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skeechic1357
Posts: 106 - Karma: 10
Whether its online, in person, or anything...who makes the first move? In my experience it;s always been horny 12 year olds wanting to know bra size but are decent guys really out there who can just have a friendship and nothing more? I guess what I'm asking is if its alright for the girl to make the first move...



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Dec 11 2003 1:10PM
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d-loc
Posts: 7479 - Karma: 15
no pretty much any guy that has a girl as a friend is in it for the action, or think they are hot. its cool for the girl to make the first move, nothin wrong with that.


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Dec 11 2003 1:14PM
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221
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girls have to make the first move these days. why? because girls are stupid. back in the day, like our parents day, you could approach a chick, ask her some shit and she'd at least humor you with a dance, drink blah blah before politely declining whatever. Now, bitches are soo moody and shit. If a guy walks up, even if she likes him, if the timing or anything isnt perfect, most girls will be total bitches. so now 99% of guys would rather not bother, they go for easy girls that put out that 'fuck me' vibe. most hot girls these days got their heads so far up their asses it isnt even funny. I was ready to give up and become a priest before i met my gf, and it was only SHE made the first move. so the moral is: dont be a snobby bitch and maybe guys will talk to you.

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Dec 11 2003 1:27PM
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skeechic1357
Posts: 106 - Karma: 10
but I mean if you talk to someone or find something out about them and you're interested...shit I don't know what I'm trying to say, never mind



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Dec 11 2003 1:43PM
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CrystalineSkier
Posts: 1065 - Karma: 16
if you're interested in the guy, give it a shot. Hell, guys get shot down all the time, so don't be scared, get used to it. If you like a guy start talking to him, and it's okay to ask guys out and make the first move. Have fun.

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Dec 11 2003 1:49PM
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skeechic1357
Posts: 106 - Karma: 10
yeah but I mean what if the guy you like gives you some lame ass pickup line like everyone else does on here 'do you have a picture' like Im not even interested in that kind of thing...I dont know...



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Dec 11 2003 1:54PM
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d-loc
Posts: 7479 - Karma: 15
no one does that in person. people do that online cuz u dont know who they are an du cant see them so they have more confidence. im sure any guy would love to have a girl come up to them and ask them out and get to know each other.


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Dec 11 2003 1:56PM
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icecreamsandwich
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so all my friends are guys mostly...and they are not in it to 'get something' they know i have a bf...and are friends with him too. and why wouldnt it be ok for a girl to make the first move? i cant believe this is being asked...lol no offense or anything...its just humorous i thought nowadays that if you liked a boy you told him, its a lot easier to be straight up.


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Dec 11 2003 2:10PM
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d-loc
Posts: 7479 - Karma: 15
yeah but did u have the guy friends before u got ur bf?


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Dec 11 2003 2:13PM
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icecreamsandwich
Posts: 3207 - Karma: 25
yea since like elementary school most of my friends have been guys. it was simple..just friends..nothing more.


...Now I just can't shut you up, shut you up
So now I have to chop you up, chop you up
And I'll just wait till I get caught...

Dec 11 2003 2:18PM
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221
Posts: 3488 - Karma: 11
thats what you think, secretly they all want to kill your boyfriend and poach a sesh in your sweet meltey icecream sandwich.

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Dec 11 2003 3:16PM
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icecreamsandwich
Posts: 3207 - Karma: 25
lol thanks 221.


...Now I just can't shut you up, shut you up
So now I have to chop you up, chop you up
And I'll just wait till I get caught...

Dec 11 2003 3:19PM
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Ryno
Posts: 31125 - Karma: 336
yeah man, my gf made the first move, i say 'ya' to that. 221 is kinda on the right track, i just dont wanna waste time with snobby ass chicks...play it like fishing and the good ones will come to you
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Dec 11 2003 3:32PM
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manus
Posts: 1427 - Karma: 10
the only problem with the fishing ananlogy is when you sit waiting, and there are a couple nibbles, and still you wait, and eventually your bait is gone and you stuck with the dumb one that bit the hook thinking it was food.

Dec 11 2003 3:34PM
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skeechic1357
Posts: 106 - Karma: 10
^lmfao


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Dec 11 2003 3:40PM
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destruction
Posts: 643 - Karma: 11
That was a good one and I agree with 221. After spending a year away at college and putting up with rich ass bitch sorority chicks I finally met the right girl, only problem was she lived nearly 200 miles away. Needless to say yeah I fell in love and couldn't stand only seeing her 1 or 2 days a week. I moved back to be with her and it was hella worth it. Now we both are moving back to where I was going to school before so it's working out great.

By the way she made the first move on me, I'm not overly aggressive and like I said fed up with sorority bitch bullshit. This is by far the best girlfriend I've ever had and best friend. (tear)
Dec 11 2003 3:55PM
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jumpman
Posts: 1105 - Karma: 10
My girlfriend was my friend first, then she made the first move. Now we live 4 hrs. apart and I only get to see her 1-2 times a month. We make the distance thing work though.


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Dec 11 2003 4:06PM
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skeechic1357
Posts: 106 - Karma: 10
dammn, thats insane. I never knew so many people were doing the long distance thing too. I just met someone else who was...i kinda hit on him though...oops
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Dec 11 2003 4:09PM
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Thats a sick sig^

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Dec 11 2003 4:13PM
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jumpman
Posts: 1105 - Karma: 10
Oh yeah, we've been dating for over 4 yrs now and 2 and 1/2 of that has been long distance, so it can work.


Hippies - they want to save the world, but all they do is smoke pot and smell bad.
Pabst Blue Ribbon is the greatest beer ever.
Dec 11 2003 4:15PM
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manus
Posts: 1427 - Karma: 10
your phone bills must be brutal

Dec 11 2003 4:16PM
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jumpman
Posts: 1105 - Karma: 10
cell phones are great, free nights and weekends


Hippies - they want to save the world, but all they do is smoke pot and smell bad.
Pabst Blue Ribbon is the greatest beer ever.
Dec 11 2003 4:18PM
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hexum
Posts: 840 - Karma: 10
dont walk around in packs... they are bad. Good for safety, bad for male confidence

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'it was impressive, sort of like a gay dude taking a cock that's too big for him without screaming'
Dec 11 2003 5:00PM
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hexum
Posts: 840 - Karma: 10
of course, after reading that tips for women thing... i get this feeling that girls will now be too scared to venture from their safety pack. O no! the serial rapist is hiding in the stairs! ill never leave my friends now!

If you have a 1380 SAT and a 86.71 GPA... what does everyone say? Not good job, not 'O wow, thats awesome!' No, they say things like 'You are an underachiever'

Originally posted by strode420
'it was impressive, sort of like a gay dude taking a cock that's too big for him without screaming'
Dec 11 2003 5:01PM
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UpDawg
Posts: 2373 - Karma: 11
I've given up on chicks altogether, mostly becuase of 221's explanation.
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Dec 11 2003 5:16PM
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skeechic1357
Posts: 106 - Karma: 10
so you're gay now?
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Dec 11 2003 6:04PM
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CTD
Posts: 6300 - Karma: 348
if thats true, im sure 'peter pan' would be glad to make you a cute sparkly little outfit to match your newfound sexual freedom.






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Dec 11 2003 6:48PM
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rhcp
Posts: 2598 - Karma: 18
no, he has his right hand. unless, of course, hes a switch hitter.
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Dec 11 2003 6:57PM
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UpDawg
Posts: 2373 - Karma: 11
I shouldn't say that I've totally given up...I've given up putting effort into getting chicks...so yeah, if they'll make the first move, then it's all good.
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Dec 11 2003 7:24PM
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cams
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i think it's sick when girls make the first move, and i think it always be like that, it lets you know that she's hardcore and interested, not some shy little girl that doesn't talk


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Dec 11 2003 7:53PM
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3ski6guy0
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i think its funny how skeechic makes a thread about everyone being losers if they have a bf/gf. obviously she doesnt have one now cause shes asking for advice. hahaha
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Dec 11 2003 8:28PM
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UpDawg
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Haha, didn't think about that...good call.
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Dec 11 2003 8:46PM
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3ski6guy0
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ya, i say your a loser skeechic
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Dec 11 2003 9:04PM
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Ski_Instructor_Mike
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yeah girl taking the initiative is the way it should be. I doubt any guy will completely give you the cold shoulder if you try and talk to him, and that's not the case with a lot of women.
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Dec 11 2003 9:12PM
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PhaedeD
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i like when the girl makes the first move its not that i dont wanna make the move its just hot when the girl does.











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Dec 12 2003 2:09AM
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skeechic1357
Posts: 106 - Karma: 10
yeah, I'm a loser...but I like it...so it can't be all that bad, right?
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Dec 12 2003 12:37PM
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d-loc
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as long as u like being a loser everything is A.O.K


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Dec 12 2003 12:46PM
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PhattTim
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Well...from reading this I'm going to assume that most of you are either retarded or under 15, and have fully no idea about the world of dating or the opposite sex, not all of you, but a lot.

Probably about 60-70% of my closest friends are chicks. Some of them would shag me if they could and some of them are in it for the friendship. Some of them are 'just one of the guys', they'd rather hang with girls coz they're almost tomboys and all the girls are too prissy for them, we're a lot more easy going. Then there's my girlfriend, she's totally fantastic. We basically live together during the year at university and then over summer (now) we live about 1500 miles away, for 3 months. She's coming up in a week so that should be cool. And she made the first move on me too, which was wikkid, haha, jumped me outta nowhere.

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Dec 12 2003 3:27PM
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manus
Posts: 1427 - Karma: 10
You guys all suck with the good relationships where the girl made the first move, the only time a girl made the first move on me, I ended up in a relationship with a psycho, which I think has forever messed up my head.

While I agree that its sweet when the girl makes the first move, often times they don't. What really sucks is when a girl is affraid to make the first move, but also doesn't really make her thoughts/feelings known, and only after your chance is gone do you find out/figure out that you had a chance at all.

And while I think that often times the best relationships are spawned from a friendship, what really sucks is going from friends to more than friends without fucking up all possibilities of future friendship and/or future relationship.

Dec 12 2003 4:36PM
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dilla_says_go
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i hate when girls play hard to get or say shit thats rude thinking its sexy or flirtatious. girls need to be relaxed, down to earth, and pleasant. if im talking to a girl and she thinks shes the bomb diggity (yeah i just said that) then i get turned off and dont want to talk to her.
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Dec 12 2003 4:56PM
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icecreamsandwich
Posts: 3207 - Karma: 25
im not sure who made the first move in my relationship, i think it was a combination. but its going great. its been a year and a bit. hes a hunk. i never played games though...im usually pretty blunt.


...Now I just can't shut you up, shut you up
So now I have to chop you up, chop you up
And I'll just wait till I get caught...

Dec 12 2003 5:02PM
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tinkerbell
Posts: 1025 - Karma: 10
Yeah I forget who made the move in my relationship, I think it was him...but it was probably a little of both, it seems to work out that way. I'm working on a long distance one too and I have to say I love it. It's hard and it takes work, but he's amazing and we make it work. Thank God for free nights and weekends is all I gotta say.


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Dec 12 2003 6:40PM
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I'm only friends with stacey because I want to get in her pants.

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Dec 12 2003 6:48PM
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skeechic1357
Posts: 106 - Karma: 10
And I've had boyfriends before, just for the record...I just came out of a sucky relationship
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Dec 12 2003 7:23PM
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icecreamsandwich
Posts: 3207 - Karma: 25
thanks mark....hey you wanna come over later? we can go tobogganing or something?


...Now I just can't shut you up, shut you up
So now I have to chop you up, chop you up
And I'll just wait till I get caught...

Dec 12 2003 7:43PM
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Wen people say that chicks are just one of the guys, the chicks r usaully fat...First thing that came to mind.




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Dec 12 2003 8:03PM
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skeechic1357
Posts: 106 - Karma: 10
^ haha that works too ;-)
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