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A thought on siblings

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maybe im just saying this because my sister sucks, but has anyone ever thought of siblings as a bunch of people youre just forced to love? they arent all bad by anymeans and i definitly love my brothers.  Honestly i think sibling rivelry can get so bad people really begin to resent thier family members.  i rarely talk to my sister and when i do its just her telling me not to eat, cough, breathe or exist.  Theres no way shed miss me for a second if i went away.  for example, i was gone a few days last week to help my friend clean up his condo in waterville.  as soon as i get home "eww youre home. when are you so ugly?"  i just dont see how anyone can possibly love all thier siblings.  im not talking to that girl after i move out of here.  end rant.

thoughts?

Apr 21 2009 7:24PM
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jayo.
Posts: 5015 - Karma: 34
haha, "when are you so ugly"
but it sounds to me like it's time for you to beat some ass
Apr 21 2009 7:28PM
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haha ment to say why not when

but i would but she can beat the crap outa me!

Apr 21 2009 7:30PM
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skeedle
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i wouldn't be friends with my sister if we weren't related, but i think the fact that we are related makes us friends if that makes sense.
I dunno she is just really selfish and snobby and i wanna punch her a lot of the time and she has a stupid boyfreind. haha. but i fully get what your saying.
Apr 21 2009 7:34PM
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Slinger1x1
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no offense, but it sounds like your both incredibly immature. grow up and learn to live with each other like adults. my brother used to beat the crap out of me when i was younger and he was a big bad football player claiming he was toughening me up and i "hated" him. Now, not only am i truly tougher, but i have a ton of respect for my brother, he was never the smartest kid but he is going to the top grad school in his line of work and getting scholarships and awards and job offers left a right. he also respects me and i respect him.
Apr 21 2009 7:34PM
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yes we probably are, and ive tried to get along with her.  shes younger than me and i try to have respect for her considering im scared shitless of her.  and whenever i try to get along with her i get screwed. so we kind of just deny that the other one exists, considering im moving out in like a year theres almost no point anymore
Apr 21 2009 7:38PM
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k-rob
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well shit i make fun of my little sister all the time.

if she was an idiot, she'd hate me for it.
Apr 21 2009 7:41PM
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2+2=5
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i actually think about that all the time with my other family members. just because we have similar DNA doesnt mean i have to like you and try to be friends if i think your fucking retarded. its really all about nature vs. nurture.
Apr 21 2009 7:42PM
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Slinger1x1
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wait shes younger and you let her pull that shit with you? how old is she (im guessing young, making ugly jokes like that). you should tell her to grow the fuck up. actually, nothing will get to her head better then throwing her into a couch or something and yelling at her, not screaming and fighting, but yelling at her and get it through her head, be dead serious that she needs to grow up. and tell her, when your serious, that she is your sister and you want nothing but the best for her and to be friends with her but that she needs to grow up. its alright to cry here, it will probably hit her harder emotionally.

also, when you go to college things will change. my brothers and i still fight a ton when they are home from college and what not, but when they are away, its much different
Apr 21 2009 7:45PM
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eastside
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bitches are bitches.
Apr 21 2009 7:47PM
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well shes 14 but shes really not that smart.  i can try getting more serious but every time i do she just laughs. im sure it is funny cause im not a serious person but it is frustrating.  i hope things change when i go to college
Apr 21 2009 7:48PM
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Balto
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my sister is a dumb hoe that needs to be raped and shot at the same time. i fucking hate her
Apr 21 2009 7:48PM
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Slinger1x1
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you guys have terrible people skills if you cant get along with someone you have to live with. you dont have to like them, but you dont have to be an asshole and hope they "get raped and shot".

the truth is, you do have to like them because otherwise, you guys are going to be miserable living with them for years, just like you seem to be now.
Apr 21 2009 7:55PM
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JamesR
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1. She will grow out of it. Give her space.

2. Can i have yo' numba???

Apr 21 2009 8:00PM
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Beans13
Posts: 441 - Karma: 12
haha, I pretty much ignore my brother all the time, he is 3 yrs younger and a wicked fag. Just because I live with him doesnt mean I have to be his friend. fuck that.
Apr 21 2009 8:06PM
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M@DFLOW
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show her who is boss!!
Apr 21 2009 8:08PM
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easy_cam_steezy
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I am the oldest, and have two younger siblings.
As we have grown older, we are all becoming more mature, and can treat each other like normal human beings haha
I definitely think its a time thing, as you grow older, you will become more friendly to one another

I used to hate my little bro and sis, but now I love them to death. Especially my younger sis, who will be in high school next year, and I have to watch her back (if ur her age, stay the fuck away boys hahaha)
Apr 21 2009 8:14PM
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yellav
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my little brothers my best friend hands down
Apr 21 2009 8:17PM
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InkShrink
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Understand that girls are different though. Females bicker constantly, always annoying, always naggin, saying shit, spreading shit, talking shit, backstabbing, starting drama, high maintainance, never pleased, always thinking their fat, judgemental, greedy, spiteful and loaded with jealousy...to name a few. My sister and I don't really get along that well, but what we have now is a way better than what we had years ago. My sister is the most annoying thing, but I love her to death, she steals my make-up, takes my clothes, books and other crap from my room and talks shit about it. Brothers are different, you can beat each other up, hate each other for awhile, and get over it. C'mon, everyone here should know that women hold grudges, sister rivalry is just different.
Apr 21 2009 8:22PM
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Mr.Panda
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im an only child...  i got to be honest, it aint all that it is crakced up to be.
Apr 21 2009 8:23PM
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Yeezus
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i wish i was an only child. i hate my brother. hes a fag. most of the time. but when he started going out with this girl hes gotten a little bit better but he talks at 12 am everyday and it pisses me off SO bad
Apr 21 2009 8:28PM
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vincentlee223
Posts: 1571 - Karma: 382
I have a younger brother, and in some sort of way, i feel obligated to help him out whenever he needs its. Gotta show him the way.
Apr 21 2009 8:33PM
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no_steeze
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my sister and i get along much better now that we don't live in the same household

there were times when i wanted to kill her but once we grew up a little we stopped fighting. but my god did we fight, pretty epic
Apr 21 2009 8:33PM
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Mr.Panda
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i would prefer to deal with a semi faggity little brother or sister so that my parents have something else to yell at and worry about school wise...
Apr 21 2009 8:34PM
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fireballin
Posts: 392 - Karma: 13
yeah grow up a bit. how old are you? yeah my bro and i used to fight but who didnt? when my brother went to colelge a few years ago things changed a whole lot. we used to hate eachother sometimes but now i visit him sometimes and have a real good time hanging out and drinking and such. it takes time but the majority of the sibling fighting shit goes away.
Apr 21 2009 8:44PM
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Mac.
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I only have 1 sister but I get along with her great. We used to fight all the time when I was in middle school and younger
But now we always have fun together, I have gone down to visit her at college multiple times and it has always been a blast.  We will still fight occasionally, but only on rare occasions.  In some ways my sister has almost set me up with girls when I go to visit her.
Apr 21 2009 9:07PM
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i really hope your right and maybe i do need to grow up. but that girl just brings out the worst in people. and i think sister fighting is somewhat different
Apr 21 2009 9:11PM
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0ptions
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She'll grow out of it. Sticks and stones though when it comes to calling you ugly. My brother and i used to beat the shit out of each other even though it was always a one sided fight, now we never do, i wouldn't say best friends but i guess were friends. You may be right about girls fighting being different, maybe true but giiver time.
Apr 21 2009 9:20PM
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C.Wood
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i didnt read through the thread replies so srry if you said this

how old is she?
becuase she may be at that age where thats what kids do then
it could be a stage unless it has happened forever
Apr 21 2009 9:21PM
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im 16

shes 14

we fight, it sucks. thats about it

Apr 21 2009 9:24PM
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juliana.
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over time you guys will start to become closer, me and my sister were like this but not as bad she wouldnt call me ugly cause if she did id probally bite her (i had a biting and swearing problem when i was little) but anyways you both will start to appreciate each other and you are really close in age which is good because then you guys connect more. give it time and wait for her to grow up some more cause shes at that age where she thinks she is the shit when really she isnt at all.

Apr 21 2009 9:30PM
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ehh i hope so! but yeah she is at an extremely annoying age
Apr 21 2009 9:32PM
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juliana.
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i remeber when i was 14 i thought i was sooo cool but just be the bigger person and dont let her get to you and make sure that if it does dont let her see it cause that will just make her think shes the shit when really she isnt!
Apr 21 2009 9:37PM
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vincentlee223
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Im a guy, im 14. My siister, shes 16. I would never be so disprecpectful to her. Maybe it was the way i was raised, or im more mature then usual, but seriously, calling somone ugly, expecially your family is a dick thing to say. If shes doing somthing stupid, ill call her out on it, but not just general stuff.

Now my brother on the other hand, hes 12. Hes always saying stupid shit to her like shes fat and ugly and shit. So i smack him in the head and tell him to stfu. Hes a smartass and he shouldnt be. He is smart, but all academic stuff and computer related. If he is ever disrespectful or acts stupid, ill tell my mom. I dont wanna come off as a rat, as im not, but my mom has to know whatsup. Hes the youngest so shes more relaxed on him.

Just tell your mom and get her to tell your sister to stfu. Its not being a rat, its helping your sister. Or maybe its just me. I just find it stupid what you say your sister says.
Apr 21 2009 10:36PM
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Pinguu
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siblings are the shit, my brother is my best friend
Apr 21 2009 10:37PM
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Kcin
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ya dude my brother is awesome. i don't have anyone else to ski with really so hes it. hes only 2 years younger than me(hes 17) and its kinda cool cause he slays big mountain and hucks cliff and i kill it in the park so we are always learning from each other
Apr 21 2009 10:40PM
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skijunkiedtm
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smack a hoe.
Apr 21 2009 10:41PM
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loganC
Posts: 411 - Karma: 13
I get along pretty well with my younger sister. Sure we argue and get mad at each other, but we're alright. My other sister on the other hand, could be better. The way I see it, you can only take so much crap from one person for so long before you start to dish it back and really not like each other.
Apr 21 2009 10:44PM
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NESblowjob
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dont you know when its time to smakabitch?
Apr 21 2009 10:55PM
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the.hellion.
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Two years is an awful short amount of time in the grand scheme of things and quite honestly she could just be jealous. I mean, you're 16 !!! that's a girl's dream age, no? And even if it's not, you're her big sister, you're what she had to look up to whether she likes it or not. It's really either you, her mom or Paris Hilton.... which would you prefer? Suck it up, try and show her some cool shit and please give her time. My sister is 8 years older than me and we never used to get along until I just started straight chilling. Even now we don't see eye to eye in most regards but as we're both adults we make it work, and when we do chill 95% of the time it's super fun. I really believe, if you want her to smarten up, show her what a good kind of person is and she'll come around.



If not, she's a bitch and she'll get what's coming.
Apr 21 2009 11:01PM
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captainEMERICA
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sucks you and your sister dont get along, my brother is 5 years older than me and sure we fight some times but he really is my best friend and i really dont know what i would do without him, but he went to college in NZ so i dont see him much anymore, super lame.
Apr 21 2009 11:37PM
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