scenario.....
Me and my girl friend are at a black keys concert. She is extremely intoxicated and pissing a lot of people off. Out of no where she decides to leave the concert and runs off into the crowd. I try to keep up with her but she just kind of bolts and vanishes into the sea of people. I spend the reminder of the concert looking for her. She is no where to be found. I end up waiting at our scooter for her but she does not show. I decide to look for her on the scooter around the city. She is no where to be found. I figure she probably just went home so I chill out at some bars and ask some people if they have seen her. I get back at around 12 pm and she is not home. I get really nervous and head out looking for her again. I would have contacted her but I lost my cell phone and she didn't have one. At about 3 in the morning I finally call it quits and figure she will come home tomorrow. I end up finding my cell phone the next morning and get a call from a hospital 30 miles away. I guess my girl friend passed out in some bushes near the concert and some mormons took her to a hospital in layton. I find her the next day sprawled out on in our apartment buildings hallway. She looks like she has been through hell but is pretty jovial about the situation. She tells me she woke up in a hospital and feels like death. All is good in boy friend world. The girl friend is alive and she is only mad at her self.
2 weeks pass.
she calls her parents and tells them the news. They tell her I am a bad boy friend because I wasn't there for her when she needed me. ( keep in mind she is the one that ditched me) My girl tells me she needs to talk with me and then self discloses that I am bad boyfriend because I went to sleep the night she got wasted and didn't return home. She accuses me of not caring about her and shares her fears that I am not dependable .I get mad because I spent hours searching for her and tell her I went to sleep that night because I felt like there was nothing i could do. I told her I planned on waking up the next morning and doing everything in my power to find her. She doesnt buy it and trys to guilt trip me into feeling bad about going to sleep that night. She tells me that if it was her she would have stayed up all night. ( irrelevant but the last time she got really drunk she never told me where she was and told me about 3 months later that she was actually making out with a kid I worked with from argentina.)
so i guess to make this story short, Who is the wack one in this situation? Am i the wack one for going to sleep that night she vanished or is she the wack one for making me feel guilty.
any advice will be payed with karma points. thanks
