6 months of being together I thought that everything was going good and I was really starting to get feelings for her. Then a couple weeks ago she took a trip west to mount hood with her girl friend. Talking to her on the phone almost every day I thought nothing of it when she told me about a dude she was skiing with that I had heard about before. After a week and a half out west she came back and I went to visit her excited to see a girl I started caring a lot about. Not too long into hanging out with her I saw him blowing up her phone and it later got revealed she hooked up with him and slept with him. Almost instantly I saw the interest she showed for me disappear. I have never been so devastated in my life. It would be one thing if it was just a normal girl but this cut me deep. She left my ass and as far as I know they are together now. Mount hood is one of my favorite places on earth and now every time I see a picture or video from there it makes me sick. It has ruined something that makes me happier than anything. So to all of you wishing for a skier girl friend, from my personal experience it is a bad idea. Keep skiing and your love life separated. Believe me it fucking sucks.
**This thread was edited on Jun 18th 2018 at 4:16:49pm