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Lonely
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Alright. So first things first this is not a perzonal advice thread. More off a brainstorming thing so people will have multiple methods to try.


So yeah what are your methods or ideas? And pink names, please do verify that these would be good methods.

**This thread was edited on Aug 13th 2020 at 9:28:03pm
Aug 2 2015 4:44PM
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270on420out
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Netflix and chill
Aug 2 2015 4:49PM
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SFB
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uh girls arent real?
Aug 2 2015 5:00PM
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YoungGun.
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Say hi
Aug 2 2015 5:00PM
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S.J.W
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SFBuh girls arent real?


Maybe if you left your parents basement you'd see a girl or two.
Aug 2 2015 5:02PM
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SFB
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S.J.WMaybe if you left your parents basement you'd see a girl or two.

i live in the dumpster behind mcdonalds retard
Aug 2 2015 5:03PM
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miroz
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Don't make it such a thing, dude. If you think you'd get along well, invite her to do something. You don't have to have a reason (i.e. "I think texting is kinda impersonal don't you?") other than that you think she's cool and you want to spend time with her. Just ask her if she wants to kayak or hike or chill or whatever and let that be that.
Aug 2 2015 5:06PM
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Mingg
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I would strongly discourage going to a movie as a first date/ first hang out. It's awkward and you can't talk so it's just a bad idea. However, If the girl wants go to a movie then you should do something else right after(not before). The movie will give you something to talk about and you can get into a conversation from there.
Aug 2 2015 5:15PM
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Lonely
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mirozDon't make it such a thing, dude. If you think you'd get along well, invite her to do something. You don't have to have a reason (i.e. "I think texting is kinda impersonal don't you?") other than that you think she's cool and you want to spend time with her. Just ask her if she wants to kayak or hike or chill or whatever and let that be that.


MinggI would strongly discourage going to a movie as a first date/ first hang out. It's awkward and you can't talk so it's just a bad idea. However, If the girl wants go to a movie then you should do something else right after(not before). The movie will give you something to talk about and you can get into a conversation from there.


Noted. This is good.
Aug 2 2015 5:25PM
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.HERO
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Ask her to go hiking or something with you...or longboarding or whatever you like to do. That way you can get to know her better, but it won't be super awkward like going out to dinner. You can do that on the second date
Aug 2 2015 5:44PM
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UphillIce
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I'm confused why you need the "Texting is impersonal, don't you think?" line. Why can't you just say "Hey, I'm going kayaking. Want to come?"

Proposal of something fun: check
Decisiveness: Check
Aug 2 2015 6:49PM
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shin-bang
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.HEROAsk her to go hiking or something with you...or longboarding or whatever you like to do. That way you can get to know her better, but it won't be super awkward like going out to dinner. You can do that on the second date


this

so i got this chicks number and we started texting. shes outdoorsy and so we thought wed go on a hike just kind of for fun. we aint dating or anything and am not sure if she likes me or not.

so we went hiking and it was a really good "date" even tho it was super casual. i got to know her really well and it was really fun. i was kind of expecting the worst as this chick seemed a little quiet but turned out to be a chatter box.

hiking: imo, highly recommended
Aug 2 2015 7:08PM
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Lonely
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UphillIceI'm confused why you need the "Texting is impersonal, don't you think?" line. Why can't you just say "Hey, I'm going kayaking. Want to come?"

Proposal of something fun: check
Decisiveness: Check


Well she texts more than hanging out in person. Its not a necceary like just a slide in.
Aug 2 2015 7:57PM
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.lencon
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shin-bangthis

so i got this chicks number and we started texting. shes outdoorsy and so we thought wed go on a hike just kind of for fun. we aint dating or anything and am not sure if she likes me or not.

so we went hiking and it was a really good "date" even tho it was super casual. i got to know her really well and it was really fun. i was kind of expecting the worst as this chick seemed a little quiet but turned out to be a chatter box.

hiking: imo, highly recommended


Shin-bang banging hikerz.

OP I am the love guru
Aug 2 2015 8:16PM
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DirtYStylE
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We all know pick-up lines are a waste of breath if you're actually trying to build some rapport.

Face-to-Face I always start basic, so the conversation can be built-up with minimal room for failure. Something like how's your week/weekend/summer going? It's an easy way to gauge their interest without being too upfront.

When I get a girls number I will text them my full name + a little something, right away to avoid future confusion. After that, its just a matter of matching schedules and finding a time where both of you can go out and do something. You both have similar interests (I hope) so just do what you normally do.



Lately, Iv'e been messing around with those dating apps (I'm starting to accept that its the 21st century and I want some e-poon). It has been a struggle to get the girls out of their house and into the real world. I would appreciate some tips in this area.
Aug 2 2015 8:55PM
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Big_Mtn
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.lenconShin-bang banging hikerz.

OP I am the love guru


You didn't even bang that one chick when you were alone with her.
Aug 2 2015 9:11PM
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Big_Mtn
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DirtYStylELately, Iv'e been messing around with those dating apps (I'm starting to accept that its the 21st century and I want some e-poon). It has been a struggle to get the girls out of their house and into the real world. I would appreciate some tips in this area.


Ask what they're interested in... And do that.
Aug 2 2015 9:13PM
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Adam.Guare
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LonelyWell she texts more than hanging out in person. Its not a necceary like just a slide in.


It's easy to text and have a conversation(s), and then be comfortable with how that texting relationship is. However, remember this isn't necessarily who they are and all that so it's okay if you text a lot but it's absolutely vital to actually get to know her. If you base it on texting a lot then you aren't really getting to know her. Like most other NSers already said, just make sure to hangout with her and get to know her in person.
Aug 2 2015 9:27PM
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Lonely
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Adam.GuareIt's easy to text and have a conversation(s), and then be comfortable with how that texting relationship is. However, remember this isn't necessarily who they are and all that so it's okay if you text a lot but it's absolutely vital to actually get to know her. If you base it on texting a lot then you aren't really getting to know her. Like most other NSers already said, just make sure to hangout with her and get to know her in person.

That's what I'm trying to do lol. I don't like texting as much as getting to know that person in person
Aug 2 2015 9:32PM
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Ghoster
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1) Go to bar with girl
2) Get her (and yourself) shitfaced
3) ?????
4) Pee in her butt
Aug 2 2015 9:54PM
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Adam.Guare
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LonelyThat's what I'm trying to do lol. I don't like texting as much as getting to know that person in person


Good luck man, you'll be fine
Aug 2 2015 10:20PM
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CHORIZO
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I dont get what all the fuss is about with girls. Just stay a virgin forever (which is way easier than getting pootang) and you will be greeted in heaven by jesus' big ole titties
Aug 2 2015 11:11PM
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Lonely
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mirozDon't make it such a thing, dude. If you think you'd get along well, invite her to do something. You don't have to have a reason (i.e. "I think texting is kinda impersonal don't you?") other than that you think she's cool and you want to spend time with her. Just ask her if she wants to kayak or hike or chill or whatever and let that be that.


Adam.GuareGood luck man, you'll be fine


And it worked. Y'all the mvps
Aug 2 2015 11:22PM
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shin-bang
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.lenconShin-bang banging hikerz.

OP I am the love guru


Stahpppppp
Aug 2 2015 11:22PM
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.HERO
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shin-bangthis

so i got this chicks number and we started texting. shes outdoorsy and so we thought wed go on a hike just kind of for fun. we aint dating or anything and am not sure if she likes me or not.

so we went hiking and it was a really good "date" even tho it was super casual. i got to know her really well and it was really fun. i was kind of expecting the worst as this chick seemed a little quiet but turned out to be a chatter box.

hiking: imo, highly recommended


Right on man!
Aug 2 2015 11:39PM
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miroz
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LonelyAnd it worked. Y'all the mvps


Atta dude! Just be cool, enjoy her company, get her talking, and have fun :)
Aug 3 2015 12:13AM
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shin-bang
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mirozAtta dude! Just be cool, enjoy her company, get her talking, and have fun :)


Be safe too op :)
Aug 3 2015 12:20AM
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Lonely
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shin-bangBe safe too op :)


Don't worry your little self about it;)
Aug 3 2015 12:22AM
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.lencon
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shin-bangBe safe too op :)


*shin-bang logic*

July: girls are bad you get stds and aids

August: girls aren't that bad I went hiking with one the other day, but you still need to be kinda safe

September: ___________________
Aug 3 2015 12:58AM
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shin-bang
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.lencon*shin-bang logic*

July: girls are bad you get stds and aids

August: girls aren't that bad I went hiking with one the other day, but you still need to be kinda safe

September: GIRLS R VERY VERY BADDDDDDDD


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Aug 3 2015 1:04AM
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deleted5
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Call her and then ask her out on the phone.
Aug 3 2015 1:51AM
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El_Barto.
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nocturnalCall her and then ask her out on the phone.


Whoa dude...youre talkin crazy here.
Aug 3 2015 1:53AM
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swaggerboi
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I met my girl online a long time ago and we talked only online for a year before meeting. I tried to find some of my old messages. I remember she said "Daquan you better not just try to hook up with me. I want a true relationship."From that point on we the most have done is makeout and only on my birthday twice. It was awesome!!!! I am in my relationship for true love and don't need to kiss her so she knows how much love I have for her. I am officially in love
Aug 3 2015 2:01AM
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Charlie_Kelly
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shin-bangthis

so i got this chicks number and we started texting. shes outdoorsy and so we thought wed go on a hike just kind of for fun. we aint dating or anything and am not sure if she likes me or not.

so we went hiking and it was a really good "date" even tho it was super casual. i got to know her really well and it was really fun. i was kind of expecting the worst as this chick seemed a little quiet but turned out to be a chatter box.

hiking: imo, highly recommended


Ahhhh that's cute, whats his name?
Aug 3 2015 9:51AM
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Lonely
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Granite_StateAhhhh that's cute, whats his name?


Someone embed the crazy hot matrix
Aug 3 2015 9:58AM
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.lencon
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El_Barto.Whoa dude...youre talkin crazy here.


Not that crazy. You called ming last night
Aug 3 2015 10:51AM
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S.J.W
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shin-bangthis

so i got this chicks number and we started texting. shes outdoorsy and so we thought wed go on a hike just kind of for fun. we aint dating or anything and am not sure if she likes me or not.

so we went hiking and it was a really good "date" even tho it was super casual. i got to know her really well and it was really fun. i was kind of expecting the worst as this chick seemed a little quiet but turned out to be a chatter box.

hiking: imo, highly recommended


Congratulations on finally moving on from your blow up doll
Aug 3 2015 11:10AM
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shin-bang
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Granite_StateAhhhh that's cute, whats his name?


Lencon :P
Aug 3 2015 11:18AM
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katie.
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THEDIRTYBUBBLENetflix and chill


This works, can confirm. What it works FOR is very clear. Not a first date.

MinggI would strongly discourage going to a movie as a first date/ first hang out. It's awkward and you can't talk so it's just a bad idea. However, If the girl wants go to a movie then you should do something else right after(not before). The movie will give you something to talk about and you can get into a conversation from there.


Also this. The worst date ever was dinner before a movie (but he had already eaten and just watched me wolf down a Caesar salad) and we parted ways awkwardly at the end of the movie. 0/10 would not recommend, I would say don't even put movie on the table. Makes for awkwardly sitting beside somebody you want to get to know in silence for two hours. No thanks.
Aug 3 2015 11:21AM
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.lencon
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shin-bangLencon :P


No. Not even. I usually support your posting but it's time for a break.
Aug 3 2015 12:15PM
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Charlie_Kelly
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.lenconNo. Not even. I usually support your posting but it's time for a break.


Sounds like someone wants to pee in your butt bad
Aug 3 2015 12:30PM
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Mingg
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Dos:

Look nice and smell good. - You could be the best looking guy I've ever met but if you smell bad it's an instant turn off.

Be respectful but you don't have to over do it. - Over doing anything at the beginning of a relationship can lead to unrealistic expectations and you can screw yourself over because of it.


Be on time for a date. - if you're running late let the girl know so she isn't sitting somewhere thinking she got stood up.


Donuts:

Be a dick.

Don't tell her she looks familiar or like someone you know. I know i don't want to know that I look like your sister/cousin or EX girlfriend.

Brag about yourself. Of course, if it something comes up in conversation then that's fine. But rambling on and on about how awesome your job, house, school, family, car, money, etc. is not chill. Girls like to talk about themselves.

Be clingy. If she doesn't text back right away, chill. Also, don't follow all her social media at once-thats weird. Start with Facebook. Then add other stuff as they come up. Don't just follow her even if you've found her account. Ask her in person if she has them and then add her. Waking up with notifications of the same person following you on everything is a little strange in my opinion. Space is a very, very good thing.
*If a girl doesn't want space or clings to you- fuckin run.
Aug 3 2015 12:36PM
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erikK
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Mingg*If a girl doesn't want space or clings to you- fuckin run.


If a girl doesn't want space or clings to you- bang her, then fuckin run.

No point missing out getting laid just because you don't want to talk to her again
Aug 3 2015 12:59PM
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Mingg
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erikKIf a girl doesn't want space or clings to you- bang her, then fuckin run.

No point missing out getting laid just because you don't want to talk to her again


haha, this is true. I was talking about if you want to have like a serious relationship with a girl.
But yes, if she's nuts and hot, bang her and run lol
Aug 3 2015 1:15PM
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Anathema
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MinggBut rambling on and on about how awesome your job, house, school, family, car, money, etc. is not chill. Girls like to talk about themselves.


I can't agree more. I have a buddy who loves to yack about himself and after about 10 seconds I see a girls eyes start to wander around the room as she loses interest.

It's important to have something to talk about and discuss, but not ramble. If she asks what you do, don't give her a 5 minute lecture about how you got there and how you feel about it. Just give her the basics, say it's fun, you love it, you get to work with your hands, mind, whatever, and then move on.

Chicks dig a man who is interesting, but they really don't care much about what you have to discuss. Ask them questions, let them talk, show interest in them and their feelings and emotions and all that other shit.

Be supportive. That's your role in the relationship. Not to think or talk, but rather make suggestions. You're like a glorified walking cane with GPS. You guide the way a little, bring her balance, but decides where she wants to go. She's in control and it's about her. If other people happen to notice you with her, all the better. But it's you with her, not her with you. Remember that.
Aug 3 2015 1:31PM
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shin-bang
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.lenconNo. Not even. I usually support your posting but it's time for a break.


No need to lie babe
Aug 3 2015 2:01PM
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lurking
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Me - "Hey you dropped something."
Her - "What?"
Me - "Your standards. Hi I'm Logan."

2/3 times it works every time
Aug 3 2015 9:42PM
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spliff.Life
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Threads. I like this one.


I think hikes as mentioned are great, actually I took a tinder girl on a hike last week which went great. Perfect way to take things further if wanted to, if she's not what you expected it isnt awkward to part ways afterwards.


I agree with movies being a bad first day. Not enough communication happens for me, food can be alright but I feel like eating is a kind of a personal activity to share on a first date but that's just me.
Aug 3 2015 9:44PM
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Aug 3 2015 10:02PM
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Lonely
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loganschnurMe - "Hey you dropped something."
Her - "What?"
Me - "Your standards. Hi I'm Logan."

2/3 times it works every time

Haha it's funny cuz my name is logan.
Aug 3 2015 10:14PM
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Lonely
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Also for whom it may concern
She skis and is like, really good and is part of a private resort, with an amazing park.
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