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Is it better to have never loved at all?

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Lanemeyers
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In a twist of the famous saying..... would you rather have experienced love and loss or never experienced love at all?


And I really like my girlfriend alot, she is the best, but sometimes I just wanna punch her in the face for making me angry, cause I really care about her. Is this normal?

on the next dr. phil....

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Aug 7 2003 9:04PM
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Papa
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i dunno man, women are very crazy. you just gotta deal with it, i havn't dated for a long time cause i'd rather bike and ski, women are to time consuming and expensive, someday i'll care about them again, but not at the moment




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Aug 7 2003 9:11PM
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mattster
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fuck these love posts






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Aug 7 2003 9:14PM
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linemaverick540
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shut the hell up, nobody cares about your gya love problems. hell i might have some the next guy might have some.. shit maybe your dog even has a god damn love problem but none of us come on ns and complain about this shit. go cry in the lunchroom, not on ns


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Aug 7 2003 9:18PM
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yeti
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honestly, you (^^^) should just shut the fuck up.




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Aug 7 2003 9:24PM
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Itsbackfliptime
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he never said anything about his love problems. I'm not sure if I'd rather love and lose than never love at all. Love rules and all but it hurts real bad when you lose the person you love.

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Aug 7 2003 9:26PM
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Lanemeyers
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For starters, I eat lunch at my desk, not in the lunchroom. Even if I had a lunchroom I wouldn't eat my lunch there, as I usually go out for lunch, at Subway or Quizno's or something along those lines. I like sandwiches, be it toasted or just regular submarines.

Second of all, go fuck yourself. If you really hate these threads, don't open them up. Skip them. Click on one of the other million threads.

Third....I don't really have a third... I will after you rebutt though.... thanks for being ignorant.

And sorry.....

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Aug 7 2003 9:28PM
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GrippinGs
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my x and i just split yesterday but i can actually say it wasn't because of me...sometimes people need their own space to figure shit out for themselves...i'm bummed but can't do anything about it
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Aug 7 2003 9:29PM
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yeti
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^ yup that's the worst.

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Aug 7 2003 9:30PM
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*Neil
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if u lose love just think how lucky u where to find it in the 1st place... then go look for it again
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Our world is in peril. Gaia, the Spirit of the Earth, can no longer stand the terrible destruction plagueing our planet. She sends five magic rings to five special young people: Kwame, from Africa, with the power of Earth. From North America, Wheeler, with the power of Fire. From Eastern Europe, Linka, with the power of Wind. From Asia, Gi, with the power of Water. And from South America, Ma-Ti, with the power of Heart. When the five powers combine, they summon Earth's greatest champion, Captain Planet!
Aug 7 2003 9:56PM
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GrippinGs
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i can't tho cuz i'm still stuck on her...its awsome tho cuz i'm good friends with her best friend so that makes it easier
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Aug 7 2003 10:01PM
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Capurnicus
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I still feel bad for you.

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Aug 7 2003 10:06PM
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linemaverick540
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honestly, this is retarded im sure there are other sites for this. im sick of all these threads about love problems... and yea he did mention them about how he wants to punch his girlfriend. i come here for entertainment, not whining. if i wanted that id go listen to good charlotte or simple plan


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Aug 7 2003 10:36PM
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tan
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he does propose a good point thogh


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Aug 7 2003 10:41PM
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Freeskifro
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^agree..... girls are hot....take them skiing.... just go for it.





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Aug 7 2003 10:42PM
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*Neil
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go to ski gabber then bitch
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THE POWER IS YOURS

Our world is in peril. Gaia, the Spirit of the Earth, can no longer stand the terrible destruction plagueing our planet. She sends five magic rings to five special young people: Kwame, from Africa, with the power of Earth. From North America, Wheeler, with the power of Fire. From Eastern Europe, Linka, with the power of Wind. From Asia, Gi, with the power of Water. And from South America, Ma-Ti, with the power of Heart. When the five powers combine, they summon Earth's greatest champion, Captain Planet!
Aug 7 2003 10:43PM
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tan
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he does propose a good point thogh


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Aug 7 2003 10:43PM
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Ski_Instructor_Mike
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does this mean you're shaving the scruff of your face?
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Aug 7 2003 10:46PM
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gravteck
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I think it depends. I don't know how old most of you are, but loving and losing in highschool is no big deal at all. Wait until you grow up a little more and the person in your life actually affects how you see your future. Losing love is a lot more messed up when there were hopes and plans for the future. There's a lot of good, and a lot of bad in love... and sometimes I have to say the bad isn't necessarily worth the good, especially if you're good at being independant.
Aug 7 2003 10:49PM
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GrippinGs
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^^^matt is smart..listen to matt^^^
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Aug 7 2003 10:54PM
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QuazBotch
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Love scares me. I will destroy it should it come within a 1km radius of myself or any of my limbs, attached or severed.
Aug 7 2003 10:56PM
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Freeskifro
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Gravtek... I don't know who you are, but you have just enlightened me. That is a good point.





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Aug 7 2003 10:56PM
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sherLocke
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linemaverick dont get your twot in a knot because youve never had a girlfriend and you like having sausage fests with your 12 year old friends. if you dont like the thread, then dont post in it please.

id have to say its better to love then lose because at least you had the chance to be in love which is a great thing. and when you lose it makes you appreciate everything much more. everyone should love and lose at least once in their life.
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Aug 7 2003 10:58PM
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sherLocke
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linemaverick dont get your twot in a knot because youve never had a girlfriend and you like having sausage fests with your 12 year old friends. if you dont like the thread, then dont post in it please.

id have to say its better to love then lose because at least you had the chance to be in love which is a great thing. and when you lose it makes you appreciate everything much more. everyone should love and lose at least once in their life.
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Aug 7 2003 10:58PM
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*Neil
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so, we hide from the risk of loosing love? 'The biggest risk in life is not to risk anything at all'- Nelson Mandella. Better to love and loose then to never love and be lonly... plus i dont think it is possible for some person to live a long life never falling in love or deeply facinated with aother humanbeen, Its just how its ment to be so why go against it in fear of being hurt... You guys are all giant pussys
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THE POWER IS YOURS

Our world is in peril. Gaia, the Spirit of the Earth, can no longer stand the terrible destruction plagueing our planet. She sends five magic rings to five special young people: Kwame, from Africa, with the power of Earth. From North America, Wheeler, with the power of Fire. From Eastern Europe, Linka, with the power of Wind. From Asia, Gi, with the power of Water. And from South America, Ma-Ti, with the power of Heart. When the five powers combine, they summon Earth's greatest champion, Captain Planet!
Aug 7 2003 10:59PM
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LC.
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It's definately better to have never loved at all. 'You don't know what you've got til it's gone', right? Conversely (or should that be inversely?), it could be said that you don't know what you haven't got til you've had it. Ignorance is bliss.
Aug 7 2003 10:59PM
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Tiffy
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Yeah I'd have to agree with two up from me... In High school loving at all out-weighs the losing, but when it gets to people considering spending the rest of their lives with people and then having that all fall apart, that just crushes your world... hell, look at half of the divorced americans, they are miserable for years after and find it so hard to start dating when you thought it was 'meant to be' ... But at our age (most of us) I'd say go for the moment, after sucks, but just member all the good stuff, it's worth it for us.
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Aug 7 2003 11:01PM
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GrippinGs
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ya it does make u miss and appreciate everything u had that much more...snonasty's got it
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Aug 7 2003 11:01PM
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*Neil
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Soo you guys plan on growning up and never finding some person to spend your life with?
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THE POWER IS YOURS

Our world is in peril. Gaia, the Spirit of the Earth, can no longer stand the terrible destruction plagueing our planet. She sends five magic rings to five special young people: Kwame, from Africa, with the power of Earth. From North America, Wheeler, with the power of Fire. From Eastern Europe, Linka, with the power of Wind. From Asia, Gi, with the power of Water. And from South America, Ma-Ti, with the power of Heart. When the five powers combine, they summon Earth's greatest champion, Captain Planet!
Aug 7 2003 11:03PM
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Rogge
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i asked myself that recently and I believe there is one person for everybody and you'll know when you've met her. I think everybody has to have their heart broken badly before they can truly fall in love with someone



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Aug 7 2003 11:19PM
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linemaverick540
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wel since you asked nicely....


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Aug 7 2003 11:19PM
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yeti
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here's the thing thougn...if you've never loved, how can you possibly know what loneliness is?

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Aug 7 2003 11:24PM
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therealjerk
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wait, yeti, are you saying you have to experience both sides cause i think thats a moot point...


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Aug 7 2003 11:34PM
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ThisAngelicRage
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Definitely better to have loved, it's so worth it- the knowledge you take away from an experience like being in love. And after being in bad relationships some people clam up and decide not to date but without the relationships that were bad or ended badly, how would the 'one true' (not necessarily one) love be honorable?




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Aug 7 2003 11:39PM
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yeti
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I was just responding to what Neil said up above.



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Aug 7 2003 11:44PM
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LC.
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Yeti - that's exactly my point. I've never been 'in love', and my life is great just now, so I've got no great desire to find a girl to settle down with. Whereas someone who has 'loved and lost' will always be trying to get back into a serious relationship.
Aug 7 2003 11:45PM
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*Neil
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good question... From my expirence iv never loved bu ill use another example. Before i had my job this summer i was very lonly cuz all my friends had hoobies and things to do in the summer.where as i had nuthing but tv.... So if your at the stage of life were all your friends are getting married settling down with a fammily, and u are still living alone i think u will wish u had what they have and feel lonly. Mamby it wont be as bad as if u just brokeup from a major relation ship, but even there time will feel the pain and the lonlyness and the person will be able to move on...
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THE POWER IS YOURS

Our world is in peril. Gaia, the Spirit of the Earth, can no longer stand the terrible destruction plagueing our planet. She sends five magic rings to five special young people: Kwame, from Africa, with the power of Earth. From North America, Wheeler, with the power of Fire. From Eastern Europe, Linka, with the power of Wind. From Asia, Gi, with the power of Water. And from South America, Ma-Ti, with the power of Heart. When the five powers combine, they summon Earth's greatest champion, Captain Planet!
Aug 7 2003 11:58PM
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therealjerk
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ok, im not really sure where everybody here is in their lives and shit but hell, i've fucked up a really good friendship, really recently, because i was mostly joking about 'settling down' and my joke was directed way in the future and... i dunno, its just really touchy and stupid to be talking about finding that one person right now. if you broke up and you really thought that one person was 'your one person' shit would either work out and you'd come back to eachother or you would go your separate ways, the latter just proving that she/he wasnt the one. just dont burn any bridges, whatever you do. uh oh, i feel a rant coming on


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Aug 8 2003 12:31AM
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Rogge
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yeti makes a great point. my friend bryan has never had a gf and hes the happiest kid i've ever known. his parents were divorced when he was very young and he's never been loved so he doesn;t understnad lonliness but on the other hand he's missing out on what i believe is one of the greatest unexplainable things ever



'Some day's your the dog and other days you're the hydrant asshole'
-my uncle Gary telling me his philosophy on life while drunk in a bar

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Aug 8 2003 12:33AM
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Capurnicus
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I agree that post-love you might have longing feelings for what was once yours and what once brought light into your life...but it's soo worthwhile and can make your days and your time and your mind sooo much happier.

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Aug 8 2003 12:36AM
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love, is worth it even if it ends hard

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Aug 8 2003 3:28AM
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id rather love... and lose..
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Aug 8 2003 3:29AM
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hey fuck you how does g c whine. and if u didnt want to listen to that u could umm, not listen to their music. hmm so simple. god damn, i heard this on here, and its true. here goes, and i quote, arguing with people on the internet is like running in the special olympics. even if you win your still retarted
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Aug 8 2003 4:40AM
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ive been in love only once...and i still am

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Aug 8 2003 6:39AM
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stixonmtholly
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better to love, love is great but it is also not easy. Loving someone is a huge responsibility and you learn it through patience. If you have loving parents falling in love isn't so stressful cause your around good love hence it is positive. I think homes without loving parents tend to bred people who shy away from love and think of it as something negative. I've been married for 8 years and been with my wife for 9 and I can honestly say that my life is two fold better than when I was without her. We have a loving affectionate relationship together where we show our kids that it is alright to hug and kiss and tell them how much we love each other and how we can't imagine life without each other. Don't let love pass you by, could be the biggest mistake of your life.


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Aug 8 2003 1:28PM
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1212j5j5
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holy shit.. that dude has kids!
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Aug 8 2003 1:36PM
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stixonmtholly
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yes kids can happen when two people of the opposite sex conjoin in expressing their love.
(sorry I don't mean to gross you out you can go barf now I understand)


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Aug 8 2003 1:59PM
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ThisAngelicRage
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Dude, how old are your kids?




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Aug 8 2003 2:04PM
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stixonmtholly
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three girls 7, 5 & 2 so two out of three are in school. We are looking forward to having them all in school so we can ski together during the day. Kids are awesome cause you get to let them do things that your parents didn't let you do.(within reason of course)


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Aug 8 2003 2:10PM
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wow, and i thougth the oldest people here are around 23 or 24. how old are you and what do you like/dislike about a marry life?
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Aug 8 2003 2:36PM
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Lanemeyers
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Why experience more pain then is already necessary in this world? When I was in high school, and had all these emotions, I thought I fell in love with every girl I saw, I'd even chase girls down the highway for a few minutes in hopes that we'd pull over to the shoulder and confess our undying love for each other.... I'm just realizing that all those feelings were just over-emotional (probably just a mild hard-on really).

I think falling in love is a huge step. It's you throwing yourself out there, pretty much as vulnerable as you can get. It's trust, it's commitment, and it's patience and understanding. It teaches you all of the above. You have to put all of that in to it for it to work. I think it's love when you're willing to do all of that.

Getting hurt sucks. But I guess it's important that we live every moment as if it is our last. To be happy now, carpe diem, blah, blah, blah, in which case.... love as much as you can, as it's a great place to be..... it might be great and it might be hell, but I'd like to think that the good times will always outweigh the bad times....

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