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We've talked on rare occasions for the past couple years and Ive developed a liking to her. Wouldnt really consider ourselves "friends". But I figured it would be a good idea to try to get comfortable around eachother before prom and Ive been trying to hang out with her literally for the past month. Shes usually pretty busy so ok, whatever . But I asked if she wanted to hang 2 weeks in advance and she said probably. But then a couple days before we were suppose to hang, she said she was super busy with school work from missing school cause of track, and had to work all weekend. I unassumingly discovered she was at a party on saturday night and almost busted a nut. Should I call her out? Like Im genuinely mad because shes always been "too busy" to do anything with me. And she said this:"I'm not one to sit around, you only get so many days to live and hours to enjoy". Which made me almost bust my other nut: deeming me as a waste of time... What should I do?..
I think that she can tell that you want to be more than friends with her and she doesn't want the same thing. She is probably just too scared to tell you and just keeps making excuses instead though. It's you call on calling her out though. If it gets heated you might lose a friend so if that is ok with you then say something. Otherwise just relax, go to prom with her and see if anything happens there
The repeatedly "too busy" thing is just a girls way of politely telling you she isn't interested in hanging out. It happens to everyone. Your best call is to just move on to the next one. Find someone who actually wants to spend time with you, instead of putting your effort into somebody who doesn't. I guarantee that if you keep looking, you'll find a girl that's into you.
girls like a challenge and you aren't one. you're too readily available for her. it doesn't sound like she's very interested. i'd quit calling her. ignore her. bitches hate getting ignored. if she starts to come around, great. if not, you didn't waste any more time.
but seriously find other girls and leave her as a possibility. Try to make lots of friends before you graduate so when you're done high school you are able to still bang or start relationships with girls that you sort of know.
Due to the minimal flame recieved on this thread. 1.) NS is awesome, seriously its nice to have you guys and
2.) Im now going to consider pics after school of said subject so you guys can "provide a more accurate opinion.".
Well for one, clearly she's not brilliant if she blows you off and then goes to a party and doesn't expect to get caught.
On another note, if she's awkward around you you may want to consider aiming for a new prom date. That night is supposed to be super fun and you don't want the stress of "does this girl really want to be here with me yadda yadda yadda"