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I could use some advice from a fellow christian
hey everyone so i'm kinda in a bit of struggle right now and would really appreciate some advice. so basically i met this girl about two months or so ago and im takin her to prom and we have a thing going on. im really like her and she is a really a cool girl. she is very pretty, smart, funny, and not into herself at all. only problem is that she is agnostic and she has looser morals than i do. i don't know what to do. lately i've been partying more and all the stuff that goes along with that. i haven't been praying or going to church as much and my relationship with God seems to be faltering. i don't know what to do. I feel like maybe God wants me to use our relationship to bring her to Christ but i feel like if thats the case i'm not doing His will. i don't what to do. if anyone could give advice or share a similar personal experience i would be very grateful!
if you like her then talk to her about this... like as long as its not hurtin your job lol
I'm sorry, but I'm mostly sure that God doesn't work that way. The bible tells us to be equally yoked, not "flirt to convert." Life, especially relationships, are so much easier if you are on the same page. The most fulfilling relationships come when you are making Christ your priority and the person you are dating is making Christ their priority. If she isn't a Christian then be friends, but don't date.
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