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Living with all girls

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beer.
Posts: 3096 - Karma: 44
my friend is transferring schools and her spot in her apartment is empty, and I need a place to live next semester, took a semester off.  I know her friends pretty well and they are cool, fun to drink/smoke with and pretty attractive.

so should I ask to move in with them?  I think having all female roommates might be refreshing because last year on weekdays I would get kinda sick of hanging out with all dudes.  but then again it might get hard after a while, since lets face it greys anatomy and other shit like that sucks

oh and last time i was at my school visiting I had the chance to hook up with one of them but decided not to for various reasons.  in any case i would absolutely not have sex with any of them (except for maybe one she is just so damn hot haha) because sex is what ruined things with my friend and the rest of them.

what do you think?  I am really looking for someone's opinion who has lived with all girls before.
Nov 6 2007 10:28AM
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MacMahoooon
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Its not that bad if you arent all always home together and in ach others space. Be prepared for them to have lots of their friends over for girl evenings and you will be shunned at that point.

And NEVER sleep with a roommate.
Nov 6 2007 10:33AM
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samck89
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if  your not fucking em theyll surely turn you gay
Nov 6 2007 10:34AM
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sherpasrock
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this man speaks the truth.
Nov 6 2007 10:47AM
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beer.
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I am kinda tempted to just room with a nerd.  that way things will be quiet whenever I am at home but then i can just go out and have a good time.
Nov 6 2007 10:48AM
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SigneChristine
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I lived with 2 girls and 1 guy for a while, and the guy became pretty girly...
Nov 6 2007 10:55AM
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crazyfuck
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dude... bad idea.  i've lived with a couple kids who were kinda nerdy and it was baaad.  my advice would be to either get roommates who are like you or just live alone.  the only roommate i've ever really gotten along with was one of the biggest stoners i've ever met... and he told me i was the biggest stoner he ever met.

and either fuck all of them or none of them.
Nov 6 2007 11:00AM
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beer.
Posts: 3096 - Karma: 44
thats ok, I am like the least macho guy ever.  other than a very high pain tolerance and bigtime balls I am not too manly.
Nov 6 2007 11:03AM
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Myke
Posts: 937 - Karma: 11
Thats like admitting you have The Gay already.
Nov 6 2007 11:09AM
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Arabian.
Posts: 9632 - Karma: 54
All night experimental orgies in the living room. Think of the possibilities.
Nov 6 2007 11:34AM
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wrenegade
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I would say it greatly depends on how many girls. One or two, probably not a big deal. 4 or 5? You're asking for trouble. A friend of mine (who actually is gay) lived with 4 girls one year. Got himself in the middle of a crazy girl fight. He couldn't take sides, they were nuts. He had to move out with like a month and a half left in the year, he couldn't get anything done. Not even sleep. It was yelling and bitching 24/7. Small arguements became ridiculous.  I'd think twice about getting myself into a situation like that.

Just remember, all girls are crazy.
Nov 6 2007 11:50AM
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SlickRick.
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no dude. just think about all the down sides to that. guys talk to guys about guy things. you wont have that same sense of security around girls. and just think about the bathroom issues. idk about you but im a personal shitter, and i dont like anyone near when i do my business. and girls shitting is jjust wierd.
Nov 6 2007 12:12PM
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Tinga
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it is true girls will hold grudges forever and fight about them. however if you become the man of the house and show them who's boss and you obtain  dominance like peeing on your shit and fights for alpha male you should be ok.

but seriously i think itd be nice. i know what you mean about not being very macho. so lets separate it out into pros and cons
Pros: room will smell good
room will more often than not be cleanish
they will always have a ton of food
they will know tons of girls you can hook up with if you want
they will listen to you if you ever need someone to talk to

Cons:room will smell like numerous perfumes and lotions all at once causing you to sneeze and or get a head ache. kinda like a bed bath and beyond from hell
if the room does get dirty you will have tons of little flossy underwear everywhere
they do love drama and will get caught up in anything they can
if they do sit and listen to what you hav to say they will tell all their girlfriends within minutes
there will be a ton of shit on your bathroom counter and in your shower
they will take a long time in the bathroom
there will always be a time when the tv is theres and cannot be reached by any means
there may or may not be pictures of half naked guys around your room
there will be many cosmo magazines in a cute little basket somewhere and they will make you take the quizes
they will always ask you why guys are so damn confusing
they will ask you for guy advice like you know how every guy works and what they want
they will not find "pee in her butt" a funny answer
oh ok wow dont do it man
Nov 6 2007 12:14PM
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Ryanvdonk
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that doesn't happen. i live with 3 girls, and i wouldn't call it ideal. you have no say about the house(example, we have a fucking pink beirut table), they're moody, they blame you for shit they should just do themselves (like cleaning a pot for cooking, even though i just clean one i want to use if it's dirty). definitely not my ideal situation. they get kinda bitch sometimes too, though one is cool, we play guitar hero. only one is hot, and she's really into her BF or whatever. on the plus occasionally they cook, like last night one made lasagna. idk, ask if you have any questions, and you are right, they love to watch stupid shows.
Nov 6 2007 12:18PM
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MacMahoooon
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can be pro or con. after 4 of one girls friends they get somewhat possessive of the rest
Nov 6 2007 12:25PM
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Tinga
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this is true you must not get greedy
Nov 6 2007 12:27PM
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Ryanvdonk
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why do you think there's always food around? they eat out all the time. most of the food in the fridge is leftovers that they'll never eat. also, it doesn't really smell any different. though it is weird to find bras lying around, though they keep their underwear in their rooms. i mean, you act like you're sharing a studio apartment, where everything is in the same room. oh, and they don't always ask for guy advice. i can tell you've never lived with girls except your mom. oh yeah, and showing them who's boss does nothing, it just isolates you, cause it's them against you then. also, hooking up with their friends isn't the best idea usually. and also, they'll only listen to you if it fits in their schedule.
Nov 6 2007 12:29PM
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TheQuailman
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this sounds like a terrible idea
Nov 6 2007 12:32PM
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SkierX
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Truth right there.

Girls are BRUTAL when they get in fights with each other.
Nov 6 2007 12:33PM
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eastAR5
Posts: 15084 - Karma: 730
why not? if its completely casual, i dont see how its that bad

"hey hows the morning wood going"

"do you wana fuck quick before class?"

'yea sure"

"aight"
Nov 6 2007 12:39PM
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jimmychung
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yeah don't get involved with any of them.


well, i actually don't see why a good porking once in awhile would hurt anyone.
Nov 6 2007 12:55PM
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beer.
Posts: 3096 - Karma: 44
no dude he is right on the money, I dont know what the girls are like around your neck of the woods.

he gave pretty excellent advice.  the only thing is, I have plenty of bros who live a stones throw away from them, so I will probably be over there for the most part
Nov 6 2007 1:51PM
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crazyfuck
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this right here is reason enough to NEVER live with a girl.
Nov 6 2007 2:53PM
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Liam.
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my brother lived with 4 girls at umass amherst for a year. it has its ups and downs...trying to watch sports is always tough. they did cook for him sometimes but i think overall he would have rather lived with a guy like he does now.
Nov 6 2007 2:55PM
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skiminnesota
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why not just move in with one of your "bros"  who live nearby??     
Nov 6 2007 2:56PM
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crazyfuck
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besides the glaring fact that they might not have an open room?  i mean, call me Cpt. Obvious, but that wasn't too hard for me.
Nov 6 2007 3:06PM
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proZach
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if they're like really good friends of yours, they'll find girls for you to hook up with. i have like 4 girls that are incredibly good friends of mine and always have my back against other girls. they always try to get me in places and they're just really good friends. and then i have plenty of bros that we just chill around and drink beers and shit. all depends on the girls; whether they suck or not.
Nov 6 2007 3:12PM
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tBatt
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well, try it for a semester, if it sucks then boo hoo, its only a few months and you'll know not to do it agian. if it works out fine, then thats even better!
Nov 6 2007 3:28PM
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beer.
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oh I know, its ridiculous.  girls take the lowest blows ever, like I dont know if I could be in the middle of all that.  girls attack each others looks and personal problems, stuff that guys just would never consider bringing up.  its really sad, my female friend bashed another girl for being bulimic calling her "vomit-bitch."  that is just cold.


oh and yeah I would room with one of my bros but they are all full as crazyfuck said.  I dont want a random roommate, i am super laid-back but respectful at the same time.  like its hard to piss me off as long as you dont blast music real loud when i am tryin to sleep or take my food without sharing yours.  otherwise i can study with any noise and I dont mind cleaning up other people's messes.  for the most part I just dont give a fuck, its hard to make me angry.
Nov 6 2007 3:39PM
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-+Siver+-
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good qualities
Nov 6 2007 3:56PM
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Billiards.
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I would definitely do it.
Nov 6 2007 4:11PM
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connoroh
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ok, think about when you have to make a large amount of fecal matter in the bathroom, and you ate wings and chili the night before. That will stink.
Girls do not like that. 

Nov 6 2007 5:16PM
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Ski311
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The only question is, "are you secure?" If this is true, you will find that girl roommates are pretty much the same as guy roommates, they just have different habits, ie. REMEMBER TO PUT THE TOILET SEAT DOWN. That is the only thing you will need to worry about. Other than that, be a normal amount of respectful and you should get along great.
Nov 6 2007 5:44PM
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parkerhouse
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in other words you take it up the ass(high pain tolerance)
Nov 6 2007 5:47PM
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JNew
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haha. true.
Nov 6 2007 5:47PM
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zepscratch
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i would do it, you're all friends so whatever.  and if you do become girly then just go hunting or something manly like that to win back man points
Nov 6 2007 6:40PM
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martin.
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I wouldnt, but only because they'll all be on the same menstrul cycle schedule thing, so they will all be PMSing at the same time
Nov 6 2007 6:57PM
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garrett.
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you could be the bitchiness police. see here at ns we have the price police, so it would be like the same thing. they get in a fight and you step in, "hey hey hey, 3 doors down they were 10% less bitchy than you"
Nov 6 2007 7:03PM
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user098123
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hahaha that's great
Nov 6 2007 7:14PM
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freestyler540
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No matter how cool it would be living with nothing but girls, it will suck after awhile. Listening to then rant about anything would drive me insane. I could live with one, maybe two, but thats it.

Nov 7 2007 11:35AM
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japanada
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i live with 2 girls and 2 guys, and its ok. they can get all moody and shit. funny story, i wake up and go pee, i look down and its a bloody in the toilet, im like no way i just pissed blood, i look more, a tampoon is stuck in the fucking toilet.
Nov 7 2007 11:41AM
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KLovelace
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i lived with a few guys before.. and it was way better than living with a few girls... cause girls just dont get along as well amongst one another.. i guess.
Nov 7 2007 12:05PM
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back_woods
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I live with a girl (just the two of us) right now, its generally cool because we're really old friends, but heres a few more points to consider:
-you will have NO say about how anything except your room looks. Girls have spent their whole lives dreaming about being homemakers and theyre not about to let your' led zepellin poster stand in their way. On the plus side you'll have a tasteful, neat apartement.
- whenever they get theyre period theyre a real pain in the ass
-your bathroom will be phenomenally messy
-If theyre pretty theyre used to everyone, including their male friends, giveing them sepcial treatment. Disabusing them of this notion will be a painful process
-they don't really seem to have the same value system as guys- like they will hound you for a week to make the apartement spotless because their mothers coming by, but when you try to make them to their turn at cleaning the kitchen it wont happen.
-uhh.. basically, live with guys if you can. If you can't, living with girls is fine too, but its a lot of work, you often have to acquise to totally unreasonable situations, and your stress level will go up.
Nov 7 2007 12:20PM
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Itsbackfliptime
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Will you have your own room? If yes, do it. If no, don't.
Nov 7 2007 12:57PM
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FUUUCK
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coin toss
Nov 7 2007 1:05PM
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Ryanvdonk
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umm, fine, listen to the guy who makes shit up, and not the one who lives with 3 girls. i'll be here to say i told you so.
Nov 7 2007 1:08PM
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.John.
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Just make sure you have your own TV in your room
Nov 7 2007 1:17PM
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Mat.
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you gotta do it just for the experience man!
Nov 7 2007 1:24PM
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Tha_Grouch
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I lived with 2 pretty hot asian chicks.. they shared the same room and often shower. It was pretty awesome.

I'd say go for it... but make sure they aren't messy and remeber.. 'don't shit where you eat' If you do.. you'll fuck yourself.. and end up having all the rent burden.
Nov 7 2007 3:41PM
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[fisher]
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do u know how i know ur gay? you want to live with girls.

Don't do it man, girls live completly different lives then us guys.
I know a couple of my buddies who are regretting living with girls because they are bitches about everything.
The only way u would get along with the girls is if you turn gay... or if you are already gay...
Nov 7 2007 4:34PM
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t-roy
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i'm living with one guy friend and 2 girls next year. the guy and one girl have been together for a couple years and the other one is pre-engaged to her dude. it'll be a nice change after living with guys for so long.
Nov 7 2007 6:07PM
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