well i just read the genuis thread posted by hucksplat, *pause for applause*, and i couldnt help but post my feelings on almost the opposite situation. now in the past my relationship with my girlfriend was a little weird, she knew that i'm "sexually experienced" and she was a virgin. this, as i recently found out, intimidated her.
i tell you that to tell you this, she did not put out very much at all. she's well worth it and everything, great looking and really fun (she passes me my skis when i sesh my summer set up) and i like her a lot. this is what made me wait it out and not get fed up with her.
so you lean in for that kiss that will undoubtedly lead to a nice happy ending this time, i mean it must, you've been dating for a while now, theres no reason for it not to. so ur working your manly magic, taking it slowly but not too slowly. she's getting into it, starts pulling you close, everything's golden. and then it happens, you go for the button that seems lately to be like a chastity belt with no existing key, and like a few times before, she changes positions or grabs ur hand away and keeps on making out like nothing happened.
ur sitting there in ur lonely little room you call ur mind thinking to urself, "what.......the hell.......jsut happened? shouldnt we be passed this by now?"
now keeping in mind that this girl is worth ur time, not just some quick f*ck, you let it slide, but what happens when ur forced to let it slide a few too many times? i can say that i waited it out for a while, and it was worth it. but on the ravaging journey to the mountain top to pluck the proverbial flower of my girlfriends southlands i took upon myself various physical and psycological pains (blue balls, wondering if she isnt into me enough)
the only obvious plan of action was to confront her with the question of whether or not she wasnt ready or if she just didnt like me enough to go there (an immature sounding thought i know but w/e)
the night came where i was fed up, and cofrontation was gladly overted with a 2 AM skinny dip in the river near my place followed by a shower to warm up from the cold water.
any similiar experiences with girls out there in the kingdom of newschoolers? frustrating situations that nobel subjects in the community were faced with?