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Brows.
Posts: 1497 - Karma: 13

alright heres the deal.

ok so ive been dating this girl for about 6 months and shes cute, nice and im her first bf so shes fucking in love with me and honestly shes a shitty gf. she doesnt act like my gf and she always is sayin shes in love with me and shit and doesnt act like it. it pisses me off. i dont wanna break up with her just yet but its def coming soon. ive had a couple talks with her about it but she never changes. and not only that but my best friend that ive known since probably 6th grade who ive liked since then doesnt like me back. if she did i would dump my gf in a second but she doesnt like me back so idk what to do?? maybe break up with my gf and then go strong for my friend? idk girls advice would be nice thanks and go ahead bring all the "pee in her butts" and shit but some advice would be nice.

Sparknotes: my gf is a shitty gf so should i go with my best friend that doesnt like me? or keep with it

Sep 23 2009 9:35PM
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2_fadez
Posts: 7780 - Karma: 4,180
bang ur gf, ditch her, then hook up with the other one
Sep 23 2009 9:37PM
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*christ*
Posts: 372 - Karma: 67
what exactly does ur gf do that makes it seem like she doesn't love you or isn't ur gf?
Sep 23 2009 9:37PM
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skithesprings
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put this up in the ladies men cult for serious answers
Sep 23 2009 9:37PM
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SteezyOhio
Posts: 6044 - Karma: 60
3 steps to success
1) getcha dick wet
2) make that ho' make ya a sammich
3) drop dat bitches ass on the corner of Madison and 5th
Sep 23 2009 9:38PM
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.AR6rider.
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Just break up with her.  You'll be sad at first but then you'll definitely be happier than if you hadn't.  If you've talked to her about it before and she still hasn't changed, then odds are she's not ever going to change and you'll always be unhappy as long as you're with her. 
Sep 23 2009 9:38PM
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Brows.
Posts: 1497 - Karma: 13
when were in public or with friends she ignores me and when were alone i always have to start the love making. and yea i would but im not in ladies men
Sep 23 2009 9:39PM
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Monique*
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if your not legitly in love with the girl your with now then dump her.
because you mine as well not lead her on jus try and work on things with the other girl
since you really like her. she's obviously not ever going to change.
Sep 23 2009 9:40PM
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panojibber
Posts: 3382 - Karma: 216
LADiES MEN.
Sep 23 2009 9:41PM
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Brows.
Posts: 1497 - Karma: 13

this is plan B but i wanna come up with a plan A first

Sep 23 2009 9:42PM
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*christ*
Posts: 372 - Karma: 67
sounds like shes just not used to having a boyfriend and is maybe a little bit shy about it? but if you are honestly thinking about this other girl as much as you are, you definitely shouldn't keep leading the current gf on. Even if you don't end up with the girl you want it will be better than being in one relationship while wishing you were in another one.

Also if you were really good in the sack shed be begging for it 24/7. or maybe she likes girls but she doesn't know it yet.
Sep 23 2009 9:47PM
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Download-My-Apps
Posts: 5069 - Karma: 1,017
I was in the 8th grade once too
Sep 23 2009 9:49PM
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Monique*
Posts: 177 - Karma: 22
hahah word!
Sep 23 2009 9:49PM
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PaleCelery
Posts: 7228 - Karma: 608
I'm personally a fan of the truth. Tell your girlfriend SPECIFICALLY what she is doing wrong and what you dont like about your relationship. (not that she is a "shitty gf", that is really vague), and tell her that you are willing to make compromises but she has to meet you halfway or the relationship isn't goign to work. If she truly "loves" you, then she will do what it takes to be with you. If not, then it wasn't meant to be anyway.

With that being said don't expect obama-like change. You can't go into a relationship expecting somebody to change just for you, because they won't and you'll just be left disappointed and heartbroken.

Thats just my 2c. A little bit better info on how she is such a horrible person would be helpful.
Sep 23 2009 9:49PM
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the_moderaper
Posts: 2465 - Karma: 218
dont dump her. she might not be the best right now but if u do dump her, youll learn that she really was the best just because of how much she loves you. and never ever go out with your best friend. once you break up its the worst thing ever and when you do stuff with her, everything changes. its like losing a family member when shees gone.
Sep 23 2009 9:51PM
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Brows.
Posts: 1497 - Karma: 13
na dude i tell her exactly strait up what shes doing wrong
Sep 23 2009 9:51PM
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smooticus
Posts: 1798 - Karma: 27
Hmm, dude first off girls arent going to understand this. Any girl is going to say "if you dont like your girl break up wit her".So ladies you got to understand that when a man is having steady sex its almost impossible for him to break it off. I mean sex is awesome, nobody wants to give that up. I guess you have to ask your self if your just unhappy being with her. Although if she is really in love with you and your not with her its only going to get harder to break up with her. Gotta just weigh the pros and cons like everything, nothings black and white
Sep 23 2009 9:53PM
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Brows.
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i just cant to see her sad and i know its gonna be a huge deal for her. but in the long run im really not happy
Sep 23 2009 9:54PM
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JahJahBinks
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If you having girl problems I feel bad for you son, cause I got 99 problems but a bitch aint one.
Sep 23 2009 9:56PM
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Brows.
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dude its not like im having problems its just i wanna know how i could be happier but ive made my decision thanks everybody i just needed some advice from people other than my friends
Sep 23 2009 9:59PM
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PaleCelery
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Thats the problem. You have already made your decision, but you're asking us for advice. Then when somebody gives it you shoot it down
Sep 23 2009 10:01PM
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sk1er
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awesome
Sep 23 2009 10:01PM
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Brows.
Posts: 1497 - Karma: 13
no i just made my decision taking all your advice into consideration
Sep 23 2009 10:02PM
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cornholio
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yeah im stealing this from you laugh you lose, but it applies here

[img]http://i690.photobucket.com/albums/vv262/onionsbabyonions/epic threads/1253718279937.png[/img]
Sep 23 2009 10:03PM
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SteezyOhio
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which is?
Sep 23 2009 10:04PM
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DR.SHRED
Posts: 2134 - Karma: 503
pee in her butt jk hook up with her best friend that likes you
Sep 23 2009 10:04PM
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cornholio
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maybe not because i fail.  nevermind
Sep 23 2009 10:04PM
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Brows.
Posts: 1497 - Karma: 13
tell her i need some space and be good friends with her and play the field to see what happens. maybe meet some new girls
Sep 23 2009 10:07PM
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snowbird4life
Posts: 2265 - Karma: 26

how did i know that was comming eventually.

by the way, stay far away from the trying for your best friend deal. that usually ends up making you make a fool out of yourself, you already said she doesnt like you back, if you've been friends long enough to be best friends and she isnt wanting your testies already chances are you aint gettin in the game brotha man.

Sep 23 2009 10:08PM
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PeteP
Posts: 482 - Karma: 110
If your gonna break up with her and have so claimed to having a pretty honest truthful relationship with her, don't lie to her and tell her you need space. I mean based on what you have told us that is almost the opposite of what you want.
Sep 23 2009 10:19PM
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T-Holt
Posts: 5020 - Karma: 639
Step 1)  Join Ladies Men
Step 2)  Post there
Step 3)  Get legit answers
Sep 23 2009 10:24PM
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Frank_Spinatra
Posts: 1203 - Karma: 75
has anyone ever actually just needed "space"?  just say it isn't working for you and you aren't happy so you're gonna try on some new boxes for a while until one feels just right.
Sep 23 2009 10:29PM
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debrickshaw
Posts: 1957 - Karma: 68
this
join the cult
get honest good advice
Sep 23 2009 10:49PM
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Malcolm
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i thought we were your friends :(
Sep 23 2009 10:55PM
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snwbrdmilf
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You know that's not gonna happen, right?
Sep 23 2009 10:58PM
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twin-tip-hero
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1. ladies man cult next time for good and indepth answers.

2. had the same problem, but i just had to do it and did it.  it sucks but you get over it eventually.  forget about your other friend its jsut not healthy to be in a relationship like that.  so GTFO of this man while you still can.

Sep 23 2009 10:59PM
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smooticus
Posts: 1798 - Karma: 27

Well then you have two options.

1. break up with her know, dont lead her on if you care about her

2. do what guys do and make the bitch hate you. Just be a descrete douchebag and she will eventually just break it off. I prefer this one. Be creative and have fun with it, pinch her when your having sex. Fuck her then promptly GTFO. You know all that jazz

Sep 23 2009 11:02PM
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butteredpretzel
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become gay
Sep 23 2009 11:02PM
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da-bling
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sounds like your in the friend zone with the other girl... as mean as it sounds find a girl that your remotely interested in while your still dating this girl(im not saying cheat on your gf) if things dont change and your still not happy, break up with your gf and go after girl #2
Sep 23 2009 11:19PM
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andersteeze
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have an affair with your skis and film it for her
Sep 24 2009 12:00AM
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IRockLizzys
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Wow, fuck that. Sack the fuck up and dump her because, trust me, you'll make an ass of yourself if you lead this poor girl on. Girls always, and I do mean ALWAYS, look at how a guy treats other girls. Who would want to date some prick who is "needing space" and is "playing the field?" And as far as being stuck in the friendzone goes: don't even try man. If she doesn't like you, you'll just make yourself look like an idiot if you try to do something
Sep 24 2009 12:07AM
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Jamestown
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Keep the one you have, get the one you like, threesome.
Sep 24 2009 12:12AM
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fountain.
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i had a girlfriend who was exactly like this named aly. we ended up breaking up, but she went out with a bunch of guys and she basically figured out how to be a decent girlfriend. we ended up going back out for a while and broke up for no reason. but changing her definately didnt work, i tried many times with her. probably just try to find someone new. i realized after i went out with some other girls that it was an incredible decision, because me and aly went out for two years but once i went out with other girls i realized she wasnt the right girl for me.
Sep 24 2009 12:27AM
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Alex_G
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hit it a few more times and quit it
Sep 24 2009 12:41AM
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PaleCelery
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quality answer.

10/10
Sep 24 2009 1:24PM
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SteezyOhio
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for awesome advice on girls you should prolly PM drew. or crazyfuck
both got mad lady fucking skillz
Sep 24 2009 3:27PM
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Crack.
Posts: 6020 - Karma: 86
haha nice
Sep 24 2009 3:29PM
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artfullydodged
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crazy fuck is banned : .(
Sep 24 2009 4:22PM
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KramerC
Posts: 619 - Karma: 21
Quit being such a bitch. You will be happy when your in college and you find a girl who doesnt need to hang around like puppy dog. Hang with your bros and bang those hos
Sep 24 2009 4:30PM
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skier_boy26
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sounds thread creator has yet to see 8th grade...

Straight up, the bitch sounds like she is immature - she is conflicted with how she is supposed to act around her estrogen friends and around you, but is compelled to stay with you because... well you're her first, and whatever shit a young girl thinks is right.

Quite frankly, I'd leave her (cheaper that way too, but I doubt that is really an issue where you're at in life) and it'll end the unnecessary drama, and just avoid going for your friend; it'll backfire, and the longer you wait, the more it'll backfire, so don't touch it like that.

Be woman free until it can actually mean something, like... the good shit.
Sep 24 2009 4:47PM
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SteezyOhio
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no way? im speechless, what for?
Sep 24 2009 4:52PM
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