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crooks
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ok so i know that everyone is going to say ladies men cult, but i need ur opinions quick...

there's this girl who lives in one of my best friend's town, and ive hung out with her only like 5 times, but we talk a ton... 2 nights ago we went into boston and we were together for like 5 hours and then last night we were at my friends house for another 5 hours... and like me and her were together a ton, and we were always walking in the back and holding hands and last night we looked at the starts and we walked her back home which is a 30 minute walk and we held hands the wholee way and she like clinged on to me

but i am not sure if she likes me, becuase she is a flirty girl and flirts a little with guys, but she was like defidently more flirty to me, and she kept saying all this stuff to me about how nice i am too...

so how do i ask her if she likes me without ruining our friendship? and this really sucks because im so whipped

please help
Aug 5 2006 11:40PM
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Aseets
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She likes you, I don't think girls just do that. She might not think you're the only one for her, but if you go for it, she'll go with it.
Aug 5 2006 11:42PM
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Ski_Unit_19
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dude if you were holding hands then she clearly likes you... damn son, your better then that
Aug 5 2006 11:42PM
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Kevo
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so here is the deal. Make a move. End of story.
Aug 5 2006 11:43PM
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crooks
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but idk cuz she flirts with everyone but it seemed like she did a ton more with me by alott

but this girl is so much different, like having fun with her doesnt mean making out and doing shit like that, i would be just as happy just being with her
Aug 5 2006 11:45PM
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crooks
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and i like feel so comfortable around her to, like i can anything

but idk if she thinks we are just good friends
Aug 5 2006 11:46PM
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sexy_skier_babii
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she likes you she wouldn't spend all the time with only you, holding hands with you, and telling you stuff if she didn't she wouldn't want to waste her time.
Aug 5 2006 11:46PM
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Aseets
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Pretty much same shit with my girl and I. We were in friend mode for 6+ months and then we started getting closer and so on. Until I made my move. After that she said, "What the hell took you so long?" Grab her butt and kiss her, end of story.
Aug 5 2006 11:49PM
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crooks
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but idk if i wanna make it move because im a pussy about that kinda stuff like making a move when idk if the girl likes me, and it would be so hard to ask her strait out because if she said she wanted to be friends then it would like ruin our friendship because it would be soo awkward
Aug 5 2006 11:56PM
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sexy_skier_babii
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if you walk home under the stars again just like grab her and stare into her eyes and smile and move in slowly, if she likes you she'll let you make the move or move in.
Aug 5 2006 11:57PM
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crooks
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yea but its hard because if i am with her then that means i am with my friend ryan, like last night it was me, 2 other guys and these 2 twin girls, so it would be hard to make a move in front of 4 other ppl
Aug 6 2006 12:00AM
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hollygrove
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Wait, are you saying she has a twin? Dayyum!
Aug 6 2006 12:03AM
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Aseets
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Just start hanging out along with her. Scary sure, but just do it, you'll be glad you did either way later on.
Aug 6 2006 12:04AM
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crooks
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noo the other girls were twins, and one of them is ugly and one is decent but she has a bf
Aug 6 2006 12:05AM
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.Brink.
Posts: 1622 - Karma: 188
just make your move, she'll go with it.
Aug 6 2006 1:54AM
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jonnydub
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just go for it.  you don't really have much to lose.  if you don't you are going to regret it later.
Aug 6 2006 2:21AM
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holyDINOSAURS
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yeah just do it
Aug 6 2006 2:48AM
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AngryFromBend
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make a move before she changes her mind.
Aug 6 2006 3:12AM
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fujarome
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what town near boston is it?

just make a move, the worst thatll happen is her just saying no. and besides, then youd have a reason to come back and make a thread bitching about her.
Aug 6 2006 3:17AM
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Powdahound
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Yo fuck bitches they pull some dumb shit man
Aug 6 2006 3:33AM
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Itsbackfliptime
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Just ask her to the movies or dinner or something. But don't go with other friends. Just you two. Chances are that if she'll go with you alone she likes you.
Aug 6 2006 7:00AM
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Mr_Bojangles
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^word, someone hook this brother up with an invite.
Aug 6 2006 8:16AM
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Jake...
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im on it
Aug 6 2006 9:08AM
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bangarangmules
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it definatley sounds like she likes you dude.you should make a move.
Aug 6 2006 9:23AM
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doitbig
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you already got her man, you should've made the move.
Aug 6 2006 9:30AM
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bobs
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I knew a girl that was praticaly the same thing. we had been friends for so long i couldn't figure her out.  In the end she made the first move and goes "you were taking too long" smiled and we went back at it.

Aug 6 2006 10:29AM
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kabozo101
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exactly if she was doin all that and sorta clinging onto you then she prolly likes you and go for it
Aug 6 2006 10:37AM
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crooks
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ok thanks everyone for your help, i'm going into boston with her alone on thursday and go out to eat with her alone so ill ask her then
Aug 6 2006 10:40AM
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sneather
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ya just go for it .. make the first move
Aug 6 2006 10:41AM
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rhcp
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Yeah what town? (though im staying in Boston right now anyway) But seriously, make the move. Look at it this way, if you dont you will regret doing so for awhile. if you do she'll most likely go along with it. if you do and she doesnt go along with it shes a bitch for leading you on in such a big way and isnt worth your time. stop being such a goddamn vagina!
Aug 6 2006 10:45AM
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crooks
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haha im sorry

and i live in milton, which is 2 commuter rail stops out of boston, it takes me 5 minutes on the train
Aug 6 2006 10:49AM
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tBatt
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ooo holding hands :O back to 2nd grade!

but seriously, just go for it, you've got nothin to loose
Aug 6 2006 11:02AM
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Chris862
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wow. good luck and all, but get some fuckin cojones on the double.
Aug 6 2006 11:14AM
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InfernoHits
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how do I ask her without ruining our friendship? DUDE YOU"VE KNOWN HER FOR 5 DAYS. There can't be that much of a friendship to ruin so just go for it and if you ruin it well there goes your 5 day amazing relationship
Aug 6 2006 11:45AM
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crooks
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no ive known her since may
Aug 6 2006 11:46AM
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Tinga
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dump her ass
Aug 6 2006 11:49AM
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skogenjake
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"last night we looked at the starts"

this is where you should have made your move. try it again. and yes, she probablly likes you. just be prepared to face it when its fucking over and you cant be friends anymore because she slowly fucking tore you heart instead of jjust breaking it and going.
Aug 6 2006 12:00PM
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Notorious_BLT
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dude give her a "good night kiss" if she pulls away no biggie, but i doubt she will
Aug 6 2006 12:01PM
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doitbig
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dame jake, you wanna talk? haha
Aug 6 2006 1:15PM
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michelle
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make a move! just do it!
Aug 6 2006 1:19PM
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Edward.
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im pretty sure she likes you because she probably doesnt hold other guys' hands for 5 hours
Aug 6 2006 1:34PM
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bighit
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^hey u never no man she could...but seriously stop being an idiot and just do yo thang baby!
Aug 6 2006 1:54PM
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SSteezle
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im not good when it comes to girls. but im starting to realize girls are alot like us. they also want to get some ass....go for it buddy
Aug 6 2006 1:59PM
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zepscratch
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you have to figure out if she likes u through actions not actually asking her
Aug 6 2006 2:00PM
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DiamondC
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do nottttt ask her if she likes you. she does man no worries. if u ask her if she likes u it may make things akward for when u talk or hang out... not necissarily but it does happen. just keep doing wat ur doing balls up and make a move next time. then after u make a move, let her call u. and if she doesnt, and u really like her, u call her, set up plans and shit. but wat ever u do dont seem overly like excited or nervous or anything just be chill.
Aug 6 2006 2:45PM
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n-o
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damn you nomenstevens you beat me!~
Aug 6 2006 3:12PM
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DiamondC
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hahah
Aug 6 2006 4:53PM
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Greenish
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give her a kiss when you say bye to her next time. or just straight up ask her what she want's to happen
Aug 6 2006 5:11PM
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CMF
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just next time you drop her off at her house or what ever go in for the kiss
Aug 6 2006 5:51PM
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unrigged
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like someone said before make a move and stop being a pussy. What is the worst that could happen she says oh i want to be friends. Big deal man. There is lots of chicks out there. Don't put the pussy on an petistule. (not sure how u spell that) but go in.
Aug 6 2006 5:53PM
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CMF
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pedistle? i think...
Aug 6 2006 5:55PM
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